Fangfang hesitated when she first learned about his family conditions. But at that time, she was used to having such a boyfriend around and couldn't bear to refuse again.
At that time, facing college graduation, Fangfang's family entrusted her with a job in a relative's company. But the man wanted to go back to the south, and she begged Fangfang to go back with her. The man promised that they could eat and live in his house and buy a house and get married when their jobs were stable. At that time, Fangfang believed in love and was used to being with him, so she made up her mind to go home with him.
Fangfang was shocked when she first went to a man's house. The man's house is an old house more than 20 years ago. Compared with the man's family, Fangfang's family is richer.
When I first graduated, the job was not so easy to find. Fangfang and her boyfriend have been looking for about three months, but there is no suitable job. So the man's parents asked them to be ordinary workers in the factory, but Fangfang strongly disagreed. Fangfang feels that she has learned a skill in college. Why should she be an ordinary worker? However, Fangfang's rebuttal was accused by the man's parents. They said: since you are so excellent, why don't you find a better job quickly?
However, Fangfang's parents are different. Fangfang's parents comforted her daughter that she could work slowly, but she must find one that suits her. The man's parents look anxious. They found someone to introduce Fangfang to the work of a company clerk and told him to go to work quickly. But Fangfang feels that this kind of work is not suitable for herself at all. After two days of work. He still wants to find a job again, so the man's parents have great prejudice against Fangfang.
Fangfang held her breath, began to study her lessons day and night, and finally became an extracurricular tutor in a remedial class. The job is not very stable, but the salary is very high every month, so the man's parents began to smile at her.
At this time, they no longer blame their anxious son for not finding a job. Instead, I comforted my son blindly and said that there is no need to worry and take your time. His parents stopped urging him, but he never found a suitable job. Sometimes, whether it is suitable or not, he goes to work for a few days, and then he starts to change jobs frequently.
Due to the limitation of his major, he has never had a suitable job, so Fangfang suggested that he might as well start over and learn a new skill. However, he said that after graduation, without the atmosphere of the school, he could never learn any more, and Fangfang gradually found himself no longer making progress, unlike him in college.
What makes Fangfang unacceptable is that he not only doesn't want to change his mind and start over, but also looks down on Fangfang's temporary job as a teacher in the remedial class. He sometimes secretly satirizes Fangfang as a part-time job.
He doesn't make progress, and he doesn't respect Fangfang's choice. This made Fangfang have a knot in her heart. Fangfang believes that boyfriends are actually not material lack and poverty, but limited thinking and poverty.
Fangfang should be pragmatic, and try to suit herself if her work can suit her. On the premise that it suits her, she must earn more money to prepare for their future. But boyfriend means to find a stable and decent job, even if you don't earn much money.
They have different ideas about their work. But the man's parents are on his son's side. They always think that what their son said is right, but for Fang Fang, he is an outsider. They have never listened to her opinions and considered her feelings.
From love to now, Fangfang has been with her boyfriend for five years. In the past five years, they have experienced a lot together, and their feelings are there, but Fangfang feels that this man is no longer worthy of her love. He lives a poor life with a clear conscience, and he has a set of theories. He stuck to his point of view but refused to compromise.
Fangfang doesn't know where to go. He can't break this relationship easily, but the thought of spending a lifetime with this man makes Fangfang feel that this is also a terrible thing.
Fangfang thinks that choosing to be with this poor man may be doomed to be a tragedy. In fact, poverty is not terrible, but when a man feels that he is poor and reasonable, his sour contempt attitude has already been declared, and this poor man is doomed not to give Fangfang happiness.
It's time to get married after five years of love, but men can't afford Fangfang's material security. Moreover, he is still stubbornly sticking to his own ideas, constantly changing jobs frequently, and will emphasize that the company is not suitable when encountering some difficulties. He never listens to Fangfang's advice and learns a skill again. At the same time, I don't respect Fangfang's work as a teacher in a makeup class.
He was so poor that Fangfang lost the courage to stay with him. Fangfang finally saw through the poor man's inferiority complex. Maybe he doesn't love her at all. If it is true love, how can he stick to his poverty concept, refuse to change himself and assume the responsibility as a man? Perhaps, Fangfang already has the answer in her heart. She spent five years testing this man, and finally came to the conclusion that he didn't love her and didn't deserve her love!