No matter how much you love people together, life will always be a mixture of bitterness and joy. When it is sweet, I wish I could give you the best thing in the world. When disagreements break out, The confrontation between you and me is inevitable.
When falling in love, it is normal for couples to argue, but some people are in constant quarrel with each other. One second they are still complaining to each other, but the next second they can hug each other. Let go of all the past grudges between each other. In a relationship, everyone wants to grow old together with their partner, but if you look at daily life, there are many couples who break up because of a small disagreement or an argument. When a couple gets along, how to quarrel is a matter of knowledge. Looking at daily life, those who know how to quarrel are most likely to have lingering emotions. Don’t bring up the past when quarreling, only deal with current differences
Bringing up the past in quarrels seems to be just a woman’s “exclusive right” in most cases. It has been a long time, but every time you quarrel, you Taking it out to talk about things again can really annoy boys.
When a couple is in love, both of them must have "brain degeneration". As long as the many unhappy things in the past have passed, there is no need to let them go. Quarreling is always about resolving current differences. If you insist on "bringing up the past", not only will you not be able to communicate effectively, but you will also become estranged, which will harm your relationship. Don't say bad words or "hurtful words" when quarreling
When quarreling with someone you like, you should have a moral bottom line no matter what. You can rebuke him for the mistakes he made at a certain moment, and you can complain about him It's not very good for you, but you must not be sarcastic or sarcastic to him, let alone use hurtful words to provoke him to be physical with you.
What are bad words? To put it bluntly, there is no reason for these. They are just words to "hurt others". For example, when we have a quarrel over money issues and a boy accuses you of spending money, you can say that he is petty, but you cannot say that he has no future and cannot support you. Because of these words, not only do you look ugly, Contempt him and you will continue to make him feel loss of face.
You must pay attention to the method of quarreling. If your partner does make a mistake, you can effectively blame him, and you can vent your dissatisfaction and anger to him appropriately, but remember not to insult him, then This will only make him feel bored with you. Don’t involve your loved ones when quarreling, and try to resolve it yourself
A quarrel is a private matter between two people. I think as long as you don’t involve other people, it can usually be resolved through communication and communication immediately. After all, we are two people who like each other. Sometimes as long as the other party wants to actively lower their head, the differences can disappear immediately. When you quarrel, you are used to involving the other party's relatives, and things will suddenly become much more complicated. You were originally just dissatisfied with him, but you insisted on irritating his parents as well. In this way, even if you want to reconcile with him later, the relationship between you and his parents will not be relieved for a while.
Involving family members in a quarrel is a very irrational behavior. It is obviously a small matter, but we expand it endlessly and even turn it into a disagreement between the two families, which will never end.
In a relationship, we cannot be in love every day. When your passion for them fades, disputes and disputes will eventually ensue. To run a relationship, understanding and tolerance are actually not enough. Everyone must learn to face every disagreement in the relationship and learn how to argue with the other half.