1. The process of giving life back
It is inconceivable that the Colosseum in ancient Rome needs to be rebuilt, the ancient city of Pompeii needs to be rebuilt, the Angkor Wat in Cambodia needs to be rebuilt, and the Mayan cultural sites need to be rebuilt. It's as if we can't imagine that the ancient bronzes from far away need polishing, the unearthed broken halberds need nickel plating, the books of the Song Dynasty need plastic, and the old lady of the Han Dynasty in Mawangdui needs skin grafting, breast enhancement and heavy makeup. As long as history does not block and time does not go backwards, everything will age. Be old, and give the world a kind beauty peacefully. Pretending to be naive is the cruelest self-abuse. A grandmother without wrinkles is terrible, and an old man without white hair is regrettable; Life without ruins is too tired, the land without ruins is too crowded, and the act of covering up the ruins is too deceptive.
Return history to truth and life to process.
-this is the great wisdom of human beings. Of course, not all the ruins are worth preserving, otherwise the earth will be scarred. Ruins are the envoys who sent modern people from ancient times, and they have been criticized and screened by history. Ruins are the feats that our ancestors once launched, which gathered the strength and essence of that time. Ruins are a magnetic field, which is extremely ancient and modern, and the compass of the mind is strongly felt here. If you lose magnetism, you will lose the life of the ruins, and it will soon be eliminated by people.
2. Be awed
In this world, some people believe in God, while others don't, so they are divided into theists and atheists, religious people and laymen. However, this distinction is not very important. There is a much more important distinction, that is, some people believe in holiness, while others don't, and people are distinguished from noble and despicable.
a person can not believe in god, but can not believe in holiness. Whether to believe in God, Buddha, God or other mysterious forces that dominate the universe often depends on the national tradition, cultural background and special experience of individuals, and even depends on some mysterious experience of individuals, which is reluctant. A person without these religious beliefs may still be a kind person. However, if you don't believe that there is any sacred value in the world, all is forgiven, do whatever he wants, such a person is no different from an animal.
people who believe in the sacred are in awe. In his mind, there are always some things that are fundamental to being a man and can't be blasphemed. He is not afraid of being punished, but refuses to lose his basic personality. No matter how full of desires he has for life, he always understands that once his personality is swept away, he has lost his self-confidence and dignity in front of himself, so all the satisfaction of desires can't save his life from complete failure.
On the contrary, people who don't have awe never reflect on themselves in personality. If it is said that "shame is almost brave", then such people will show a cowardly licentiousness because they are shameless. As long as he is not punished, he dares to trample on anything beautiful, including love, friendship and honor, and he has no anxiety in his heart. Such a person, despite having more affairs, has no ability to really love once; No matter how many buddies you make, you can't appreciate the purity of friendship; No matter how much fame you get, you don't know what glory is. Those who don't believe in holiness will be abandoned by all the sacred things in the world.
3. God only knows half
From the moment you were born, you were destined to go back. The twists and turns, smooth and happy in the middle are your destiny. Fate always exists with you, all the time. Don't fear its mystery, although sometimes it is unfathomable; Don't be afraid of its impermanence, although sometimes it comes and goes without a trace.
don't bow to fate because it is grotesque, and let it do whatever you want. When you are old, looking back, you will find that half of your destiny is in your hands, and only the other half is in God's hands. Your whole life is to use what you have in your hand to get what God has.
the more extraordinary your efforts are, the bigger the half you have in your hand, and the more fruitful you will get. When you are completely desperate, don't forget that you own half of your destiny; When you get carried away, don't forget that God still has half of his destiny. Your life's effort is: use your own half to get the half in God's hand. This is the life of fate; This is the fate of life.
4. Ease of mind
Life is a person's own non-transferable patent.
the process of life is the process of time consumption. In the face of time, the greatest man has no power to reverse; We can't buy or sell; We have to choose and use.
Therefore, cherishing life means cherishing time and making the best use of time. Because of my strong initiation of this consciousness, I am spending myself more and more miserly.
I try to choose a relaxed lifestyle, so I advocate and create light poems. What I mean by lightness is not pure dance academy and pleasure, but the pursuit of spiritual relaxation and freedom, and a life of self-relaxation. And this feeling will lead to a more humane and chic choice of behavior. A person's own life is very tired, which will make people around you and society feel very tired. If I can benefit others and groups, it is because I can release this relaxed atmosphere and make others feel happy when they meet with me (no matter how short).
Only relaxation can make people live a worthwhile life and make the whole world harmonious. You can't cure evil with evil.
For our descendants of the Yellow Land, the ancient civilization and long history have burdened us enough, and the complicated reality and interpersonal relationship have made us tired enough.
I'm willing to pay attention to the light, and pay attention to the tired. For myself, whether in good times or misfortune, I can find myself relaxed, neither tired of fame and fortune nor suffering from bad times. For the surrounding groups, when I appear in front of them, I can bring them the relaxation they need, thus increasing or alleviating the joy and pain in their lives.
Of course, this is also a wish of mine in a very narrow world. Being trapped by society and secularism, I know-
Pursuing a relaxed lifestyle may pay a heavy price at some time and in some aspects.
5. Thinking about
often misses some people for no reason.
when I think of some people, I always feel that my life is cut into segments, and each segment is connected with some people. Without these people, life seems to be pale and poor, with no landing. But not only friends, but also people who are not friends and have to contact them, even some people who hate them, often think of them, so life can be broken down into this: some people you love are separated; Some people you hate are separated; Some are separated by people you don't care about love or hate. Your life has been broken down by these three people. You miss them for a long time, so you feel that your life is really full.
The faint miss is unknown, with the emotional color of the past, or love or hate, thick or light, long or short. When you miss someone, you feel that there are some inexplicable tremors in the deep heart, looming, and you want to hold them tightly, but they are fleeting.
when you miss those people who have slipped through your life, all your love and hate are covered with a faint halo. Through the halo, you can see them again, and both love and hate turn into a kind of profound comfort to experience life.
6, not too much
I passed the flower shop that day, and he noticed my love for yellow roses and sent me a bunch the next day.
but somehow, I always think about the flower in the window of the flower shop, and I always feel that this bunch is not as beautiful as that one.
One day, I asked him wittily, "Do you really love me?" In fact, as long as he says the word "love", I will be satisfied, but he not only says "love", but also talks about many reasons for love. Listen, listen, I am absent-minded?
there is no need for too much! People sometimes really don't have to get or hear a lot. A flower, a green leaf, a knowing smile, a ray of tenderness, a little sincerity, a concerned greeting and a sympathetic regret can make us like fragrant teas and sweet drinks.
As long as a pair of warm hands reach out to me when I am physically and mentally overdrawn, I can get out of the predicament with this help;
As long as I have an understanding friend by my side when I am in distress, I can spit out all my worries and seek spiritual relaxation;
As long as there is a faint setting sun on the horizon when I am depressed, it can light up my confused eyes. Just? Don't expect too much-to friends, to love, and especially to life. Do you remember? How intently we used to design a wonderful future, and how carefully we painted a colorful future. However, although we were so stubborn, so pious and so tenacious, life presented itself in a different face that we didn't expect at all.
don't think too much! As long as we are serious about being a person and living seriously every moment.
7. Happy Chai Men
If the door to happiness is a magnificent door, we have no reason to stop; But what if the door to happiness is a simple and humble or even shabby Chai Men? We have come all the way, with the longing, longing and tireless pursuit of happiness, with sweat, scars and dust all the way. The vicissitudes of life have not been washed away, tears have not been wiped dry, and muddy feet are climbing up the stairs, staring at Chai Men, which is never a dream of happiness. Will the hot heart suddenly cool down? Will disappointment cover the whole body?
I will never take back my knocking hand. Years have changed, joys and sorrows have intertwined, and fate has fallen, which has made me deeply understand what is the most cherished treasure in life. As long as happiness lives in it, what about humble Chai Men and simple huts! A happy smile never loses its bright light because of its status. I crossed the mountains and rivers and the desert, groping for happiness itself, not the golden bottle in front of the happiness seat and the treasure stick in my hand. Happiness is more precious than gold, which is the truth that life has taught me.
8. Fate
Sometimes, just one or two steps can change a person's life. This is fate.
many times, I always wonder, what if I didn't choose this road at that time? The ending is often very different. Yes, we lost a lot, but we also gained a lot! Just like life and death, gain and loss are always twin brothers. When we lose something, it also means another kind of possession.
this is fate. At a certain moment one day, I strolled out of the door and came to a tree. At this moment, a gust of wind blew and a fallen leaf floated, which led to a poem. Everything is natural. Just like the "Zen" of Buddhism, we can't think about it in detail.
this is fate. Many years ago, I passed by an unknown town and went to a hotel casually. The owner's appearance was usually forgotten, but he treated people well. I slept soundly that night, and at dawn the next day, I went on my way by car. Maybe I'll never go to that town or see the shopkeeper again in this life, but the lights, the town, the hotel and the shopkeeper? These incomplete and beautiful memories constitute the biggest imagination space in my life.
this is fate. The girlfriend who has been in love for a long time suddenly broke up for a simple reason: there is no chance in this life. I am relieved. In such a big world, there will always be a girl who loves herself, and there will always be a love of her own. What else can we force?
this is fate. By mistake, joys and sorrows, constitute our life. While losing, we often gain a lot invisibly. Because it is hard to come by, we should cherish it. There is nothing worth complaining about in this world. Because this is fate!
9. Calm down
I believe that our inner peace and the happiness we get in life do not lie in where we are, what we have, what kind of person we are, but only in the realm our hearts have reached. Here, external factors have little to do with this.
About 3 years ago, when Milton was blind, he discovered this truth: "The application of thought and thought itself can turn hell into heaven or heaven into hell."
Napoleon and Helen? Keller's life, for example, can prove how correct Milton's words are: Napoleon has everything that ordinary people dream of-glory, power, wealth, etc., but he said to Santa Helena, "I have never had a happy day in my life." And Helen? Keller is blind, deaf and dumb, but she says, "How wonderful life is!" "
I have lived for more than 5 years. If you ask me what I have learned in my life, then my answer is: "No one and nothing can bring you peace except yourself."
1. Three elements of happiness
There are three indispensable factors in a happy life: First, there is hope. The second is to have something to do. The third is to be able to love others.
there is hope. Alexander the Great once gave a big gift to show his generosity. He gave a large sum of money to A, a province to B and a senior official to C.. When his friend heard this, he said to him, "If you keep doing this, you will be penniless." Alexander replied, "I will never be poor. I left myself the greatest gift." What I have left is my hope. " If a person lives only in memories and loses hope, his life has begun to end. Memories can't inspire us to live vigorously. Memories can only make us escape, like prisoners escaping from prison.
have something to do. An old English woman, when she was seriously ill and knew that her days were numbered, wrote the following poem: Don't pity me now, never pity me, I will never work again, never, ever again. Many people have been unemployed or have nothing to do, and they feel that life is very slow and empty. Anyone who has had this experience will know that having a job is not misfortune, but a kind of happiness.
can love others. The poet Bai Langning once wrote: "He looked at her, and she smiled back at him, and life suddenly woke up." With love in life, we will become radiant, humble and alive, and new hopes will arise, as if there are thousands of things waiting for us to complete. With love, life has spring, and the world has become colorful.
The most perfect prayer should be: "Lord, please help me to have the strength to help others."