Why do women with good careers generally have poor marriages?

I found a phenomenon that successful women often have unhappy marriages and a high divorce rate. A better ending, they finally have a lover around. In the worst case, there is not even a man around them. Even some unmarried women started their own businesses, started their own companies, earned their own money, bought their own cars and houses, and finally became unmarried women.

Why is this? Is it wrong for me to try to be an excellent woman?

In fact, this is because of the output of social values today.

The current values define people with big assets and good careers as excellent people and capable people. There's nothing wrong with that. It is good to be a hard worker. However, due to value-oriented reasons, it has become the direction of efforts, in order to make money and start a business.

In a horoscope, you can understand this life phenomenon as a structure, which has a special term called pattern. When the pattern is formed, people will do things related to this pattern. The horror is that once the pattern is formed, the timeline will be extended for at least 8 years or even longer. In other words, the pattern has formed a closed time circle, and people will keep spinning in this circle. All the energy of people will act on the pattern, so the energy representing husband and family can't be cut in. The couple who are light have conflicts, or haven't seen each other for many years, and the couple who are heavy simply divorce.

A common phenomenon is that husband and wife start a business together, and when they are not rich, they lead a dull life, but when they are rich, they cannot divorce. In other words, if you are rich, the pattern will be successful and your family will be scattered. The higher the degree of career development, the greater the power of this exclusion. Because women are also involved in management. In her eight characters, it is a qualified phenomenon.

Some women will be very wronged, and I don't want to be like this, but there are no reliable men around. I don't depend on myself. From the perspective of causal logic, this is not because women can't have reliable men around them, so they should work hard. It's a woman's eight-character pattern, and all her energy in her career is devoted to making money, so there can be no reliable man in life. I met such a woman who sells luxury goods. She is excellent, and she is superior to many men in speech and knowledge. Chatted with me for a long time, all about career, and didn't say anything about marriage at the last sentence. In other words, her eight-character structure has caused her to never need a man again in her life. From the perspective of realistic psychology, it belongs to completely losing confidence in men and no longer thinking about it.

In fact, if a woman can give up completely, it's good to live alone. Loneliness is the greatest reward in life. As long as people are willing to enjoy loneliness and feel completely comfortable, it is actually a good thing. People? Comfort is the most important thing.

Paradoxically, women have a tendency in innate psychology: to pursue integrity. Because women's innate structure is incomplete, their acquired psychological needs are extremely eager to be complete, and the things that fill this demand are husbands and children. Therefore, no matter how rich a woman is, there are no men around her, or you are satisfied with material life, but you can't have children. After all, you feel sorry in your heart.

Therefore, outstanding women with successful careers, the biggest export channel in their spare time, are all kinds of training courses. What psychology, spiritualism, personal therapy, yoga, and so on. A woman with a real good family relationship, loving husband and wife, and the whole energy field is focused on the family, is unlikely to participate in social activities and group gatherings often. This is the reason of people's own energy structure.

Conclusion: I believe that the balance between career and family is what everyone wants to do. There is nothing wrong with pursuing a sense of superiority in life, which was originally a necessary driving force for social development. But the ideal and safe division of labor is that men make money and women keep the house. Once a woman is strong, it is basically difficult to maintain a harmonious family life. This is not advocating so-called male chauvinism. But the objective law of yin and yang.

Tiancheng Metaphysics Studio Teacher Li