I have roughly divided these three categories myself.
The first method is the scene method.
What do you mean? You specially set up a space to put beautiful desks and benches, including some extracurricular books and beautiful notebooks. And all the learning equipment should be equipped for him. Every time you go in, it's best to give him a little sense of ceremony when he studies: as long as he studies, adults should try not to play games or watch TV, but stay with him so that he will know.
It is not that he studies alone, but that many people accompany her. In this way, he will be more motivated to study, and will not have that kind of psychology: only I am studying and everyone else is playing. And if he wants to go out and do other things, his guilt and sense of responsibility will be aroused, so that he can study hard.
The second method is to lead by example.
What do you mean? If you want your children to learn, you should learn from yourself. Such a child will think: ouch! Mom and dad are both studying, I want to study hard! There will be a feeling of competing with mom and dad.
Or tell children to do their job well: learning as a student's job is to study hard. Parents should not be idle when their children are studying. They should do their own work. If they don't have their own jobs, reading is also good. In this case, lead by example and take the children to learn, rather than ordering them to learn. In this way, the seeds of learning are planted in the hearts of children, and take root and sprout with the passage of time, which will be of great help to future study, work and life.
The last method is heuristic method.
What do you mean? I remember a story that when Arabs educate their children, they will spread honey on books and then let them lick them, which will make them feel that books are sweet. Children think books are sweet when they are young, so people there will especially love reading and hope to read. However, books are printed with type, which is considered as a heavy metal. This method is not recommended, but similar methods can be used to guide them.
Parents can generally tell each other stories or things that children don't know, and then if he asks what they are, they don't have to tell him. Then this can stimulate his curiosity and thirst for knowledge, let him read books to find answers and tell him that they are all in books. In fact, this is also a good method. There are many ways to make children fall in love with learning, but none of them are in place. Please leave a message to add. Let more parents see it and let more children fall in love with learning.
Douban, Zhihu: The star?
Jane: That star.
I'm inconspicuous, I'm not noisy, and I'm not forced to be a star!