How to chat at the beginning of love?
Ways to chat with your girlfriend 1. Talk about each other's hobbies.
You can't fully understand a person at once. You can ask your girlfriend about her hobbies, or you can talk about your hobbies. Of course, remember when you say it. Don't end this appointment in a perfunctory manner, but accept some things mentioned in this chat happily in a sincere manner. In order to avoid being at a loss when you need to give gifts in the future.
Ways to chat with your girlfriend II. Look for a wide range of topics.
Take the initiative to find a topic. Boys can take the initiative to find some topics at this time, but they should be relatively broad topics, because after the topic is too narrow, girls may not be interested, or you don't know what kind of topics girls like. At this time, a wide range of topics can avoid these problems. Of course, boys can also talk about what is happening around them or interesting things, which can not only adjust the atmosphere, but also keep the chat going.
Ways to chat with your girlfriend 3. Observe her interests while chatting.
When chatting with your girlfriend, you may be willing to observe whether your girlfriend is interested in these topics. If you are not interested or even bored, then you should think about changing the topic. You should pay attention to what you say. Sometimes the other person doesn't want to discuss this topic, but because you are in high spirits, I'm sorry to interrupt, but it won't be very pleasant to get along like this. When chatting, sometimes you should pay attention to the tone and content of your speech. Don't say so much that people don't know how to answer. This is particularly important. Consider the girl's position.
How to chat at the beginning of love
First, talk about hobbies.
When a relationship is just established, we need to know each other better. At this time, we can learn more about each other by talking about hobbies, what is their greatest interest, what they like to do at ordinary times, and what hobbies they have, so as to know whether they have the same hobbies, their life and experience, their personality and taste.
Second, talk about daily life.
Many times two people really don't have too many topics when they get along, but some special things will happen in our lives, so that when we get along, we can talk about some interesting, happy, fresh and sad things we encounter in daily life, so that the other party can see what they have experienced even if they are not around, and let the other party know more about themselves.
Third, talk about childhood.
Many stories will happen when everyone grows up. Childhood is a period that many people cannot forget. In childhood, there are always many things worth remembering. You can talk to each other about your childhood, and talk about happy, sad, childish and interesting things that happened when you were young. Although your former partner didn't participate, you can learn about your's past through chatting, which can bring us closer together.
Chatting skills in the early stage of love
1. Please pay attention to the rules and regulations when sending messages.
When you find the right topic and the chat gradually reaches its climax, both your interests are aroused. Remember, enough is enough. For example, tell the other person "I'm going out for a while" and "I have to answer the phone", so that you can end up in a wonderful atmosphere. If it continues, it may become a stage with nothing to say. It is better to stop at the right time and let the other person relive this chat experience and let the other person look forward to chatting with you next time. Just like food, if you eat enough at one time, the more you go to the back, the less you will experience the food, leaving room for both sides to start better next time.
2. Know how to implant a heart anchor
The development of two people's love from shallow to deep is often a process in which the impressions of both sides are gradually clear. In the early days of love, the other person often has a general understanding of you, but doesn't remember you very much. At this time. The importance of heart anchor is reflected. What is a heart anchor? In fact, the anchor in love is to look at things and think of people. For example, we often see that in film and television works, men and women often think of each other because of certain scenes or things. For example, seeing balloons and fireworks reminds the other person of you under certain circumstances and makes the other person's impression of you more and more clear. If you do nothing, the other person will think of you, which is more useful than doing anything.
Appropriate push-pull
In life, things that are not challenging often make people uninterested. For example, if you play a game, you will always miss it. However, if you find the plug-in of this game for customs clearance, and all the difficulties are plain in front of you, then you will soon lose interest in this game, and so will love.
Taboo of chatting at the beginning of love.
1. Reference to predecessor
This topic is easily mentioned in communication, but many boys don't know how to control it. Because girlfriends nowadays often ask you why you broke up with your ex, girls are always serious and want to find out how you broke up with your ex. Therefore, boys should never take the initiative to take the lead!
Be reasonable with girls.
Boys are rational and girls are emotional. Many times, don't try to reason with girls, otherwise it will only make boys understand girls' hysteria. Sometimes, boys should try to tolerate girls and don't give girls reasons. After all, if you like her, you should spoil her and tolerate her.
Release negative energy
In fact, many times, girls want to get positive energy from you, while boys are always complaining, complaining about reality and complaining about society. Occasionally, once or twice, girls will choose to understand, but if boys keep this negative state blindly, they will only let girls chat with you and think you are sad, so that they are unwilling to communicate with you too much.