There is nothing to do when there is no love. Most people spend most of their lives in a state of no love to talk about. So, what are we doing when we are not in love?
TV plays tell us that, generally speaking, people who don't fall in love are fully developed physically and mentally and are healthy physically and mentally. Professor Du hasn't been in love for 400 years. He has become a professor, a doctor and a collector, riding a bicycle to and from work, and is self-disciplined and healthy. Qian hasn't been in love for more than 20 years, and has become a first-line hallyu star, high-end and atmospheric. If we draw an interpersonal circle with me as the center, in the dry season when there is no love, some people have been admitted to the doctor, some have applied for patents, some have gone to the gym every day, and some even run marathons and triathlons. Physically, people who don't fall in love will take the initiative to consume energy in a healthy way because there is nowhere to release a lot of physical energy; Mentally, people who don't fall in love have more energy to think about meaningful problems for human development because they don't have to spend all their time analyzing the hints of short messages.
Most scientific achievements are made when scientists are not in love, and most literary plays are written when writers are lovelorn and frustrated. It is said that loneliness makes people healthy and breeds talents. I once interviewed a patent applicant. She said she was so lonely that she volunteered to work overtime every day. She accidentally invented a social media analysis model and applied for a patent. I know the people who go to the gym every day, too? Iron man? Mind, he said, I expected to meet a beautiful woman in the gym, didn't I? Iron man? Easier than a couple.
Not long ago, the patent applicant fell in love, got married and got pregnant unexpectedly, so she no longer had time to care about her analytical model, which had nothing to do with those deep business problems. Recently, the biggest project in her hand is to use her own model to collect comments on various baby products online and list the items that children need to buy before they are 6 years old-although she is not even sure about the gender of her children now.
And then what? Iron man? I also married a junior. Who said that you will be 40 years old when you see it, and you must hurry to have children for eugenics? Iron man? . So what? Iron man? I haven't had the strength to go to the gym recently, and I often look tired. I think so? Face? .
Therefore, the reality is: when not in love, human beings focus on evolution; When in love, human beings devote themselves to reproduction.