2. Did you choose not to have children and negotiate with your husband? If not, your decision is really unfair to him.
Some people say that children are the crystallization of love. Children are also the bond between family and husband and wife. If your husband wants to have children and you don't, over time, your relationship will face a crisis. Your husband may love you very much, but what kind of situation will you face when he is happy with other people's family of three, when he shows fatherly love for other people's children, and when another woman is willing to have children for him? People will change, but don't create this condition and premise.
4. Don't do it at this time. What do you want in ten years or more? If you miss the best childbearing age, you will face more trouble.
If your husband insists on not wanting it, forget it. But I'm not sure you won't regret it in ten or twenty years.