『一』The essential difference between Chicken Soup for the Soul and philosophy
Chicken Soup for the Soul mainly uses some small things in real life or even just some myths, legends and fables to create a one-sided and incomplete story. Superficially illustrate and explain some philosophies of life. Philosophy, on the other hand, is based on objective logic or the qualitative basis of some universal abstract concepts (existence, matter, concepts of good and evil, beauty and ugliness) to deduce some natural and life philosophies with universal significance and values. Obviously, the role and significance of Chicken Soup for the Soul cannot be compared with real philosophy. Because Chicken Soup for the Soul only has a preaching function of local significance, and cannot have the profound and widely applicable significance like philosophy.
『二』Chicken Soup for the Soul, a 300-word story
Once upon a time, there was a young monk who had only been a monk for half a month, so he went to beg for alms with his master. The little monk passed by a lively market and saw the fish and meat spread all over the floor. He couldn't help but salivate. However, the master was by his side and he didn't dare to buy meat. This helpless state of mind plagued him for several days, making him feel uncomfortable all over. On the fourth day, he finally couldn't help but said to the master: "Master, look, the meat all over the street is smelling delicious. Let's eat it together!" The master paused and said, "Okay. You go and ask for alms. When you get to Qianjia, I will buy meat for you to eat." The young monk nodded frequently, held a bowl and went to beg for alms.
The young monk moved many people with his Buddha heart. They donated their money one after another to help him, and soon he reached thousands of families. The master saw everything and was very happy for the little monk, so he asked the little monk again: "Do you still want to eat meat?"
The little monk put his hands together and said: "Amitabha! Master, Buddha In my heart, I am devoted to the Buddha, and I have no distracting thoughts. How can I still want to eat meat?"
The young monk wants to eat meat but cannot - confused
One-heartedly alms-all! Learn with your heart
Have no distracting thoughts - get out of confusion
Follow the Buddha - learn and achieve success
"Three" How to treat self-examination on Zhihu's chicken soup, jokes, Life philosophy stories
Chicken soup, jokes, and life philosophy stories are originally a culture that was born in the Internet background. There are definitely both advantages and disadvantages, and we have to choose according to our actual situation.
For example, some chicken soup articles. Sometimes it can indeed heal our wounded hearts and show us a bright future. And some other jokes can also make us entertained and laugh in our leisure time. Of course, some other philosophical stories about life can also inspire us and play a role in "pointing the way".
In short, we need to carefully identify this kind of Internet culture, and then learn the essence of it and use it for our own use.
『四』Who has watched Chicken Soup for the Soul, please tell me a philosophical story.
Like you, I also have many confused moments. The future is far away, and I don’t know where to go next. Thinking about it later, I don’t know what the future will bring, so I should do the things at hand first. You use the time that others use to be hesitant to do something practical. Looking back three to five years later, confused people are still confused, but you have long been reborn. The only way out for confusion and distress is to live solidly every day.
I have never believed in lazy freedom. The freedom I yearn for is a broader life achieved through diligence and hard work. That kind of freedom is precious and valuable. I believe in the 10,000-hour rule, and I never believe in pie-in-the-sky inspiration and achievement achieved by waiting. Be a free and self-disciplined person and live seriously with determination that will surely come true.
You have to figure out the script of your life - it is not a sequel to your parents, not a prequel to your children, and not a sequel to your friends. You might as well be bold and take risks with life, because you will eventually lose it anyway. If there is a miracle in this world, it is just another name for hard work. The most difficult stage in life is not that no one understands you, but that you don't understand yourself.
Growth means that even if you are so sad that you almost die, you still go to class and go to work as usual the next day. No one knows what happened to you, and no one cares what happened to you. Only you know about your future. If you can't explain it clearly, don't explain it. No one cares about your youth, and don’t let others influence your youth.
Happiness is that ordinary people remain the same.
Under the dinner light, the same people sat in the same seats and talked about the same topics. The young ones still chatter about their school, and the old ones still chatter about their dentures. The smell of frying fish was still coming from the kitchen, and the noisy TV news was still ringing in the living room.
What really lights up life is not the scenery of tomorrow, but the beautiful hope. How to love your imperfect self calmly and confidently is a more profound knowledge than how to love others.
『五』 What are some inspirational stories about Chicken Soup for the Soul
1. Giving
There was an old carpenter who was preparing to retire. He told his boss that he wanted to leave the construction industry. , go home and enjoy family happiness with your wife and children. The boss was reluctant to let his good worker go and asked him if he could help build another house. The old carpenter said yes. But everyone could see later that his heart was no longer in his work. He was using soft materials and doing rough work. When the house was built, the boss handed him the key to the door. "This is your house," he said, "my gift to you." He was stunned with shock and ashamed. If he had known that he was building a house for himself, how could he be like this? Now he has to live in a shoddy house! And we are not like this. We carelessly "build" our lives, instead of taking positive actions, we deal with it passively, refusing to strive for excellence in everything, and failing to do our best at critical moments. By the time we are shocked to realize our situation, we are already deeply trapped in the "house" we built. Think of you as the carpenter, think about your house. Every day you hammer in a nail, add a board, or erect a wall. Use your wisdom to build it! Your life is the only creation of your life. You cannot wipe it out and rebuild it. Even if you only have one day to live, you must live it beautifully and noblely that day. The nameplate on the wall reads: "Life is what you create."
2. Lover’s Heart
This is a true story that happened in England. There was a lonely old man, childless and frail, who decided to move to a nursing home. The old man announced that his beautiful residence was for sale. Buyers flocked to the store after hearing the news. The base price of the house was ￡80,000, but people quickly fetched it up to ￡100,000. Prices are still rising. The old man's eyes were full of melancholy. Yes, if it weren't for his poor health, he would not have sold the house where he spent most of his life. A young man in simple clothes came to the old man, bent down and whispered: "Sir, I really want to buy this house, but I only have 10,000 pounds. However, if you sell the house to me, I promise to let you buy it." You still live here, drinking tea, reading newspapers, and taking walks with me, and you are happy every day - believe me, I will take care of you with my whole heart!" The old man nodded and smiled, and bought the house for 10,000 pounds. The price was sold to him.
3. Choice
A farmer rescued his wife from the flood, but his child drowned. Afterwards, people talked a lot. Some said he did the right thing, because the child can have another child, but the wife cannot die and be resurrected; some said he did the wrong thing, because the wife can marry another, but the child cannot die and be resurrected. After listening to people's discussions, I also felt puzzled: If I could only save one person, should I save my wife or my child? So I went to visit the farmer and asked him what he thought at the time. He replied: "I didn't think about anything. The flood hit and my wife passed by me. I grabbed her and swam to a nearby hillside. When I returned, the child had been washed away by the flood." On the way home, I thought about the farmer's words and said to myself: This is how many choices in life are made.
4. Doctorate
There was a doctor who was assigned to a research institute and became the person with the highest academic qualifications. One day he went fishing in the small pond behind his unit, and the director and deputy director happened to be on his left and right, also fishing. He just nodded slightly. What do these two undergraduates have to talk about? After a while, the director put down his fishing rod, stretched, and walked from the water to the opposite side to use the toilet. The doctor's eyes were so wide open that he almost fell down: Floating on the water? No way? This is a pond. When the director came back from using the toilet, he also floated back from the water. What's going on? It's not easy for a doctoral student to ask. Who is a doctoral student? After a while, the deputy director also stood up, walked a few steps, and floated across the water to the toilet. At this moment, the doctor almost fainted: No way, coming to a place where masters of martial arts gather? The doctoral student was also anxious.
There are walls on both sides of this pond. To get to the toilet on the opposite side, you have to take a ten-minute detour, and it is too far back to the unit. What should I do? The doctoral student was unwilling to ask the two directors. After holding it in for a long time, he got up and went into the water. Quan: I don’t believe that what an undergraduate student can pass, I can’t pass as a doctoral student. Just hearing a thud, the doctoral student fell into the water. The two directors pulled him out and asked him why he wanted to go into the water. He asked: "Why can you walk over?" The two directors looked at each other and smiled: "There are two rows of wooden piles in this pond. Because it has rained in the past two days, The rising water is just under the water. We all know the location of this wooden pile, so we can step on it. Why don't you ask?" Educational qualifications represent the past, and only learning ability represents the future. Only those who respect experience will avoid detours. A good team should also be a learning team.
5. Window
There was a wife who had been complaining for many years that the wife across the street was lazy, "That woman's clothes can never be washed clean. Look, she hangs her clothes in the yard outside. There are always spots, I really don’t know how she can even wash clothes like that.” It wasn't until one day that a perceptive friend came to her house and discovered that it wasn't the wife across the street who couldn't wash her clothes cleanly. The attentive friend took a rag and wiped off the dust stains on the wife's window and said, "Look, isn't this clean?" It turned out that the window of his own home was dirty.
"Lu" Find a few books with philosophical stories about famous people like "The Knapsack of Wisdom" and "Chicken Soup for the Soul"
May everyone's wisdom become more and more flexible
Thanks
I don't know what you want to do. Just read less other people's books. "My First Philosophy"
"The Wisdom Backpack" contains philosophical short stories by famous people. . . Compare
"七" The story in "Chicken Soup for the Soul"
1. Life always begins with one's own crying and ends with the tears of others. Medically, it is believed that tears have the function of cleaning the eyeballs and are a stress response to external stimuli. From the time of fetus, there are basic tears. So tears mark life. Until the end of life, there may still be tears to remember your lost soul.
Human beings are emotional animals, with seven emotions and six desires. They cannot be suppressed in the heart for a long time and appear externally. They don’t care about expressions, language, movements, etc., whether they are happy or sad, crying and laughing, the tears are there. Accumulation in the eye frames, like water flow, drop by drop is the world of emotion. In this world, there are truths and lies, calls and traps...
Tears are not only related to sadness and grief, but also to joy. Laughing when you are extremely angry, crying when you are extremely happy. Before a huge surprise or happiness, it is difficult for people to find the best way to express their emotions, and tears often flow out first. There were tears in his smile, his temperament was frank, and the many complex emotions that followed were hard to describe in a moment, all condensed in the liquid that came out of his eyes.
Tears seem to be destined for women, who are good at seeing bright eyes. If there is mist, it is the beauty and beauty of the deep pool, which captures the soul and is infinitely romantic. With little tears and slightly sexy Daiyu, she has stolen the hearts of countless men. It is easy to imagine why they all expect "Sister Lin to fall from the sky". When there are tears, men tend to be affectionate and pity women, and women tend to follow the flow of love. Tears become a lubricant for harmonious love. But women can't use it too much, because when faced with women's tears, men are always frightened and at a loss, and either ignore it or run away. Women, please remember that many times, smiles and tears are equally important.
Men don’t shed tears lightly, so men are used to hiding tears in their hearts and letting them flow in their blood. This is the influence of cultural traditions. Pretended strength will always collapse one day. When a man really wants to cry, he must be careful, because the sea will really burst out of control. But most men will choose to cry heartbrokenly in a deserted corner or in front of the woman closest to them. Most of the time, his smile hides his tears.
Those who dare to laugh and cry are true lovers. The heart is true and the tears are true.
With a moved heart, we use tears to nourish the truth, goodness and beauty of the world; with a compassionate heart, we use tears to commemorate the pain and sorrow; with a sincere heart, we use tears to warm the painful souls .
Life always moves forward in tears, and you can taste all kinds of sweetness, sourness, and bitterness. Perhaps, "if you understand tears, you understand life."
2. Love starts with a smile
Maybe God deliberately allows us to meet a few people who are not destined to be together before meeting the true lover in life; so that we can Learn to cherish this belated gift. As all impulse, passion, and romance disappear, your concern and concern for that person remain undiminished. That is love.
The saddest thing in life is to give up chasing the person I love and watch "him-" move away. His importance to me does not make him give me anything back. No matter how long I chased him, I was still going to let him go.
We tend to be immersed in the existing happiness, intoxicated for a long time and unable to extricate ourselves. When this happiness suddenly disappears, we are at a loss and fall into the abyss of depression for the lost happiness, but we have not discovered that in life There are too many joys waiting for us to experience in other places. A best friend does not require any language to communicate. When he walked by, I just sat there and waved gently, but it felt like the most wonderful communication I had ever had.
We understand what we once had when we lose it, but we also discover what we lacked when we gain it. When giving love, no one is sure that it will be reciprocated. Don’t expect to receive love. Slowly wait for my love to take root and sprout in his heart. Even if it doesn’t, I will be satisfied because I already have a piece of love in my heart. An oasis of love.
There may be many words that I will never be able to say from the mouths of the people I expect, but when some people say these words from the bottom of their hearts, please don't walk away. If you are still reluctant to leave, then please don't turn your head.
If your heart is not yet settled, please never give up. If you still love, why say you don't? Love belongs to those who have been discouraged and disappointed but still continue to look forward to it; love belongs to those who have been betrayed and deceived but still believe in beauty; love belongs to those who are scarred but still long for love. It only takes a minute to turn against someone, an hour to fall in love with someone, and a lifetime to forget someone. Don't be tempted by beautiful appearance, it may be just an illusion. Don't be tempted by wealth, it will eventually fade. Go to the person who can make you smile, because a smile can light up the darkness. I hope you can find the person who lights up your life. When the person you miss deeply appears in your dream, you really want to feel his most real embrace. I hope there is someone in your life that you can dream about.
Dream what you want to do, do what you want to do, go where you want to go, be who you want to be, because you only have one life to fulfill your desires.
I wish you unlimited happiness to make your life sweet, countless trials and tribulations to make you strong, and endless pain to make you a real person. Always put yourself in other people's shoes. When you are hurt, other people's hearts may be hurting too. A careless word can start a fight, a cruel word can destroy someone's life, a well-timed word can calm a wave, and a loving word can heal someone else's wound.
"Eight" Chicken Soup for the Soul Stories
Share three familiar, short and concise Chicken Soup for the Soul stories
About happiness
A late man A 20-year-old fisherman was walking on the beach in the warm winter sun when he saw a fisherman basking in the sun and asked:
"Why don't you go fishing?"
"What are you doing fishing for?"
"Earn money to buy a big fishing boat!"
"Why are you buying a big fishing boat?"
"You can catch a lot of fish. You will become a rich man."
"So what if you become a rich man?"
"You don't have to fish anymore, you can bask in the sun happily."
"I'm not here Let's bask in the sun!" The rich man was speechless.
Enlightenment: Happiness is a feeling. If you feel it, you have it. A rich man is not necessarily happier than a fisherman basking in the sun, and a ragpicker can have the same happiness as a big star.
Optimistic people are the happiest
There was a lovelorn girl who cried because she was unwilling to give in.
A philosopher laughed and said: You just lost someone who doesn't love you, but what he lost was someone who loved him. His loss was greater than yours. Why do you hate him? He should be the one who is unwilling.
Enlightenment: The joys and sorrows of life can also vary from different perspectives.
The Last Journey
He is a design engineer, and she is a homeroom teacher who graduated from middle school. They both missed the best season of love, and they met after being introduced. There is no earth-shattering process, just get along calmly and get married naturally.
On the third day after his marriage, he went to work overtime at his workplace. In order to catch up on the project, he would even work all night long and stay away from home for several days and nights. She is busy with the management of the graduating class and often comes home late. For their respective careers, they are like two tops, spinning at high speed on their own orbits.
After seeing off her graduating class, she began to re-examine her life and her marriage. She began to feel confused and didn’t know how much she felt in his heart. She seemed not to remember that he said he loved her. she. One day, she asked him if he loved her, and he said of course he did, otherwise how could he get married. She asked him why he didn't say he loved her, and he said he didn't know how to say it. She took out the written divorce agreement, and he was stunned and said, let's go on a trip. I didn't even accompany you on the wedding honeymoon. I owe you a lot.
They went to Zhangjiajie, a place with strange peaks and rocks. The rainy weather matched their gloomy mood. Walking on the winding mountain road, she found that he always walked on the outside. She asked him why. He said that the road was too slippery and he was afraid that the fence on the outside was not strong. If she didn't Be careful of falling. Her heart suddenly felt warm, and she tore up the divorce agreement when she got home.
Enlightenment: Love is buried deep in the heart, especially love during marriage. It is plain and indescribable, but it really exists.
"Nine" The Story of Chicken Soup for the Soul
Three good brothers fell into a well. When their lives were dying, a rope hung down. They grabbed the rope and climbed up at the same time. Halfway up the well wall, someone said: "The rope can only bear the weight of two people, otherwise it will break." The three people looked at each other, and after a while, one of them let go of his hand, and he fell down, leaving his hope behind. Two good brothers. The remaining two people continued to climb up with tears in their eyes. When they were still one-third of the way to the wellhead, someone from above said: "The rope can only bear the weight of one person now, otherwise, it will break." The two people held on tightly. Holding the rope, staring at each other, only a few steps away from life and death, no one wants to let go. After a long time, one of them decisively stretched out his foot and kicked the other person down. A simple story, different people give it different philosophies of life. The philosopher said: "Although the first person is dead, he is still alive. Although the third person is alive, he is dead." The Buddhist said: "Letting go means gaining. The first person let go of the rope and has been sublimated. , the third man caught the rope but fell." The folk tale says: "The first man ascends to heaven, the second man goes to the grave, and the third man goes to hell." In real life: the first and the second. One person dies, and a third person eventually climbs up.
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The value of face
People's Liberation Army Lu Yuqiang
As the saying goes: "Trees need bark, people need face." This shows that "face" has an extremely noble status in people's lives. But the "face" here mainly refers to the face that people can see, but to the invisible and intangible face, that is, face. This face represents a person's personality and dignity. Giving face means respecting the personality; losing face means violating dignity. Therefore, people have always attached great importance to the issue of face.
The issue of face cannot be taken lightly. If you take the issue of face lightly, your spine will be broken or your bones will be deficient in calcium, and you will be looked down upon by others. Yuan Shikai betrayed his country for glory, and Wang Jingwei willingly became a traitor. Not only did he lose face, but he also lost all the face of his ancestors, resulting in a lifetime of infamy. When Yanzi was sent to Chu, the King of Chu let them enter through the "Dog Gate", intending to humiliate him. Unexpectedly, Yanzi humiliated the King of Chu by saying, "You can only enter through the Dog Gate when you are on a mission to the Dog Kingdom." This not only saved his own face. , and more importantly, preserved the dignity of Qi, so he has won the admiration of all generations.
However, the issue of face cannot be taken too seriously.
Saving face when you shouldn't care about it is a very shameful thing. Mr. Ah Q and Mr. Kong Yiji in Lu Xun's works are typical examples of saving face, but it is they who lost face. In real life, there are many people who get into a fight over a "losing face" gossip, even at the risk of their lives. This is even more stupid. Because whether you convince others, be convinced by others, or fail to convince anyone, it is very embarrassing. Furthermore, if life no longer exists, where is the face?
In fact, the key to whether or not face is worth fighting for is to look at the "face value" of things. If it is related to the honor of the country or the collective, or to safeguard one's own legitimate rights and interests, to promote righteousness, establish morality, and uphold laws and disciplines, then this face must be talked about and fought for, otherwise it will be a "useless thing." And if it is some trivial things in daily life, such as entanglements with colleagues, conflicts with friends, etc., then there is no need to waste energy on this "face", because fighting for such face will affect interpersonal relationships. , Secondly, it makes people look down upon and looks down on them, which makes them lose face. When encountering this kind of "face" problem, I think of dealing with it from the standpoint of respecting the other person's face and maintaining interpersonal relationships. You must understand that giving face to others is also giving yourself face.
Therefore, although face is important and worthy of people’s all-out efforts to maintain it, we must also think about what kind of face we really need to maintain? Is it valuable? How to maintain it? Otherwise, not only will you not win face, but you may also lose other faces.
Fair God
Guo Lei of the People's Liberation Army
A famous soprano singer from a certain European country, she is already famous all over the world at the age of only 30, and she Have a wonderful husband and a happy family. Once after she held a successful concert, the singer, her husband, and son were surrounded by a group of enthusiastic audience. People chatted with the singers, and words of praise and envy filled the entire venue.
There is a complimentary singer who was successful as a teenager and entered the national theater right after graduating from college and became a leading actor; some complimentary singer was named one of the top ten sopranos in the world at the age of 25. One is young and promising; others compliment the singer for having an excellent husband, while others have a lively and cute little boy with a smile on his face forever.
While people were talking, the singer just listened quietly and said nothing. When everyone had finished speaking, she said slowly: "First of all, I want to thank you for your praise of me and my family. I hope to be able to enjoy the happiness with you in these aspects. However, you only saw one On the one hand, and on the other hand, you haven’t seen it, that is, the lively and cute little boy you praise, who always has a smile on his face, is unfortunately a mute who cannot speak, and he also has a mental state that is often locked in the room. "Split Sister."
People were shocked. You look at me, I look at you. It seems difficult to accept this fact. At this time, the singer calmly said to the people: "What does all this mean? I'm afraid it can only mean one truth, that is, God is fair and will not give too much to anyone."
A perfect life is what everyone desires, but the space we live in is destined to be an imperfect world. There are kind angels and scary ghosts; there is the joy of success and the pain of failure; there are flowers and applause, but also failure and setbacks. But as long as we use our wisdom and sweat to accept what God has given us, and use strong perseverance to face setbacks calmly, the door to success will one day open to us.
Love is like a lamp
Cheng Yongquan
Love is a lamp that illuminates others and warms oneself. Those who carry a heart of love on the road will be in love for the rest of their lives.
Love is a very valuable emotion in life. Like a flower, it blooms, beautifies others, and bears fruit itself. Why should it be hidden in your heart?
George was a salesman for an insurance company in Washington. Once he bought flowers for his girlfriend and met Ben, the owner of a flower shop. It was just acquaintance, and he had only bought flowers from Ben's flower shop twice.
Later, he was inexplicably charged with fraud and thrown into prison for settling an insurance premium for a client. He will serve 10 years in prison. After hearing the news, his girlfriend left him.
Ten years are too long. George is used to living a passionate and passionate life. He doesn't know how to spend the long days without love and without seeing any light. He has no confidence in himself at all.
George spent the first month of depression in prison, almost going crazy, when someone came to see him. He had no family in Washington, and he could not think of anyone who did not remember him.
In the interview room, he couldn't help but be stunned. It turned out to be Ben, the owner of the flower shop. Ben brought him a bouquet of flowers.
Although it was just a bouquet of flowers, it brought vitality to George's prison life and made him see hope in life. In prison, he began to read a lot and delve into electronic science.
Six years later, he was released and worked as an employee in a computer company. Soon he opened a software company of his own. Two years later, he was worth over 100 million yuan.
George, who became a rich man, went to visit Ben, only to learn that Ben had gone bankrupt two years ago. The family was impoverished and moved to the countryside.
George brought Ben’s family back, bought him a building, and left a place for Ben in the company. George said, it is your bouquet of flowers every year that makes me miss the love and warmth of the world, and gives me the courage to overcome adversity. No matter what I do for you, I can never repay the help you gave me back then. I want to, in your name, Donate a sum of money to North American organizations, so that all unfortunate people in the world can feel your broad love.
Later, George donated a large amount of money and established the "Washington Ben Stranger Charity Foundation".
Giving love and loving everyone is something that everyone can easily do. A word, a smile, and a bouquet of flowers are enough. This does not cost us much, but it may help others get out of trouble, and at the same time it will also make our own lives beautiful. Why not?
Love flowers and people
People's Liberation Army Su Xiaokai
I saw this scene on TV: the reporter asked a senior flower farmer to talk about his experience, so he While demonstrating fertilizing and watering a flower, he explained the management essentials. At the end, he looked up at the camera. Thinking that the show was over, he leaned down, gently stroked the flower branch, and said, "You are so beautiful and energetic today!" The reporter felt strange and asked, "Do you praise them like this every day?" "No, but it happens all the time," the old flower farmer explained. "Flowers are just like people. They always understand what you say and get praise in time." When you are happy, you become more energetic. Come and see tomorrow, the little one will grow better!"
Praising a flower turns out to be one of the lessons of management. But it’s more of a love than a skill. Plants cannot truly understand people's words, but true love can be felt every moment. It comes from the ordinary trivialities, but it transcends the trivial ordinary. It covers every fat, water, smile and word.
I once saw a little girl and a little boy chasing and playing in the park. The little boy accidentally pulled off a flower. The little girl stopped and shouted anxiously: "You hurt it!"
How did the little girl experience the feeling of flowers? However, that kind of pain, when she said it, clearly stung us gently in our hearts, and it was so real! There are some pains that we may never experience in our lifetime; there are some praises that we may not be able to express in our lifetimes. However, you must know that "a person's life is as long as the grass and trees are in autumn", and a good love is only a short "autumn".
The 100th letter
Hubei Tang Minfei
A young man fell in love with a beautiful girl. He bravely wrote a letter of love to the girl. A few days later she replied to him with a strange letter. The cover of the letter was signed with the girl's name, but there was nothing inside the envelope. The young man felt strange: If you accept it, then say it clearly; if you don't accept it, you can also say it clearly, why not reply at all?
The young man mustered up his confidence and wrote to the girl day after day, and the girl still sent wordless letters one after another. A year later, the young man sent a total of 99 letters and received 99 replies. The young man opened the first 98 reply letters, all of which were empty envelopes. Regarding the 99th reply, the young man did not open it. He no longer dared to have any hope. Frustrated, he put the 99th reply in a delicate wooden box and never wrote to the girl again.
Two years later, the young man married another girl. Not long after the wedding, when my wife was cleaning the house, she accidentally dug out the letter in the wooden box and opened it curiously. The letter inside said: The wedding dress has been made. In your 100th letter When you come, I will be your bride.
That night, the young man who was already married climbed to the roof of the skyscraper, holding 99 replies in his hands, looking at the beautiful city with thousands of lights, and unknowingly burst into tears.
Success, like the beautiful girl in the story, is not so easy to catch. It takes a long time to test, and it will also set up many obstacles to test you. This principle is like playing the piano. Only by practicing thousands of times can you reach the level of perfection. This principle is like boiling water. Although the difference between 99℃ and 100℃ is only 1℃, water will not boil if it is less than 100℃.
Everyone has tasted the bitter taste of failure, but not everyone can wait for the sweet day. 99 times of hope and 98 times of disappointment. If you miss it once, it is not considered perseverance. Because the bottom of your heart is always afraid of failure. If you don't even have the courage to try once, how can success favor you? So, when you have failed ninety-nine times, please try the 200th time; and if you have failed a hundred times, please start the 201st attempt.