Poor and lowly couples are sad for everything. It originally meant that they felt sad when they thought about what happened to Zeng Jin and his wife when they were poor. It was about missing his deceased wife. It's just that later generations gradually changed the author's original intention.
Although we all know the importance of material basis for marriage, it often becomes the executioner that destroys a relationship. But not all couples drift apart because of poverty. Relatively speaking, what we often encounter in life is that couples can survive hardships, but they cannot survive wealth.
They can be happy because they eat a bowl of instant noodles together and live in a rental house of a few square meters. However, due to changes in life circumstances, they have no time and energy to get along with each other, to have emotional trust and companionship. Dependence is gone!
The reason why there is a situation where poor and lowly couples are miserable is that in this exaggerated society, ideals are full and reality is skinny, but they place this hope on marriage and the other half! Sad indeed!
Either you can taste the happiness of being together happily, or you can grit your teeth and change the status quo, otherwise you can only be a real poor and lowly couple who suffers from everything. That is to say, it is your own fault! "Money is not everything, but without money nothing is impossible." I believe everyone knows this! Will love without money last? Will they be happy? A poor and humble couple will suffer for a hundred days; but will they definitely be happy if they are rich?
In fact, love without money will definitely not last long. Especially in modern society, both sexes no longer have as many mental shackles as in the past. This is becoming more and more obvious. I believe that most people People who are husband and wife can endure hardships together and overcome adversity. Spiritual life must be based on material things. If even eating is a problem, how can a couple talk about loving each other? As long as there is no money and life is miserable, there will be more problems. Money is very important, but you must also have your own stand. It depends on the person. Some people value money, while others value feelings. Love is ruthless Everything becomes fake, this is an unchanging truth for people who value friendship. When there is no money, two people are happy when they are together. As long as two people are together, they can overcome any difficulties. But when there is money Now, men are usually busy socializing outside. This socializing thing seems to be a natural monopoly of men. If they socialize too much, they gradually neglect the women at home. It seems that women outside are good at everything, so that later men start to Looking at the woman in your family is not pleasing to the eye, which will eventually lead to the breakdown of the marriage. Some smart men will keep the red flag at home and flutter the colorful flag outside. There are not a few such men in today's era, and many will do this. So it doesn't matter if you have money. It must be happy. However, love without money may not last long. If there is no financial foundation, no matter how beautiful the love is, it will deteriorate! A man’s responsibility is to be able to take care of his beloved woman. If he cannot do that, then this man’s Self-esteem will be hurt, and life will not be happy! People are becoming more and more realistic, which is a product of today's social era, so this sentence is becoming more and more reasonable. If a family has no money, you will find that most couples The content of conflicts or quarrels is about money. This is reflected in many families. Therefore, love families will undergo many tests and cannot be settled by just one person.