Neighbors get along well and are closer than relatives, so-called? Distant relatives are not as good as close neighbors? That's what it means. If they don't get along well, the two families are enemies who share the same problem.
We know that fire and water are incompatible, and it is a very bad thing for neighbors to have such a bad situation.
Before this, there was news on the Internet that a murder occurred in a village in Chaozhou City, Guangdong Province. The local police also reported the case at the time.
Judging from media reports, the story at that time was probably like this.
First he got drunk alone, and then he went straight to his neighbor's house under the influence of alcohol.
What was he doing at the neighbor's house?
It must be troublesome to go to someone else when you are drunk. The man went straight to his neighbor's house with a sharp knife and stabbed a female neighbor to the ground.
The female neighbor fell to the ground on the spot and was rushed to the hospital for emergency treatment. Unfortunately, the female neighbor died after resuscitation failed.
Judging from the police report, the main reason for this murder was the conflict between the criminal suspect Shen and his neighbors. Because he had drunk too much that day, and under the influence of alcohol, he stabbed the female neighbor with a knife.
Judging from the pictures released by online media, there is a woman lying in a pool of blood, her life or death unknown. Judging from the scene, the murderer's methods were quite brutal.
This incident also tells us a truth: don’t be impulsive when things happen. Especially those who like to drink, don't do stupid things after drinking. People who live next to drunkards must also take precautions and don't provoke them. Because no one knows what these people will do when they are drunk and crazy.
In fact, neighbors must strive to become better, because if you lower your head, you will not dare to raise your head. We live in the same place and see each other almost every day, but we don't say hello after meeting. How embarrassed are we? There is a huge difference between being happy as soon as you go out and being angry as soon as you go out.
From this article we can see that it is normal for neighbors to not get along well with each other. If there are conflicts, resolve them promptly. Don't think of it as if you have an enemy. If both sides get along, each side gives in half, what can be lost? Admitting your mistakes to your neighbor is not much shorter than others. Even if you are condescending, isn't it much better than losing your life suddenly?
As the saying goes, neighbors are closer than relatives if they get along well, but if they don’t get along well, they are like incompatible enemies. But how to deal with it depends on how the two companies control it. I think you can let go of trivial matters and don't worry about them. Many neighbors have been very noisy, mainly because of these trivial things.
Neighborhood is also a science. Two families must live in harmony, share weal and woe, and support each other. This is the healthiest neighborly relationship.