Children under one or two years old usually live with their mothers. If the child is under two years old, the two sides compete for the custody of the child and cannot reach an agreement. Unless the woman suffers from infectious diseases or other serious diseases that cannot be cured for a long time and is not suitable for living with the child, the general court will award the custody to the woman;
Second, if both parties are over 10 years old, there is a dispute over the ownership of custody, and the children's opinions should be considered. Therefore, if a child is over ten years old and wants to win custody of the child, it is necessary to get the child's approval and make the child more willing to live with his mother. Of course, it is cruel to let children make such an either-or choice.
Third, for children over 2 years old 10 years old, women can give priority when seeking custody of children as follows:
1. The woman has been sterilized or lost fertility for other reasons;
2 children live with the woman for a long time, and changing the living environment is obviously not conducive to the healthy growth of children;
3. There are no other children, but the man has other children;
4. On the premise that there is little difference between the male and female rearing conditions such as stable work and income, if the man is at fault for the breakdown of the marriage relationship, such as family violence, evidence of extramarital affairs, etc., it is more likely to award the child to the woman.
This person has bad habits, such as gambling and drinking. Considering that their bad habits have a negative impact on their children's growth, the court will generally award the children to the woman.
6. If there is no obvious fault between men and women, then all conditions are equal. If the woman has better ideological quality and more time to take care of the children, she is more likely to get custody of the children.
8. The conditions for parents to raise children are basically the same. Both sides require their children to live with their parents. However, if the children have lived alone with their grandparents for many years, and the grandparents require and have the ability to help the children take care of their grandchildren, they can be considered as a priority condition for the children to live with their parents.
In addition, under the premise of protecting the interests of children, parents can agree to take turns to raise their children. But the specific operation must be scientific and reasonable, and the healthy growth of children must be guaranteed.