Because sending children to boarding school will make parents worry a lot. It is for this reason that the number of students in boarding schools is getting better and better.
But not all parents are willing to send their children to boarding schools because they still have doubts about school supervision.
It is difficult to guarantee that when these children arrive at school, the teacher can cover everything. At least they may not get more attention than the children at home.
Everyone has their own views on boarding schools, and it is difficult for us to find an absolute answer. Maybe only what suits you is the best.
Some parents think boarding school is good because they really don't have much time to care about their children's study. Some parents think that boarding schools have shortcomings because they are worried that their children may get worse in a free space.
Bai, a famous host in China, once talked about his views on boarding schools in a program.
He has always been known for his glib tongue. When it comes to this issue, he is also very direct. He made it clear that no matter how hard it is, I will not let my children board. It's hard, but this is life.
Of course, Bai has his own reasons against sending children to boarding schools.
It is embodied in three aspects: 1, which affects the parent-child relationship.
Children need their parents' care and companionship most when they grow up, but if parents send their children to boarding schools before they are underage, they will doubt their love for their children.
Even some sensitive children think that their parents dislike themselves and are unwilling to get along with themselves, which will lead them to resent their parents, thus affecting the development of parent-child relationship.
2. Affect children's intelligence
Children's intelligence is constantly developing with growth. We often say that we should explore children's potential as much as possible. In fact, a large part is related to children's intelligence.
If it is an ordinary school, children can not only receive knowledge education at school, but also get family education after returning home, and their intelligence can also be developed with the cooperation of family education.
If you are in a boarding school, it is still a big question mark to what extent children's intelligence can develop due to the lack of family education.
3. Affect children's socialization
Children may not have enough social skills when they are young, and boarding schools are often a dormitory for several students. They eat together, live together and study together every day, and how to get along with each other has become a problem that children need to face every day.
If children's social skills are insufficient, they are easily isolated in small groups. Without the guidance of parents, children are likely to become inferior and even affect future interpersonal communication.
If children have to go to boarding school, what should parents do to minimize the harm to their children? 1, often keep in touch with children by phone.
Although the children are sent to boarding school, it does not mean that parents can ignore their children.
Nowadays, communication means are very developed, and parents can keep in touch with their children by telephone and WeChat video.
Pay more attention to children's life and study, so that children can feel the care from their parents, and parents can better understand their children's life at school.
Don't be stingy with your love when you meet children.
Even in boarding schools, children will go home 1~2 days a week. At this time, parents should take the initiative to communicate with their children and tell them their love, such as: I love you and I miss you.
This may sound disgusting, but it is very important for children, because through this expression of parents, children can really know that their parents have not given up on them and still care about everything.