First, cheating is the biggest reason for divorce.
There is no denying that there are so many reasons for divorce now, of course, it is cheating. Cheating is the number one killer of marriage, and cheating is also the primary factor causing the high divorce rate. Among the countless divorced couples I contacted, the most I saw was that the man cheated, so the relationship between husband and wife broke down and could not be maintained any longer, and finally came to the point of divorce.
Therefore, under the real persuasion here, cherish marriage, and don't destroy the wall of marriage that you have worked so hard to build because of a temporary passion. The derailed marriage can't afford to be hurt. Even if it doesn't divorce, it has buried deep damage since then. I want to recover it unless the injured person has amnesia.
Second, cold violence is increasing in divorce cases.
Because of people's strong self-esteem, today's couples are reluctant to put down their faces for each other when they encounter contradictions. Since we can't let go of our face, we won't bow to each other easily in contradictions, which directly leads to the phenomenon of cold violence, so that no one can talk to anyone, and anyone can hold back. Although it is uncomfortable, they all hold back. As a result, such a relationship between husband and wife will hurt each other psychologically, which is much more painful than falling.
Long-term cold violence between husband and wife will soon dry up the marriage. If you want a harmonious relationship between husband and wife, you must start by rejecting cold violence.
Third, there are still many divorces caused by domestic violence in today's society.
Although it is a civilized society now, the quality of the masses is constantly improving, but when it comes to individuals, the quality is still uneven. In the family, domestic violence still happens frequently, and now it is not a man's patent. Nowadays, there are many women, independent women, and it is more and more common for women to use violence in their families. No matter whether it is a male domestic violence or a female domestic violence, once problems arise, they are solved by fists and feet, and such a marriage is doomed not to last long!
Fourth, their values are different.
Many couples divorce because of different values. Many people sum up their values and personalities. In fact, values and a person's personality are different. Personality refers more to a person's temperament, while values are a person's attitude and behavior towards things.
If the values between husband and wife are too far apart, it is easy to cause disputes and family crises. It can be said that many divorced couples can't complement and understand each other when dealing with problems, which leads to divorce from time to time.
Five, personality disagreement
Compared with the above four situations, the divorce phenomenon caused by the incompatibility between husband and wife is the smallest factor. After all, we all know that personality can be run-in and shaped, and personality is incompatible. As long as the husband and wife are willing to accommodate each other and change each other, they can still get used to it slowly. So in my opinion, personality disharmony is not the main cause of divorce. This era has changed, and personality disharmony can be overcome largely because of love.