For many people in China, psychological problems? Either it is linked to the stigma of mental illness, or the fog cover of Yunshan makes people confused, and the consulting fee of hundreds or even thousands of dollars an hour is even more embarrassing. Distrust is often accompanied by doubt, which can only be solved by the patience and sincerity of experts. For psychological counseling, a new industry, it is more necessary for someone to do some theoretical popularization work first.
But in the chaos, it is time to test human nature, whether it is to explore the HarmonyOS system or fish in troubled waters. I have to say that most of my colleagues are hard-working and dedicated, but there are indeed a few people who have hurt the image of the industry because of intentional or unintentional reasons.
Some of them have good intentions and want to help visitors, but due to the lack of knowledge and skills, they make mistakes or even make major mistakes in the consultation process. You know, psychological counseling is different from general treatment, and visitors will inevitably expose their vulnerability and helplessness during the treatment. If we can get objective and rational analysis and perceptual correction experience from the consultant, it will have a positive healing effect. However, if the psychological counselor's analysis is simple and rude, or the empathy and impedance are not handled properly, it may cause trauma to the visitors.
If the loss caused by this unintentional mistake is still limited, then the deliberate exploitation of visitors by some consultants is really outrageous. Among all kinds of exploitation, emotional exploitation may be the most harmful.
Because of some complex (such as narcissism, etc. If it is not handled well, the counselor uses the visitors to meet his needs of being worshipped and attached, and exercises mental control over the visitors. Individual psychological counselors who have lost their moral bottom line even sexually exploit their visitors, which is extremely terrible. It is these so-called consultants or experts who are morally corrupt and have no bottom line that make the stumbling psychological counseling industry even more difficult.
Therefore, theoretical knowledge is not popularized, people's concepts are relatively backward, and some consultants are incompetent or even morally corrupt. Has anyone mentioned it now? Psychologist? The main reason for my suspicion.
I have always felt that the visitors to psychological counseling are very brave people, and they have the courage to show us their most vulnerable parts. Just for this trust, as consultants, we should try our best to abide by the principles and improve our knowledge and skills in order to live up to their high expectations.