Learn to give up in life

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Introduction: giving up is a kind of mind, giving up is a realm, and giving up is a strategy. Give up, don't give up, only give up can you get it. In the later period of Jinggangshan anti-encirclement campaign, when Mao Zedong was dismissed by the Central Committee, he said: "Only by abandoning life can we embrace mountains and rivers."

1. A person's life is a life of constant choice. We have to give up what we choose at the same time, but there are also some things that we can never give up in life.

2. Life is short. If you want to achieve something, you must go into battle light. Therefore, it is necessary to abandon those old ideas, concepts and consciousness. Be in a bad mood; And bad habits and behaviors.

It is wise to give up old ideas, concepts and consciousness. These old ideas, old ideas, and old consciousness used to be mentors and friends who helped you move forward. However, times have changed, and ideas, concepts and consciousness that were very effective in the past suddenly found out to be out of date.

You have to give up, but it's not that easy to give up now. On the one hand, I am obsessed with it, on the other hand, I still stubbornly believe that it is still so useful and valuable in my subconscious. For future success, the only way is to give up these outdated ideas, concepts and consciousness.

Impulse is the devil, and bad emotions will affect people's psychology and behavior, and then affect their own life development. People's IQ is important, but more important is emotional intelligence. The so-called emotional intelligence is to manage your emotions scientifically and actively, so as to establish a harmonious and orderly communication environment in your own internal and external world. And in the benign cooperation with others, get the healthy development of life.

6. Good habits make a good fortune, and vice versa. Therefore, we must give up all our bad habits and behaviors. To give up bad habits and behaviors effectively, we must establish new and excellent habits to replace them.

7. If you get something in life, you must give it up. Giving up is to get it better. Some must give up, but some can't, and don't give up, don't give up, never give up.

8. As a personal ideal, you can never give up. As human beings, people have ideas, motives and needs. Ideal is my ultimate pursuit and my vision. This is the plan of what kind of person you want to be. It is the goal, direction and banner of our life, and only its existence can guide behavior to practice and achieve something.

9. People should have a little spirit when they are alive. You can't give up the spirit. Perseverance is the secret weapon of success; The spirit of lifelong continuous learning is the patent of the master; Positive and optimistic spirit is the common feature of successful people.

10. As far as sitting is concerned, it is better to get up and walk. Action is never giving up. If you want to, you must do something. Action is the last link of success. Action can turn plans, designs and blueprints on paper into successful buildings. Therefore, no matter how good a strategy or idea is, its ultimate realization depends on action.

1 1. Giving up is an opportunity cost, and getting it must be greater than giving up. Never give up is the world view at the core of life, which can guide you to practice better.

12. Many things are always experienced before they are understood. Just like feelings, you will know how to protect yourself after the pain. If you are stupid, you will know how to persist and give up at the right time. In the process of gain and loss, we gradually understand ourselves. In fact, life does not need this meaningless persistence. If there is nothing, we really can't give up. Learn to give up, maybe life will be easier.

13. Learn to give up and turn around before you cry. Leave a simple back, learn to give up, bury yesterday in your heart and leave the best memories. Learn to give up so that we can have a more relaxed start. Black and blue love is not necessarily unforgettable. This journey is deep and shallow, and it is not easy to get to today. Hold out your hand gently and say goodbye. I really appreciate you accompanying me all the way.

14. Every relationship is beautiful and every journey is charming. It is a regret that we can't have, which makes us more attached. It is those sleepless nights that make us miss it even more. Emotion is a questionnaire with no answer. Hard pursuit does not make life more complete. Perhaps a little regret and sadness will make this answer sheet longer.

15. Sometimes it is not cost-effective to make yourself exhausted in order to stick to one thing. Moreover, some things can only be seen from a distance, not ridiculous. Once you get it, after a long time, you may find that it is not as good as you think. If you find that what you lose and give up is more precious, I think you will be annoyed, so there is often a saying that "what you can't get is always the best", so when you like something, getting it is not your best choice.

16. Who said that if you like someone, you must be with him? Sometimes, some people, in order to be with the person they like, do not hesitate to use many methods to retain the person they love, but this can't keep his heart. In fact, if you like someone, you don't have to be with him. Although some people often say "I don't care about eternity, I only care about what I once had", not everyone will be happy to like someone. The most important thing is to make him happy, because his mood will affect your mood. "You are happy, and I am happy." Therefore, when you like someone, unrequited love is also the best policy.

17. There is a song like this: "Unrequited love is also very happy, at least there will be no choice." "Why don't you feel that emotional things are too difficult to install, and it won't be too rough if you don't want to possess them?" "No matter who your heart is, I will not be depressed, just want to be a quiet passerby." Therefore, whether you like a thing or a person, it is better to face it easily than to make yourself tired. Even if one day you give up or leave, you will learn to be calm. If you like something, you must learn to appreciate it and cherish it.

18. If you like someone, you must make him happy. Making him happy will make this feeling more sincere. Let go if you can't do it. So sometimes, some people should learn to give up, because giving up is also a kind of beauty.

19. When you see a person in the whirlpool of feelings, in the pain of losing a loved one, in the pain of hatred, in the pain of his own situation, and so on. We often advise them to think about it and let nature take its course.

20. Isn't pain just a little thought hanging in my heart? Although that thought used to be so reluctant, so entangled with my heart, so unwilling, I had deep thoughts, desires and pains, so let it go, and I will be happy if I let it go!

2 1. Put it down. That's easy to say. Some things can't be put down if you want to. How can I let go of that wonderful past? Although the pain is heartbreaking, it is a little sweet and hard to give up. Especially in the pain of hatred, it is really hard to extricate yourself!

22. If you want to survive, even if you choose to jump off a cliff, you should pursue the so-called painful happiness. Jumping happily is like a moth to a fire, and there is no regret in dying heroically! This is also an ultimate beauty, but it must be happy and willing!

23. If you let go completely, you can't get rid of the entanglement of pain and love. Then take the initiative to divert attention, divert attention. Go out to exercise, go to the wild, go to nature, and change your mood in pleasant mountains and rivers; Or busy, don't leave a little space for your thoughts; Or reading, wandering in the sea of books, looking for other fun; Or listen to music, let the music gently touch the heart and slowly heal the sadness; Or communicate, tell your friends or people you can trust, or shout at rivers and mountains and let them release slowly; Or, broaden your horizons and look for higher peaks and more beautiful scenery. The little things in my heart will gradually become less important, and slowly let go.

24. No matter how reluctant and painful, let go; No matter how unwilling you are, it's beyond your control. It's futile to keep it. Nothing is eternal, the world is changing, society is changing, people are changing, and change is inevitable. If you know, you won't feel pain.

Don't let anything make you unhappy. If you feel miserable and unhappy, just give up. No one can help you, only you can help you. This must be remembered!

26. once in a lifetime, no one's life will be smooth sailing without any twists and turns. No one can live in the spring season forever, experience the cycle of spring, summer, autumn and winter, and experience the changes of the world. Almost everyone can't escape Since you can't escape, face it calmly and accept it calmly.

27. Nothing in the world is perfect. No matter how ordinary a species is, it also has the label of fame. No matter how annoying this season is, they also have something to be proud of. No matter how ugly the creature is, there are secrets to benefit all beings. So is life. No matter how rough and hard you experience, no matter how cruel and optimistic life is, everything will be relieved, depending on how you understand life and how you look at it.

28. In life, no one will be unwilling, all the storms will obey their wishes, and no one will avoid all the bumps and hardships because they don't like it. Instead of complaining, it is better to change your mind. Instead of complaining about life, it is better to adapt to life and be a strong person in life.

29. Life is a stormy process, and it is also an experience of returning to the shore. We don't need to lament the impermanence and ups and downs of fate, but we should find ways to live wisely. No matter how tortuous the route of life is, it is not antagonistic or extreme. Experiencing all the tests of fate also opens the door to all the goodwill of fate.

30. We understand life objectively, and life is never flat. The wind comes in and the rain goes out. This is the world. No one in this world has ever been able to get the abacus right, live a good daily life, live the most dull life, and live a wider and more harmonious life.

Editor's note: Fate is a kind of nourishment of peace. Peace is also a kind of spiritual strength. Not impetuous, not pessimistic, not barren, not uneasy. It can see clearly the pain, live a heavy life, transform those gloomy feelings inside, or compromise, know what it can't do and know what it is doing.