I remember a sentence that seemed to make sense. Tea poisoned countless innocent teenagers. The sentence is like this: "When a woman thinks this man is like a child, she already likes him." "A man will only be like a child in front of a woman he likes." "At this time, she quietly looked at him suspiciously, and his stiff eyebrows became a little soft at this time. After closing his eyes, his eyelashes were unexpectedly long and quite long. The shallow smile on the corners of the mouth, together, is unexpectedly quiet and gentle. Look at that face. Look at that smile, like a child. It's heartbreaking. He used to be brave, and now he still has such a fragile side. "
In other words, I have been poisoned by this sentence for many years. I always thought being childish in front of girls was like her performance. This girl will like her naive self, spoiled self and immature self, but if she can get her wish that day, I won't tell you so much here. Actually, children are useless to eggs, and coquetry is useless to eggs. What is really useful is softness!
What girls like is that a very man, a mature and strong boy, occasionally reveals a trace of boredom, weakness and fatigue. At this time, they will feel tired, sad and tired when they see the real him. At that time, she would feel that he was not so far away from herself, and the look in his eyes was so fragile and heartbreaking, just like a child.
Motherhood is a woman's gift. Many times, as long as she thinks you are a child, she can always find various reasons to forgive your mistakes. She can always ignore many things and wholeheartedly want to be good to you, heal your heart and make you happy!
Maybe he thought so, but he just went in the wrong direction. He thinks coquetry and childishness are just showing softness and showing one's own child. But as a child, you shouldn't tell your girlfriend about it, but make her feel that it is useless and difficult for you to tell her.
"I'm afraid I have a big lady in my heart."
I believe that everyone will be familiar with the term women's clothing boss! This is a bit of a mental illness. Although he is a boy and very manly, he just has a girl's heart. For example, society, me, King Kong Barbie, Nezha, or Australian chest hair uncle. All men with a girl's heart! At first, I felt my eyes were a little spicy, but after a long time, I felt unexpectedly cute. It's really poisonous!
"In fact, I am a child in my heart."
But there is a child living in their hearts. Although they are masculine in appearance, his heart is just so. There is a childish boy who likes to be spoiled, but he doesn't show it easily at ordinary times. He did it because he likes you and can trust you completely.
I especially like boys coquetry. Generally speaking, boys seldom play the coquetry, because they will feel particularly ashamed, especially for some male chauvinist boys, so playing the coquetry is a big event, which is related to their own face.
Proper coquetry of boys will ease the tense atmosphere at once, and it is easy to make his girlfriend happy, and the relationship will be further improved. Compared with ordinary boys and girls, girls are more precocious, while boys are a little childish. Entanglement will make women's maternal love overflow and ignore your mistakes.
Personally, I prefer the boy who can be spoiled at the right time. I think that's super friendly. I was still a little scared when I was spoiled by a boy for the first time, but I couldn't stop laughing afterwards. I feel that I met a spoiled boy, but he has the potential, but he has a special atmosphere and is particularly distressed. I remember when I was spoiled, I suddenly felt my heart beat faster. That boy is so cute that he has turned the old girl's heart.
I think every spoiled boy is pure at heart and doesn't like talented people. He is simple-minded and will spoil you. That shows that you are particularly worthy of his trust in his heart, so that he can let his guard down and show his true personality in front of you. Therefore, it is a very happy thing to have a boyfriend who can spoil you.
Generally speaking, let's cherish each other. Meeting is the fate of past lives. Thank you for meeting each other, and I hope everyone can cherish the present. The future is uncertain, but the present is the best.
In my opinion, this is also the performance of a boy who likes his girl on the one hand. He likes this girl and is willing to show his other side in front of her, so this is a good sign of love for each other. He shows that he wants to get your favor by coquetry.
I just like boys coquetry! It's not a rule that only girls can be spoiled. Once, my brother spoiled me. I didn't want to buy him snacks. As a result, I bought him such a cute look, and my heart softened.
When my boyfriend coquettes me, I can't completely resist his charm, because boys are actually very different from girls in coquetry. The girl's voice is soft, while the boy's voice is a little magnetic. Coupled with his actions, I promise anything.
If there is a boy who is willing to spoil himself, that is also good! This at least proves that your relationship is very close and different from that of strangers. Your boyfriend is willing to spoil you because he wants you to listen to him. In front of outsiders, he can pretend to be strong, but in front of you, he takes off all his disguise, so that you can completely see his true side, and only you can see it. This is a good process.
Boys also need to be taken care of and feel tired. I hope my girlfriend can spoil him and keep an eye on him. Boys' hearts are also very fragile, but they don't want to bring out these bad emotions. They should tell you in another way that they are unhappy today and let you comfort him.
When my boyfriend is coquetry to me, I will pay special attention to who he is. For example, if you want pocket money and go out to play with friends, he will tell me gently in this way, and I will ask for advice, but I am also willing to accept it.
It is said that women are made of water, women men are made of cement, and what are spoiled men made of?
In fact, as a woman, I don't like spoiled boys, because I think as a woman, the fact that a boy is spoiled with me is unbearable.
I always thought coquetry was a girl's patent. As a man, you should be masculine, not feminine. Men should give girls a sense of security. I don't think a boy who likes to coquetry with girls can give girls a sense of security.
Now it seems that this is not the case. Girls are getting stronger and stronger, and boys are getting weaker and weaker. Every time I see a soft and weak boy, I feel unbearable when he walks coyly.
I've always liked muscular men. I don't need much. I have abdominal muscles, take off my clothes and have meat. You'd better look thinner when you wear clothes. I will feel very safe with him, even if he looks average, but I think a body is enough to supplement him.
But it is often difficult to find such a boy. Nowadays, boys are more and more girly, and fewer and fewer people exercise.
If many years later, the direction of human evolution is like this in terms of men and women, I think the future is terrible. Will it become the original feminist society again? Of course, these are all jokes, but it's really bad for boys to pretend to be cute. I don't think your girlfriend will like a man who needs to protect himself.
I think, according to my personality and temper, I can't stand it Because as an outgoing girl, I personally think that my life is very independent, and I like to rely on myself in everything, and I don't like to coquetry everywhere to find a sense of security. I think the greatest sense of security can only be given to myself. I'm still a girl, and I can't accept boys who like coquetry. I still like tough guys.
But of course, boys' coquetry is not necessarily the same, nor can it be completely denied. Some boys may be tough at ordinary times, but when it comes to their parents or girlfriends, they like to be spoiled. If he likes to coquetry in front of his family and lover, it is understandable to coquetry in private, because the object of coquetry is someone else's lover, and we have no right to interfere or express any opinions. But I'm afraid that at any class reunion or family reunion, in front of many people, a boy who looks very manly openly coquetry, which is absolutely unacceptable to me. I think it's really spicy eyes.
Of course, there is also a kind of boy who is more introverted and shy. Introverted from childhood, close to girls, and then like to spoil. I don't think such a boy can be friends with me anyway. A boy, who has no indomitable masculinity, pouts and coquetry at every turn, which is totally unacceptable to me.
In my understanding, a boy should still look like a boy. He can be short or not strong, but at least he has the boldness of a boy. There is no specific definition of boldness, but there should be no coquetry option.
If a man plays the coquette with people around him from time to time, regardless of the object and place, then I think this man may be a little abnormal in his heart. At least, I don't think I can accept someone I don't know acting like a spoiled brat for no reason. But if he just spoils himself, I think it's nothing! It's normal for boyfriends to spoil their girlfriends.
And in my opinion, this is a sign that he cares about you and likes you. It is precisely because he can let go in front of you and show himself completely that he will spoil you and think that you can tolerate everything.
Maybe there is a child in everyone's heart, all of whom are childlike, but when we grow up, we will learn to control our emotions and maintain a mature and reliable image in front of outsiders. However, no matter how tired people are, there will be times when they don't want to pretend, especially for close people. He must want to express himself without reservation, so it is normal for him to act like a spoiled brat in front of you.
Besides, you said that your boyfriend is eight years older than you, and he is very manly and burly. Don't you think there is an anti-cute difference when he plays the coquetry with you? So I think you should accept this behavior from the heart and treat coquetry correctly. Besides, I don't think coquetry is a girl's patent, but everyone can. It's just that a boy has more responsibilities, so he must show his strength and maturity in front of the outside world.
So if your boyfriend wants to spoil you, let him spoil you. Maybe when you accept this matter from the heart, you will find that it is a very happy thing for him to spoil you.
I think this is normal! It shows that he really loves you, but if this coquetry belongs to a more feminine kind, it is still very annoying.
There is a saying that goes like this. Don't think your boyfriend is naive, he needs to grow up, * * * is mature! You yourself admit that your boyfriend is a mature man, so why should he be so naive in front of you? ! He may be trying to get your attention and make you use more snacks on him. You may be a strong person, so you don't like your boyfriend to spoil you, but how can a person who is eight years older than you be a naive ghost?
What we often see is that girls coquetry their male friends. Why do girls want to be spoiled, but boys don't? Why do girls coquetry to show what they want or how they want it, hoping that their boyfriends can do it, but boyfriends can't? ! I don't think it matters. My boyfriend Wu also likes to spoil me, but when he is with others, he is serious, unlike when he is with me! I believe that your boyfriend is also like that, serious in front of others. Your boyfriend hopes that you can give him more responses and more love, so that he can spoil you.
You may be the kind of cold person, and you think such a boy is a little abnormal! You might as well try to accept his love for you and get to know him better. He is willing to stay with you all the time, which shows that he really loves you. Cherish it!
You should spend more time communicating and spending more time with each other. If you really can't stand his coquetry, you can actually talk to him and ask him why he is coquetry to you, which shows that you don't like a boy coquetry to you very much, and then further solve this problem.
I can't stand boys coquetry, not at all. My man is so big and strong and coquettish, but I can't stand him all the time. Because I think there will be a very strong contrast, and I will promise him anything he coquetry.
In fact, personally, I am one of our own after all. I found it myself, and I have to endure it even if I die ..... So I don't welcome boys' coquetry, although I don't reject it. His occasional coquetry is actually acceptable to me.
Why? Because although our man looks like a big man on the outside, he will have a soft place of his own in his heart, and such a place is not easy for men to show to outsiders, but if he can spoil you, it means that you are a very different existence to him, and you are a soft place in his heart.
In other words, if a man is always a super powerful role in front of you, no matter how powerful he is, he will have uncomfortable feelings to express, and if he doesn't express them all the time, you can imagine how painful your man is.
Of course, occasional coquetry is an occasional emotional expression of men and is allowed. But if a man as a girlfriend constantly spoiled even more than you, do you want to consider changing boyfriends? Like a new boyfriend?
Although coquetry is not a woman's patent, it was not a man's patent at that time. However, it is a routine behavior for women to use coquetry, and they will not feel opposition, because women's nature is weak and dependent on men. Such an attribute will not be spoiled or disgusted, and men should not be spoiled often because of their indomitable spirit.
Every woman has different requirements for her man, and I can accept his coquetry occasionally. After all, he also needs someone to love him, but not frequently.