Sleep late on Sunday morning, have breakfast, and then go out for activities! Bao Xiao immediately responded, "Good! Go cycling! " We hit it off, Bao Xiao pushed the little red car, and I packed my things and went out with him.
He pushed the car himself, rode down all the way, met an uphill, and specifically said to him, "I'll do it myself, just watch!" " "I stood obediently watching, a small slope, pulling and pushing, had to move, and it took a long time to move.
I can't take it anymore. I was about to help, but I was stopped again. All right! On your own! Finally, he went up, and he said with satisfaction, "Look how powerful I am!" " All right! Forget it!
With two small wheels, he is very skilled in riding, so I want him to get rid of the auxiliary small wheels and learn two-wheeled vehicles. Because I tried it once before, it didn't work, which left him a bad memory, so I said carefully, "Bao Xiao, you have grown up!" Looking at the little red car looks very small. "
Without thinking, he swaggered and said, "Yes!"
"Well, how about I take off the little wheel and you try to ride a two-wheeled bike like an adult?"
He replied simply and neatly: "No! I can wrestle! "
I didn't speak, and he continued to walk in the direction of the park. When I arrived at the park, I rode around the track. I made another suggestion in the middle, but he refused cruelly!
Adults and children like to wander in the comfort zone, which is a kind of imprisonment. Once you break through the comfort zone, people's horizons and knowledge are completely different. However, if you want to challenge, you must have courage besides interest. When your own strength is insufficient, you must have someone to help you and encourage you.
At this time, we came to the square. There are many people, including roller skaters, cyclists and skateboarders. Many children gathered here and found a place with few people to stop. This time, I just said flatly, let's tear down the boat, tearing it down while talking, and it will be torn down soon.
Maybe out of curiosity, maybe he wanted to try, maybe he saw his brothers riding two-wheeled carts in the park and shuttling quickly in the square, which made him envious. In short, there is no resistance or opposition, and my heart is secretly pleased.
"Come on up, I'll hold you, and I won't let you fall!" He wriggled and reluctantly got on the bus, which made me happy again. He clutched the handlebar tightly and looked dignified. I held his waist and ran after him.
He pulled me and said, "mom, don't let go!" " "
"Don't worry!" I comforted him and said
I told him with my cycling experience: "Hold the handlebar, I'll give you a push first, and then you can accelerate slowly." He listened carefully and did it. I am stiff, I can't find my balance, I always stagger, I can't find the feeling of riding a bike, let alone I have a sense of accomplishment, so I naturally have no interest in running the second lap.
He pretended to be smart and said, I'll find my sister who drives a toy car. He ran away. I have to say, "All right!"
When he came back, I greeted him with a cup in my hand and said, "How about drinking some water and trying again?" ! A two-wheeled bicycle is fast and easy to ride. It feels like flying! "
He shirked and said, "Wait a minute, I'll play for a while!" " "
How can we make him accept the challenge willingly? I searched my mind for some limited methods: reason with him; Induce and reward him; Really can't. Don't change color, behave yourself! Hey! This is the last killer's mace.
At this time, it happened that two big boys rode by here. I thought my chance came and called him, "Bao Xiao, come here quickly!" Look how well my brother rides. You should try it! We still have a car at home. Those two cars are beautiful. If you learn to ride a bike, that car will be yours! "
Hearing that there was a new car, his interest came and he leaned over and asked, "What about that car?" Whose is it? Can I really have it? What color is that? Do you have a speed change wheel? "
I thought to myself: there is a play!
I patiently said to him, "That car is my brother's. My father gave it to him when he learned to ride a two-wheeled bicycle. " It's still good now. Go home and visit him on the balcony! "
He said expectantly, "All right! Let's start learning! "
This time, he said to himself, "Mom, hold me steady, please push me!" " "I gave him a push, grabbed him tightly and told him to speed up!
He stepped on the pedal faster, and I followed, from holding his waist to just holding his hat.
"Bao Xiao, already riding a horse! I let go! Enough! You have learned! " I shouted excitedly
He doesn't dare to say anything when he is nervous, but I can feel his joy.
Next, I don't need to rush him. I said take a ride, but he refused to go back. After running a few laps, I can't stand it. I followed, out of breath. I said, "little ancestor, you are going to kill me!" " His foot touched the ground and stopped.
I'm exhausted. He proudly said, "Mom, I'm not tired at all!" " Let's do it again! "I shook my head in horror and said," wait a minute, wait a minute, let me have a rest! " "
In this way, a child learned to ride a bike. The child's mother gasped and smiled contentedly!