Many middle-aged men envy their peers for having young wives, and feel that they are high-spirited and particularly proud. However, without experience, there is no right to speak. In real life, what is the life of middle-aged people who have married young girls?
Lao Meng is a typical "hot potato" in the eyes of young girls.
He has a successful career, a house, a car and savings. /kloc-divorced his ex-wife 0/0 years ago because of emotional problems. His daughter and ex-wife have gone abroad, and they can't talk on the phone several times a year, let alone meet each other.
The mature and steady temperament of Lao Meng has a fatal attraction to young girls. At a social gathering, I met Xiao Guo, a girl 26 years younger than him, and they left contact information with each other. Because of the age gap, Lao Meng never thought about love, but Xiao Guo seemed to fall in love with him at first sight, completely ignoring his age, so he pursued him.
At first, Lao Meng hesitated, but she couldn't stand the provocation of a beautiful, lively and cheerful girl and fell in love for a long time. They soon lived together. When I first moved in together, Lao Meng had a good time. With his young and lively little girlfriend, I feel much younger, and it's especially honorable to take it out to meet friends.
Due to some objective reasons, Lao Meng was very worried and did not agree to Xiao Guo's proposal. It was not until a year later that Xiaoguo became pregnant that they got married. At that time, Lao Meng was 49 years old and Xiao Guo was 23 years old.
After marriage, the initial passion gradually faded and life showed its true colors. However, Lao Meng was embarrassed again and again in this enviable marriage.
Xiaoguo's parents are two years younger than Lao Meng, and there is a brother who is only two years older than her. It doesn't matter if everyone doesn't meet at ordinary times. Once they meet, they are very uncomfortable and don't know how to address each other.
Guo is young and doesn't care about many things. Every time she goes back to her mother's house, she always loves to hold her husband. This makes Lao Meng very worried. He is determined to struggle in business. Seeing his wife's house, he had nowhere to put his hands and feet. This seems disrespectful. However, younger than himself, he can't call his parents.
One year during the Spring Festival, Guo wanted to take him back to his parents' home for the New Year, but Lao Meng crustily skin of head and agreed. As a result, there are many relatives at home, all older than him and younger than him. He couldn't call them, just nodded quickly, and the other party just nodded awkwardly. Lao Meng felt that a room full of people became uncomfortable because of his existence, but it happened that heartless Guo ignored him and kept pulling him to befriend his family.
After that, Lao Meng said that he would not accompany Guo back to her family. Therefore, Guo was angry with him more than once.
When Lao Meng was 50 years old, Xiaoguo gave birth to a big fat boy. Old Meng is naturally happy to have a son when he is old. Whenever he has time, he will visit his son in Doby. However, he doesn't like to take his children out, especially a family of three, because people will always misunderstand him as it runs in the family.
After his son was vaccinated, Xiaoguo asked Lao Meng to do his father's duty together. It never occurred to me that they met a talkative nurse in the hospital. When they saw Lao Meng holding a crying child who had just had an injection, they couldn't coax him well, while Xiao Guo was playing with his mobile phone over there. He shouted: "Who, stop playing, please coax the child, your father is sweating." Lao Meng was particularly embarrassed and at a loss when he saw the nurse treating himself and his wife as father and daughter.
Xiao Guo is very generous He came over and took the child from Lao Meng and said to the nurse, "I don't know. Don't talk nonsense He is not my father, but my husband. " The nurse paused and quickly apologized to them. Old Meng Zhen wished he had no cracks.
Later, Lao Meng and Xiao Guo discussed whether he could take the children as little as possible or go out with them. He will be embarrassed if he is misunderstood by others. Guo didn't understand why Lao Meng was embarrassed, saying that they were decent people and had nothing to hide, so why they couldn't take their children out.
The 50-year-old Meng is usually busy with work and entertainment, and his body begins to gain weight. In terms of husband and wife life, he is often at a loss. This kind of thing, Lao Meng can't say, he is afraid of being rejected by kannika nimtragol, saying that he can't. Therefore, he always used an excuse to socialize and waited for Guo to sleep before coming back.
As for Guo, she didn't understand how her husband was so busy that he didn't even have time to be near her. Sometimes, she can't help but suspect that Lao Meng has ulterior motives, so she always pesters him for answers, but Lao Meng can't find a reason to convince her. Husband and wife have never had less opinions because of these, and even Xiaoguo has filed for divorce.
Lao Meng knows that he is old, but Guo is in his prime. He could see that she was still young, and he could only put up with her criticism because he understood his frustration. Lao Meng did not expect that the pride brought by the age difference turned into a daily torture and weapon.
As an "old father-in-law", Lao Meng's embarrassment goes far beyond this. With the growth of Xiao Guo's age and knowledge, she seems to care more and more about Lao Meng's age, and often laughs at his age and his thoughts can't keep up. As for Lao Meng, it seems that nothing can be given to his young wife except money. Lao Meng sighed with emotion: I don't know whether it is lucky or unfortunate to marry a wife who can be her own daughter.
Whether an old man has few wives, or a brother-sister relationship, who meets who, or even enters marriage, there are certain karma. It is true that everyone lives his own life and knows himself very well.