As the saying goes, men chase women over the mountain, and women chase after men over the sea. In fact, when girls pursue boys, they also need to pay a lot of attention.
1. Don’t chase after them
Boys naturally like to be pursued, just like celebrities want more and more fans. When a girl pursues a boy, if you pursue him and he always refuses, it means that he is not interested in you. At this time, it is not appropriate to pursue and fight fiercely and put too much pressure on the other party. You can start as a friend and gradually get closer to each other.
2. Don’t fight a protracted war
In principle, girls should not pursue boys for more than three months. Girls still need to be somewhat reserved. If you pursue the other person crazily but the other person doesn't respond, you might as well consider giving up, or ignore him for a while to remind him of how good you are to him.
3. Don’t send flowers
According to common sense, sending flowers is the exclusive domain of boys, but sending flowers to girls is putting the cart before the horse.
4. Don’t write love letters
You can express your love to the other person, but never save it in paper form or computer email. Because if your pursuit fails, these love letters will still exist. One day after you no longer love this person, will you feel ashamed when you think of the love letter you wrote back then?
5. Don’t leave any evidence of pursuing the other person
It is a humble thing for a woman to pursue a man. If a girl leaves evidence for a boy to pursue her, it might become something for the boy to show off. In this case, girls will form a frivolous image among boys' friends, which is very detrimental to girls.
6. Don’t hold up banners
In movies and TV dramas, boys hold up banners to confess to girls, which is very romantic. But this does not apply to girls. The traditional concept still believes that girls are gentle and reserved.
7. Don’t say I love you directly
This kind of confession opportunity should be reserved for boys. Too much firepower will scare boys away.
8. Don’t brag about yourself
Men all have self-esteem. If a girl is too good, it is easy to hurt the boy inadvertently. So, no matter what, in front of the person you like, be a little white rabbit that everyone loves.
9. Don’t wait for him to get off work
Don’t wait for him to get off work downstairs every day. This is also what boys should do. If girls do this, they will only make everyone think that the other party owes them. your money.
10. Don’t give lavish gifts
Even if you are rich, giving very expensive gifts will make people feel like you are belittling the other person. If you like the other person, it must be because the other person has some unique temperament that attracts you. You might as well explore the common hobbies of both parties to achieve success.