Young life, how to get along with desire?

Desire is normal. I remember when I was in business school, the teacher told us to strive for a long voyage. When you are young, it is not the time to cultivate your self-cultivation. We need to play our wolf nature when we are young.

So it must be a good thing to have the desire to tell yourself, just like acne in youth. A certain degree of desire proves that you are still young.

Second, when you have a desire, tell yourself what your deepest desire is, that is, to see things other than material things, such as why some people love brand-name bags, some people want to show off, but some people ask what is the motivation behind material desires, because they like fine things. Motivation is more important than anything else, because it leads us to the best future.

Third, when you have a wish, you should learn to realize it in a reasonable way. As we always say, the next best thing is to make a net. Only when you find the way to achieve your goal, your mobility and learning ability are just right. So quantify your goals and let them be reflected in your daily life, so that you can better control your life by seeing the process of achieving your goals every day.

Generally speaking, desire is not terrible. The terrible thing is that we lost our fighting spirit, couldn't find a way to realize our wishes, and lived in regret for the rest of our lives. This is the most disappointing thing, so work hard when you have desire.

I am Tang Ruo, a workplace psychological counselor, and I am willing to grow up with you.