Wu Min, the "perfect companion", lives in a mansion and doesn't need to earn money to support his family. Why did she choose a divorce?
Although Wu Min has no worries about food and clothing, her heart is empty, and she needs her husband's company and support. One is a hard-working elite in the workplace, and the other is a full-time mother, limited to the kitchen and love. Middle-aged men are not as good as dogs, and their marriage is more bitter and happier. In addition to romantic love, marriage is a reality of chicken feathers and hammers. When you open your eyes every day, you must try to get the daily necessities.
Economically, Wu Min is not a full-time mother, but a full-time wife. She doesn't need to worry about making money at all. Just graduated from college, with a dream of going to a better place, she chose to get married and bid farewell to her brilliant career. Years of marriage have brought her stability and prosperity, but it is also accompanied by inner emptiness and anxiety. Especially when I saw that my former classmates and girlfriends were confused, how big was the psychological gap?
In Wu Min's mind, in real life, most stay-at-home mothers are not as rich as her. They are not only addicted to taking care of children and doing housework, but also often exhausted and unable to find their own value. They collapsed and were cured at the same time! Women who experience thorns at work may not be happy, but at least they have the right to choose life. Even though the road ahead is dark and long, they can still have confidence, determination and self-confidence. On the contrary, he takes care of himself and is considerate. Cooking is not only interesting but also delicious. At this time, Wu Min realized that men can be so kind to women, so he took the initiative to divorce men.
What Wu Min needs in his heart is a responsible husband, not a husband who is busy with his career. What she needs is a husband who can take care of her, her children and Party A, not a husband who is busy with his career and regards his family as part of his career, nor a man who can only calmly analyze the pros and cons when she encounters difficulties. These requirements are not too much. Marriage has never been your concern. When your heart becomes a bamboo or an impulse, it always shows you the truest side until you are unrecognizable and bleeding, until you bow your head and give up. Those who can forge ahead must have swallowed blood and never forgotten to move forward. Those who can enjoy the sunshine and rain must hold up an umbrella with their bodies. A woman who has no regrets all her life is especially worthy of respect. A woman who never mentions the past has her own dignity. As a beautiful woman, she has a peaceful mind and experiences elegance. Warm and quiet, inner security. No hurry, no impatience, a relaxed and happy face.
Lack of understanding and support, lack of the most basic trust between husband and wife in the eyes of men, other people's wives are made of water, while the wives around them are made of steel and cement; In the eyes of women, other people's husbands, Gao Fushuai, are short, poor and depressed.
What you don't respect is what others envy, while what you envy is what others don't like, without extreme good or bad. In fact, what is hidden in the chicken feathers of marriage cannot be abandoned. Quarrels and quarrels contain deep concern. Few couples love each other all day, and in marriage, half understand and half tolerate; Half hand in hand, half self-reliance; Half content and half deficiency is the best marriage.