1, a person's life is a life of constant choice, and we have to give up things at the same time, but there are also some things that we can't give up all our lives.
2. Life is short. If you want to achieve something, you must go into battle lightly, so it is necessary to abandon those old ideas, concepts and consciousness; Be in a bad mood; And bad habits and behaviors.
You have to give up, but it is not so easy to give up now. On the one hand, I am obsessed with it, on the other hand, I still stubbornly believe that it is still so useful and valuable in my subconscious. For future success, the only way is to give up these outdated ideas, concepts and consciousness.
5, impulse is the devil, bad emotions will affect people's psychology, behavior and then affect their own life development. People's IQ is important, but more important is emotional intelligence. The so-called emotional intelligence is to manage your emotions scientifically and actively, so as to establish a harmonious and orderly communication environment in your own internal and external world. And in the benign cooperation with others, get the healthy development of life.
6. Good habits make a good fortune, and vice versa. Therefore, we must give up all our bad habits and behaviors. To give up bad habits and behaviors effectively, we must establish new and excellent habits to replace them.
7. If you have something in your life, you must give it up. Giving up is to get better. Some must give up, but some can't, and don't give up, don't give up, never give up.
8. As an individual ideal, you must never give up. As human beings, people have ideas, motives and needs. Ideal is my ultimate pursuit and my vision. This is the plan of what kind of person you want to be. It is the goal, direction and banner of our life, and only its existence can guide behavior to practice and achieve something.
9, people alive, always have a little spirit. You can't give up the spirit. Perseverance is the secret weapon of success; The spirit of lifelong continuous learning is the patent of the master; Positive and optimistic spirit is the common feature of successful people.
10, sit down and get up. Action is never giving up. If you want to, you must do something. Action is the last link of success. Action can turn plans, designs and blueprints on paper into successful buildings. Therefore, no matter how good a strategy or idea is, its ultimate realization depends on action.
1 1. Giving up is an opportunity cost, and getting it must be greater than giving up. Never give up is the world view at the core of life, which can guide you to practice better.
12, many things are always experienced before you understand. Just like feelings, you will know how to protect yourself after the pain. If you are stupid, you will know how to persist and give up at the right time. In the process of gain and loss, we gradually understand ourselves. In fact, life does not need this meaningless persistence. If there is nothing, we really can't give up. Learn to give up, maybe life will be easier.
13, learn to give up and turn away before crying. Leave a simple back, learn to give up, bury yesterday in your heart and leave the best memories. Learn to give up so that we can have a more relaxed start. Black and blue love is not necessarily unforgettable. This journey is deep and shallow, and it is not easy to get to today. Hold out your hand gently and say goodbye. I really appreciate you accompanying me all the way.
14, every relationship is beautiful and every journey is charming. It is a regret that we can't have, which makes us more attached. It is those sleepless nights that make us miss it even more. Emotion is a questionnaire with no answer. Hard pursuit does not make life more complete. Perhaps a little regret and sadness will make this answer sheet longer.
15, sometimes it is not cost-effective to make yourself exhausted in order to stick to one thing. Moreover, some things can only be seen from a distance, not ridiculous. Once you get it, after a long time, you may find that it is not as good as you think. If you find that what you lose and give up is more precious, I think you will be annoyed, so there is often a saying that "what you can't get is always the best", so when you like something, getting it is not your best choice.
16, who said that if you like someone, you must be with him? Sometimes, some people, in order to be with the person they like, do not hesitate to use many methods to retain the person they love, but this can't keep his heart. In fact, if you like someone, you don't have to be with him. Although some people often say "I don't care about eternity, I only care about what I once had", not everyone will be happy to like someone. The most important thing is to make him happy, because his mood will affect your mood. "You are happy, and I am happy." Therefore, when you like someone, unrequited love is also the best policy.
17, there is a song that goes like this: "Secret love is also very happy, at least not without choice", "Why do you never feel that emotional things are too difficult to load, and it will not be too bumpy if you don't want to possess them", "No matter who your heart is, I will not be frustrated, just want to be a quiet passerby". Therefore, whether you like a thing or a person, it is better to face it easily than to make yourself tired. Even if one day you give up or leave, you will learn to be calm. If you like something, you must learn to appreciate it and cherish it.
18. If you like someone, you must make him happy. Making him happy will make that relationship more sincere. Let go if you can't do it. So sometimes, some people should learn to give up, because giving up is also a kind of beauty.
19, when you see a person in the whirlpool of feelings, in the pain of losing a loved one, in the pain of hatred, in the pain of his own situation, and so on. We often advise them to think about it and let nature take its course.
20. Isn't pain just a little thought hanging in my heart? Although that idea is so reluctant, so entangled in my heart, so unwilling, but I have deep thoughts, hopes and pains. Just let it go, and I'll be happy if I let it go!
2 1, put it down That's easy to say. Some things can't be put down if you want to. How can I let go of that wonderful past? Although the pain is heartbreaking, it is a little sweet and hard to give up. Especially in the pain of hatred, it is really difficult to extricate yourself!
22. If you want to survive, even if you choose to jump off a cliff, you should pursue the so-called painful happiness. Jumping happily is like a moth to a fire, and there is no regret for heroic sacrifice! This is also an ultimate beauty, but it must be happy and willing!
23. If you want to open it completely, you can't get rid of the entanglement of pain and love. Then take the initiative to divert attention, divert attention. Go out to exercise, go to the wild, go to nature, and change your mood in pleasant mountains and rivers; Or busy, don't leave a little space for your thoughts; Or reading, wandering in the sea of books, looking for other fun; Or listen to music, let the music gently touch the heart and slowly heal the sadness; Or communicate, tell your friends or people you can trust, or shout at rivers and mountains and let them release slowly; Or, broaden your horizons and look for higher peaks and more beautiful scenery. The little things in my heart will gradually become less important, and slowly let go.
24. No matter how reluctant and painful, let go; No matter how unwilling you are, it's beyond your control. It's futile to keep it. Nothing is eternal, the world is changing, society is changing, people are changing, and change is inevitable. If you know, you won't feel pain.
25, don't let anything make you unhappy, feel pain, feel unhappy, give up; No one can help you, only you can help you. This must be remembered!
26, once in a lifetime, no one's life will be smooth sailing, without any twists and turns, no one can always live in the spring season, experience the cycle of spring, summer, autumn and winter, experience the changes of the world, almost everyone can not escape, since it is impossible to escape, then face it calmly and accept it calmly.
27. Nothing in the world is perfect. Even ordinary species have labels that make them famous. No matter how annoying this season is, they also have something to be proud of. No matter how ugly the creature is, there are secrets to benefit all beings. So is life. No matter how rough and hard you experience, no matter how cruel and optimistic life is, everything will be relieved, depending on how you understand life and how you look at it.
28, life will not be because of who's reluctance, all the ups and downs will obey who's mind, nor because of who doesn't like it, all the ups and downs will be avoided for whom. Instead of complaining, it is better to change your mind. Instead of complaining about life, it is better to adapt to life and be a strong person in life.
29. Life is a stormy process, and it is also an experience of returning to the shore. We don't need to lament the impermanence and ups and downs of fate, but should find ways to become wise in life. No matter how tortuous the life line is, it is not antagonistic or extreme. After all the tests of fate, it is equivalent to opening the door to all the goodwill of fate.
30. We have an objective understanding of life. Life is never flat, and the wind comes and the rain goes. This is the world, sweet, light, sour and salty. This world has never been able to get the abacus right, live a good daily life, live a plain life, and how to live a wider life.
Editor's note: Fate is a kind of nourishment of peace. Peace is also a kind of spiritual strength. Not impetuous, not pessimistic, not barren, not uneasy. It can see clearly the pain, live a heavy life, transform those gloomy feelings inside, or compromise, know what it can't do and know what it is doing.
Good relationships are casual.
1, there are many roads in a person's life, including straight roads and narrow roads; There are prosperity and desolation. In any case, we must go our own way, and no one can rely entirely on anyone. Don't shy away, don't back down, face it with an open mind, and what belongs to you will come eventually. Sometimes, you think you can't get through it, so be it. There is no road to go, as long as you are willing to go, you have already set foot on this road.
A true friend is a pair of hands when you are depressed, a shoulder when you are in pain, and a comfort when you are discouraged.
3. Accept what has happened with a normal heart. With a broad heart, tolerate those who are sorry for you. Adhere to the correct concept with an unchanging heart. Happily help people in need. Face those things that are hard to give up with a relaxed heart. Appreciate things around you with a beautiful heart. Treat everyone sincerely. Be grateful for what you have.
When we always complain that the world is dark, it is our own heart that is covered with thick dust. Smart people never live in other people's mouths or eyes. From the heart, from the sexual point of view, can not stand the false fate, unintentional inaction, freedom, freedom of movement, self-knowledge, the present is practice. People can't be too fake, and it's hard to have a heart-to-heart relationship if they are fake. You can't see the world clearly, and it's hard to see it clearly.
5. If you cherish it, you will be sincere; It's worth knowing something.
6, beautiful, in the days of infatuation, who can tell what is sweet and what is bitter. All I know is that if I am sure, I will not hesitate. If you want to lose, you will lose to pursuit, and if you want to marry, you will marry happiness.
7. It is happiness to have friends in life, but a bosom friend is hard to find.
8. Shoes that don't fit, don't get stuck, grind your own feet; If the caller doesn't answer, don't repeat it over and over again. People who cherish you will call the first time. Don't go all the way to the restaurant where you moved. You can't always spend time on the road. All people and things, just have a clear conscience. Don't force it if it's not yours. Anyway, what is left is the scenery and the life.
9. Loneliness means that there is no one in your heart. Loneliness is when someone in your heart is not around. Peace of mind, life is a calm water; In the journey of life, everyone is busy getting to know all kinds of people, thinking that this is to enrich life. But the most valuable meeting is to meet yourself again at a certain moment, and then you will understand that traveling around the world is just to find a way back to your heart.
10, some people always say that when you are old and have nothing, you will live with memories. However, not all the memories of a person's life are beautiful and memorable. Maybe when you look back, you will find that all the encounters and all the possessions are so insignificant. Even feel helpless and sad, just like a clean piece of white paper, stained with ink.
1 1, there are some things you can care about, but don't overdo it, it will wear your mind and aggravate your steps; Some pain, you can immerse yourself in it, but don't stay too long, it will reduce morale and lose your direction for a long time. Don't refuse to give up things that don't belong to you. This is actually a kind of mind and tolerance; Don't let go of those who are destined to belong to you, let self-confidence and persistence become a quality and connotation. If you care more, you will have less fun; Looking down, everything will be relieved.
12, don't importune at the intersection, importune is not fragrant; If you don't cherish it, you will cherish it for a long time.
13, it doesn't matter how long two people are together, what matters is whether you stay in this person's heart or not. Some people will stay in their hearts for life even if they are together for one day; Some people have never spent a day in their hearts even if they have been together for a lifetime.
14, when the wind and rain, you can see the truth; In the plain, you can see your heart.
15. In life, there are always more audiences than friends. The audience will only make people feel comfortable visually, but friends will move your heart.
16, good feelings may be very light, such as water, like tea, savor it carefully and taste it slowly before you can understand it. Heartache when you are injured and companionship when you are sad are worth a thousand words.
17, a passage enters the heart, just because it touches the heart; A line of tears shed, only because of the fragile disintegration.
18, lift yourself too high, others may not respect you; Put yourself too low, others may not respect you; No one is perfect, so there is no need to hide his shortcomings. To be a man, you must be able to raise your head and bow your head. Tilting up and down is not only a gesture, but also an attitude and a quality. Looking up in adversity is a kind of courage and confidence; Bowing your head in prosperity is a calm and low-key thing. We must have the courage to strive for the upper reaches and the atmosphere of being willing to bow our heads. Keep your eyes open and refuse temptation.
19, sometimes what people need is not material wealth, but spiritual comfort; Not sweet talk, but common understanding. It's about love, because it's tempting; Touched my heart, because I am serious.
20. Good fate is fate; Good relationships are casual.
A kind of lovesickness and a kind of nostalgia.
It's getting dark and the night is becoming more and more obvious. The birch leaves outside the window are swaying in the wind, so I can't tell the direction of the leaves. Whether it's east or west, whether it's me or him. How I want to pray for unscrupulous wind, wind, can you stop for a while, let me see the direction of the leaf, see if it is as I imagined, and see if it has its own ideas.
In the early morning of summer, birds spread their wings in front of branches and talked to each other with unabashed eyes. Their voices wake up sleepy people like alarm clocks, and they have to walk a long way. In the summer afternoon, frogs with new limbs sang intoxicating songs endlessly by the pond, never feeling too tired and not knowing whether what they did was right or wrong; On a summer night, a cool breeze blew on my hair, and my restless heart calmed down. I think of you in the distance, and it seems difficult to sleep. Your figure floats in my mind. I really want to ask you face to face: honey, are you okay?
I will always dream of your face, always hear broken words and always think of your figure.
It is your cold and amiable face that is deeply hidden in my heart and has become eternity in my life. It is said that time can change everything and forget everything, but your face is lingering in my mind. Maybe thinking about the day and dreaming at night. No matter in the cold wind, in the continuous spring rain, or at night when the moon hangs on the treetops, you will always go through that window and brush the window lattice in the dark, bright, quiet or noisy night sky, and throw yourself into my dream, where you will always see your innocent smiling face. Those charming eyes and clear fundus seem to be wasting water, and there is no trace of anxiety. Bright eyes shine on my heart like stars in the sky; Clear eyes are like a pair of round mirrors, reflecting my figure. How I want to follow those stars and light up my life; How I want to, my figure has caught your eye, and I have been walking with your eyes. Look at your eyebrows again, as if they had been cut with a comb, so neat. I will never forget your glittering skin and red eyes. What's more special is the little black hemorrhoid next to your eyes. How beautiful it is against those eyes. Otherwise, you will always be an oblique bangs. Liu Hai brushed her brow lightly, and when she smiled, she was shaking gently. How happy I was when I saw your face.
It is too many words that make me think too much and lose my way forward. I always feel that I have been at a crossroads with dim lights, and it is difficult to choose my own path. How I want to hear your voice, what you say in my ear, and how I want to see your lips open and close. Dear you, can you give me a perfect answer? Whether you can keep me from wandering at the crossroads, whether you can accompany me through this difficult life path, as long as it is the direction you guide, your company, even if it is wrong, even if it is an impassable alley, I will choose without regrets. Because of you, as long as I can be with you, even if there are more thorns on the road, I am not afraid of any bitterness and pain.
There are too many figures by the lake, in the park, in the downtown and beside the highway, which always makes me think about your appearance involuntarily. How are you doing? How I wish I could walk to Wan Li where you are. Someone always says: If you like someone, you will definitely like where that person is. I quite agree with this sentence, which is deeply imprinted in my mind. How I want to see that beautiful place, how I want to come to your side, how I want to tell you my endless love and eternal concern for you. I really want to be with you, always accompany you without regrets, hold your small and exquisite hand, let the fragrance in your sleeve intoxicate my life, go to see flowers, the sea and the colorful market with you. Let's peek at dancing butterflies and bees; Let's pursue the happiness of diving water eagle crossing the sea; Let's experience the noise in the market. Dear, let me accompany you and travel to every corner of the city where you live.
A kind of lovesickness and a kind of nostalgia. A thousand words, it is difficult to tell my feelings for you.
I really want to tell you that you are the eternal expectation in my life, you are the lingering happiness in my memory, and you are the eternal acacia in my heart. Forever and ever, the seas run dry and the rocks crumble. I want to tell you that my heart for you will remain unchanged even though the ages are old and the seas are dry and the rocks are rotten.
Healing system text: good fate is fate; Good relationships are casual _ talk about healing.
First, don't regret, the road is your own choice, and what you have passed and missed is your own wish. Many things can be done without my thinking. Emotions, joys and sorrows, holding the hands of the annual rings, never-ending progress, this is healthy and stable. These original and essential things, twisted into a rope, tied to the heart, flew like kites, jumped into the air and saw the blue of the sky and the green of the earth.
Second, in fact, I'm always behind you. I just need you to turn around.
Third, it is better to miss each other than to meet each other, and fate is better than climbing. Life is just a journey, you pass by me, I pass by you, and then, practice separately and move on. -Half-life plainclothes
Fourth, I am busy, but I am still willing to take the time to care about you, because you are very important in my heart. I'm still busy, but I don't want to spend any more time caring about you, not because you become unimportant, but because I find that I am unimportant in your heart. Sometimes, what changes is not yourself or the other person, but your understanding of yourself. Chen Mo
Five, can be together, please cherish. Because some people want to be together, but they can't
6. Happiness is not a destination, but a journey.
Seven, wrestling, don't cry, stand up again, stand up straight and smile, pat the dust and continue to run. Face up to every setback in life, adapt to every ups and downs in life, absorb every failure in life, and make use of every ups and downs in life. Try to give yourself the best mood, balance your breath, adjust your mentality, and don't rush for success. Even if it falls again, tomorrow can still be better.
Eight, once the feeling disappears, the promise is just a blank sheet of paper.
Love is a book without a title page, a table of contents or even a cover. I suddenly realized that when I read this book, I had turned over many pages.
If you want to be worshipped, you are not afraid of being spurned.
1 1. Life is like a multiple-choice question, and it is often the numerous choices that bother you, not the topic itself.
When we always complain about the darkness of the world, it is precisely our own heart that is covered with thick dust. Smart people never live in other people's mouths or eyes. From the heart, from the sexual point of view, can not stand the false fate, unintentional inaction, freedom, freedom of movement, self-knowledge, the present is practice. People can't be too fake, and it's hard to have a heart-to-heart relationship if they are fake. You can't see the world clearly, and it's hard to see it clearly.
Thirteen, friends have two sides, some give you warmth, and some will only make you chilling. Even if you have been hurt by your friends, you should be thankful that it is really not a matter of getting together in this era of no money, no rights, no benefits and no rights. If you feel right, you will stick to it. No one can blame you for being tired after walking away. People live for themselves, and don't stay if they leave. Take good care of the people around you, let them really understand you and be inseparable from each other. That's a true friend.
Sometimes, you have to pretend to be happy just to prevent others from asking you what's wrong.
Fifteen, when you see someone you hate, you want to scold 10 thousand sentences, but when you meet someone you like, you don't say a word. Pride and humility use the same answer when facing two extremes. The more I grow up, the less I want to talk. If you don't talk, you can hold back the pain and melt the hatred.
Sixteen, how many of us have lived in cages all our lives, eager to watch others take risks, pursue their dreams and enjoy freedom. I realized that there are two kinds of chickens in the world: those who live in cages and those who are free. I want to be a free chicken. -"Free Chicken"
Seventeen, inappropriate shoes, don't force the plug, grind your feet; If the caller doesn't answer, don't repeat it over and over again. People who cherish you will call the first time. Don't go all the way to the restaurant where you moved. You can't always spend time on the road. All people and things, just have a clear conscience. Don't force it if it's not yours. Anyway, what is left is the scenery and the life.
Eighteen, good fate is fate; Good relationships are casual.
The weather is unpredictable. Who knows what will happen in the future? He who laughs laughs laughs last. -Dumas