I don't know if it's because I watched too many idol dramas that my mood became dull, or if the diet in the society is unhealthy and I eat sensory nerves, more and more people are beginning to become less easily moved.
More and more people are starting to be single, and more and more people say that they can't feel love. More often, they are urged by their parents to find a similar person to get married.
"Do you love her?" "I don't feel it, I don't hate it." "So you decided to marry her?" "My parents pushed me very hard, and I felt that I couldn't meet love, so I just found someone to get married."
Love needs management.
Many people in the older generation have a bad opinion of marriage. Maybe I haven't seen each other for several times, but I met in a hurry under the arrangement of my parents. Parents think each other's conditions are not bad, so they decide on a lifelong event for two people. Two people may not even say much sweet words, but they have lived a lifetime of daily necessities. At that time, they may pay more attention to finding a partner! Perhaps this is also the reason for the increase in demand now. What we value more is not the company of having a meal together, but the spirit of talking.
Will you marry me?
A while ago, I chatted with Xiao Jin about his classmate's divorce, saying that three of his classmates were divorced. In 1992, the married classmates were always * * *, and there were actually three divorced students. Do people nowadays take divorce too seriously? Still too early to get married. I thought about it, maybe now people's life circle is relatively large, and they have a wide range of contacts. In the former countryside, some people may have never been out of the county where they were born, and the farthest place to get married may be relatives in neighboring villages. Relatives often say that Wang Xiaohua in our village is good, so I will give you a kiss, get married and become a family, and continue to work in the fields from generation to generation.
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Perhaps this is the result of a more open society. People are no longer bound by marriage. They live together when they get along. If they don't get along, they will leave. This kind of social stability is not negotiable. This view of marriage is a bit like child's play.
I think most people still want to meet a lover who will grow old together and then die in a warm city!
You need to be cautious when getting married, and you must not rush into marriage because of your parents' urging. * * * Encourage!