When I was in my early thirties, I was ruthlessly magnified and exaggerated in the eyes of others. They said that I looked very mature, perhaps because I had a face that had lost all my childishness and was still different from the rest. My age-inappropriate face, or maybe it’s because I feel that I dress too maturely and act too sedately! But at this time, like a teenager, I began to learn to laugh at maturity, and began to secretly blush for my "maturity"?
I once remembered reading such a sentence in a book, a person's innocence is like a grain of pollen, often unintentionally "mature" by worldly experience, the stinging bee quietly The pollen disappears, and the person turns into a stinging bee. I think this is probably what people often call "the loss of life"!
When I praise others, I often say that they still retain their innocence. In fact, I do not mean to belittle them. I think this is the highest kindness I can do to others. Compliments! Simple, clear and unadulterated is beauty! Rejecting complexity, turbidity and darkness is beauty! Simplicity, purity, smoothness and calmness are beauty! For example, jade, a baby's pupils, a girl's fair skin, the melting of ice and snow...
In this materialistic society where people compete for fame and wealth, innocence, a right that should be enjoyed by everyone, But it has become the exclusive preserve of a pitiful minority. The naivety is too easy to be harmed, and many people would rather not do it. For those who live for fame and fortune, innocence is really a huge burden and a joke. But for those who long to "dwell poetically", innocence is a pair of wings that allow the spirit to fly. In Mr. Lu Xun's excerpt from Shimazaki Fujimura's "Coming from Asakusa", there is this sentence: "I hope to always keep a simple heart, and to deeply appreciate this complicated human world." Later generations mostly pay attention to Lu Xun's "deeply appreciate this complicated human world." "This aspect often overlooks that Lu Xun also has a simple and innocent heart. It is precisely because he has this heart as a foundation that he can write "Living China" with his pen. His novels are extremely cold, and a warmth is transmitted through the back of the paper to the readers' hands. Xiao Hong once recalled: "Mr. Lu Xun's laughter was loud and full of joy from the heart. If someone said Mr. Lu Xun laughed so hard that he couldn't even hold his cigarette, and he often laughed until he coughed. "I face countless smiles every day, and most of the smiles I face are just the skills of facial muscles. The smile I created, when I suddenly read this passage, I couldn't help but feel my heart beat, and I was leisurely fascinated. People who can laugh like this must have an innocent smile. What a joy!
? In this world, people need to grow taller and mature, but maturity does not necessarily mean growth. Sometimes the body expands and the growth rings increase, but the soul shrinks, the personality becomes shorter, and the dream slips away. He lost the original purpose and meaning of life, and he could never regain the pure, true nature and normal feeling in life. The so-called "maturity" is superficially a kind of "added value", but from the perspective of life aesthetics It seems that it is actually a process of "subtraction", constantly handing over the natural beautiful elements and pure qualities of life, exchanging some experience in the adult world, some survival strategies and practical skills, just like a simple The angel kept taking out the pearls in his pocket in exchange for the glass ball in the witch's hand...
? Adhering to the original truth of life is a kind of tolerance and a kind of mind. Having this aspect Pure land, your and my life will be a lush oasis, your and my life will be full of splendor and fragrance!