Children over 3 years old are not good at language and sports. What should they do?

1, moderate language stimulation

Language stimulation should start as soon as possible. Don't wait until the baby learns to speak before starting language stimulation, but do it in advance to give the child a process of accumulation. It is necessary to communicate with the fetus consciously before the baby is born. After the baby is born, the mother should insist on talking to the baby every day. Beautiful and rhythmic language can stimulate the baby and promote the development of the language central nervous system and brain. Therefore, when the mother begins to speak from the newborn, her voice should be soft, her speech speed should be slowed down, and she can be accompanied by a beautiful melody. For example, a mother can gently sing children's songs to her baby; Read poetry, amethyst and so on.

2. Daily communication in the whole language

In daily life, when parents breast-feed their baby, provide him with life care, or take the baby out, it is an excellent opportunity to communicate with the baby orally. Mom and dad can combine this scene organically, talk to the baby and create an overall language communication environment. For example:

You can tell the baby at the same time to make him understand what you mean. When undressing the baby, say "take off your coat"; When you say "Take off your shoes now", take off his shoes. When changing diapers, you can say, "When the baby's ass is dirty, mom changes the diaper, and the diaper is changed with a small tape.

You can also make corresponding facial expressions when talking, so that your baby can understand your feelings. Remember never to tease a baby. If you hug him and say, "You are mom's most annoying slacker", you will confuse him, because your expression is "You are mom's poké mon."

You just need to help the baby understand your general meaning. It doesn't matter whether he can understand everything you say. If you cook, put the food on the table and reach out to the baby and say "It's time for lunch", he will know that his lunch is ready and will sit in the high chair by himself. Without those corresponding hints, the baby may not understand the literal meaning of "it's time for lunch" Through repeated understanding in a helpful context, he will finally understand the meaning of these words.

Step 3 learn how to speak

Whether you are talking about your infinite love for your baby or a group of rare birds in the sky, let your baby see your enthusiasm, emotion and attention. These elements to improve the quality of your speech can attract his attention and make him try to understand what you are saying. Use rising tone to attract your baby's attention, and use falling tone to comfort or arouse your baby's positive emotions. In addition, babies like to listen to onomatopoeia and overlap. For example: "Chickens quack, Ducks quack ..." The baby will be very happy after hearing this, and will naturally imitate it in the future.

Of course, if parents encounter children with developmental retardation, it is best to go to a professional sensory integration training center for language training.