Actually, there is nothing wrong with you, it’s just that the incorrect consciousness of others has emphasized it too much, which makes you worry a lot about your normal performance!
I would like to ask:
1. Is the appreciation and pursuit of beautiful things only for women? The Apple mobile phone born under Steve Jobs conquered the world! Isn't Apple a pursuit of feeling and beauty, whether it is its controllability or appearance?
2. Are customer service, clerical, administrative, and personnel specialist jobs exclusive to women? Are there no other men doing it? If there are other men involved, are they all abnormal? Definitely not!
If you understand the "Enneagram", you will know that we have nine different temperaments in our infancy, which will be reflected in the degree of activity; regularity; initiative; adaptability; and interest. The range of temperaments; the intensity of reactions; the quality of the mood; the degree of distraction; the range/persistence of concentration, etc. These nine different temperaments later formed nine types of personalities. You must belong to one of them, but there is no one type. Either male or female! It’s just that different personalities will show different temperaments. Women with size 8 are strong but not soft enough. Men with size 4 are men with soft temperament and are also quite classy men. It is said that Steve Jobs is a man with size 4!
The generation of each personality is closely related to the growth environment. You must first understand what your personality is!
You can learn more about the Enneagram Academy website of Balanced Wisdom. There is a lot of effective support on it to relieve your confusion and make full use of your strengths. . . . .