Women often complain that a man's heart is peeled off layer by layer like an onion, making her cry until he finally finds out that he has no heart. Playboy is not just a man's patent. In fact, some women have no heart.
A woman's heart is like a needle in the sea. Love and affection are deeply hidden in her heart, and men may not be able to see through her heart. In the world of love, some women only pay some love skills in exchange for a man's sincerity, but she may not really be distracted, just regard him as a spare tire. Women treat men as spare tires and generally have the following behaviors:
First, you can find me at any time, but you never know her whereabouts.
When women meet true love, they often become humble and insecure. I'm afraid I'm not perfect enough to get a man's heart. The same is true for men. When men are in love, their unrequited love or love is rare. In order to win the hearts of women, they are on call and love as humble as dust.
A woman can always get help from a man when she needs help, just like a brick. Only when she needs help can she show her value. A woman is always available to men, but men often don't know her whereabouts, and she may suddenly disappear for a few days. With her, I feel very insecure, I can't guess her mind, and I feel that she always keeps a distance from you deliberately.
Second, don't clarify your relationship, and don't refuse other boys who chase her.
In the Law of Love, there is an interesting phenomenon: when women are not in love, their circle of friends is large and their popularity is good. However, after falling in love, the circle of women will become smaller and smaller. Once a woman falls in love with a person, she will take him as the center, know how to be self-disciplined, keep her distance from other friends of the opposite sex, and give men the greatest sense of security.
In a relationship, if a woman clearly knows that you love her, she never makes your relationship clear, nor does she refuse other boys to pursue her. Obviously, she didn't treat you wholeheartedly and didn't put all her love on you. A good woman who ignores your feelings and accepts other men shows that you are just a chicken rib in her heart. Eating is tasteless, but it is a pity to abandon it.
Third, don't refuse your efforts, but never give you any hope.
Not all spare tires have not "turned positive". Some men are justified boyfriends of women. However, a woman has someone in her heart, or she thinks you are not suitable to accompany her to her old age, but she hasn't met a better lover yet, so she may not refuse your efforts, but she won't give you any hope. For example, when you ask her to go home with you to meet your parents, she always shirks.
Love is a flower of hope. Without the hope of love, most of the roots will wither. When women are in love, they don't give men hope, and most of them have a lot of dissatisfaction with him. In her mind, you may not be the ideal object for him to "marry". She may break up with you when she meets a better man.
Fourth, when she is with you, she will keep her distance and resist intimate contact.
True love is two of a kind, especially mutual appreciation. When men and women are together, if a woman is interested in men, then she will express her inner love through some words and deeds, let men know her thoughts and make the development of love more clear.
If a woman's love is not completely transmitted to you, she will deliberately keep her distance from you when she is with you. In particular, it will rule out intimate contact between you and her.
Fifth, she is hot and cold to you. She only needs you when she is hurt and lonely.
There is a distance called hot and cold. No matter how a man thinks, he always feels that her heart is like sand, and he can't catch it. Only when a woman is hurt and lonely will she be remembered. And when she felt happy, she left him.
When a man is pursuing a woman or in a relationship, if the distance between men and women cannot be adjusted, then the balance of love will be unbalanced. If a woman can call a man at will and only use him when necessary, then he may be her spare tire. True love is caring, being together and accompanying.
In love, it is not terrible to love the wrong person. The terrible thing is to block your heart with love, tie your legs and trap yourself in a dark cage. Love is too tired, or love is hard to find, probably not true love. Good love will never be too tired, let alone too hard. When pain is greater than happiness, love becomes qualitative.