2. The reason why girls break up is that girls' parents think that boys' hometown is too far away. I really don't know if this is the real reason.
Perhaps, the girl's parents think that the boy has some other shortcomings, which are inconvenient to say, and they are afraid of hurting the boy's self-esteem, so they say such an excuse. Maybe boys don't love girls enough and don't pay much attention. It may also be personality factors such as unstable work.
If it's really a regional problem. You are not from the same province as her, so I'm afraid you will face the same test as her parents.
There are two possibilities for a girl to deliberately avoid you: First, what you say implies that you should not pursue her and keep your distance from her. Second, she feels too close to you and you don't pursue her. She feels romantic and ugly to outsiders. You'd better keep your distance from her.
Finally, I want to say: for love, we should have the courage to fight for it. If you don't pay, work hard and fight for it, you will never know whether you are missing true love or misunderstanding.
Only if you work hard will you know if she really likes you.
Brief description of the details of the pursuit: first, close the distance between each other, understand her habits and hobbies, and please her as much as possible. Master first-hand information and know how to save the United States in time. Usually create more opportunities for both sides. Ask her out to press the road, go shopping with her, and have a heart-to-heart talk.
When you feel better, seize the opportunity to make a romantic confession, and don't let her wait too long to misunderstand you.