The human tragedy of these two families is not accidental, nor is it the last case of mother-killing. Many people are speculating about children's psychological motives. According to the viewpoint of consciousness therapy system, there are generally three reasons: First, the murderer suffers from severe depression and has suicidal tendency in severe depression, which will further expand this tendency. We often see in the news that mothers with postpartum depression committed suicide by jumping off a building with their children. It is because he projected this mode of thinking on his children, thinking that the world is dangerous and painful, and committed suicide in order to get rid of this pain. However, the performance of the female lawyer's child after sex is not suicide, but very calm to put the body into the suitcase!
Secondly, there are typical mental disorders, such as schizophrenia or bipolar disorder. In this state, there may be persecution paranoia, thinking that others will be bad to themselves, it is better to start first. In fact, from the previous performance, there is no such problem. The daughter of a female lawyer even released an album on the school official website, thanking her mother for paying tribute to the goddess. Shows his deep love for his mother.
What kind of psychological motivation drives a child of 15 to kill his mother mercilessly? There has never been love or hate for no reason in this world. In the movie Prometheus, biochemical David has a line: Who doesn't want his parents to die? This actually has great implications. Prometheus, as a god, stole fire to benefit mankind, but was brutally punished by Zeus, the father of the gods, who locked him on a cliff and ordered ferocious vultures to peck at Prometheus' liver.
With the awakening of self-awareness, biochemical people also hold great resentment against the human beings who created themselves and always want to destroy them. In the process of children's growth, with the gradual formation of self-awareness and independent personality, they are increasingly resisting this kind of control from their parents. This psychological watershed happens to be between 15 and 20 years old. The year when Wu raised the butcher knife to his mother happened to be 20 years old. In other words, children of this age will gradually get rid of their families and step into society.
However, the mothers of both families are career-oriented women, one is a lawyer and the other is a history teacher. They are both successful in their own fields, but they are both losers in family management. Mothers in single-parent families will only project their anxiety and work pressure on their children, and children are almost equivalent to their other lives, pinning all their emotions, and any behavior beyond their control is not allowed, thus forming a very abnormal relationship. In this case, it will seriously interfere with children's individual consciousness, compress children's individual space, and lead to the inability to develop mature and independent personality.
Consciousness therapy self-psychological healing system mentions that anything that is controlled will break out sooner or later. Just as Prometheus tried to steal the kindling against Zeus' wishes, David, a biochemical man, tried to kill human beings, accompanied by a deep sense of conflict, which would lead to two kinds of extreme injuries. One is personality disorder, which will be reflected in interpersonal communication and integration into society, and will cause a lot of trouble! This is what we often call a giant baby. It is characterized by complaining that others are narrow-minded, vindictive and antisocial. The other is depression characterized by self-pity, blindly obeying the wishes of parents. In front of us, we ruled out the possibility of depression. The girl who killed her mother, like Wu, is a personality deviation caused by the desire to control.
What they hate is not having their own mother, but the desire for control developed by their mother. When her mother is stronger, this desire for control will interfere with each other, deprive each other and impose their own standards on each other. Children will only silently bear all this and suppress all this. When you are stronger and more capable, you will double your brilliance.
In life, we will find that many children don't do such extreme behavior, but in fact, their personality is also incomplete, and they always waste their consciousness on fighting with their parents. Specifically, they may always want to prove something to their parents, so as to get their parents' appreciation, support and recognition as always, otherwise, various psychological problems will appear and their achievements in the outside world will not be so great. Consciousness therapy believes that the best gift that a child can get from a family is a complete personality, which contains three elements, namely, self-discipline and the ability to get happiness easily.