When young, women are full of longing for love and career, thinking that these things can be easily obtained by themselves, but with the growth of age and experience, you will find these two things particularly difficult to achieve.
Especially in love, it is difficult for you to find a person you like and like. Even if there is, it may not be together forever, and it may be separated for various reasons.
Some women are very happy when they are young, but when people reach middle age, she should try to keep her marriage, because marriage also has a shelf life. After this time, her man will get bored.
Therefore, middle-aged women should think more about themselves and plan for themselves to avoid being very sad in their later years. Women should have their own cards, so that they can live better.
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Yang Hong was originally a special beauty lover. Before getting married, she spent most of her money on cosmetics to dress herself up, but since getting married, she has saved all her money to subsidize her family.
So Yang Hong doesn't have much money to buy cosmetics. She thinks it doesn't matter whether she dresses up or not, because she is married anyway. What she should do now is to save money for future consideration.
But Yang Hong's husband doesn't think so. Yang Hong's husband thinks that she has become lazy and slovenly. He doesn't want to take Yang Hong out to meet his friends anymore, because he thinks that Yang Hong is embarrassing him now.
In fact, women should be consistent before and after marriage. Make up when it's time to make up, and dress up when it's time to dress up. After all, men like beautiful people, not a yellow-faced woman.
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Nowadays, women pay attention to independence, have their own jobs and income, so that they can have a foothold at home, live a happier life and spend money without worrying about what others will say.
Maybe when he was young, a man told a woman that he would support her all his life so that she didn't have to go out to work and worry about spending money. At this time, the man sincerely said such a sentence.
But with the change of time, men will change and women will change. When young, women will stay at home without complaining, not to mention thinking.
But in middle age, most women will become more sensitive and irritable, especially when they are idle, they will be more uneasy and flustered.
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I saw an interview on Weibo before, and the host asked the interviewee, "If I tell you that you will still be like this next year, will you accept it?" The interviewee said, "I don't accept it, so I will move on."
Some women, no matter how many years have passed, are still so innocent and haven't changed at all. That's because they have a husband who loves them very much, and he is willing to spoil her and protect her inner innocence.
But not all women can meet a husband who is willing to protect their innocence in this way, so they still have to rely on themselves, keep learning and making progress, and be better themselves.
You are like this this this year. You can't say it will be the same next year. When you stay the same, your husband will get bored and may even leave you.
When you are a middle-aged woman, you don't have the beautiful appearance when you were young, and you don't have the rich experience when you are old, so you should think carefully about whether it is worth doing anything yourself.
You should know how to hold a good card in your own hands, so that you can have a foothold wherever you go. This is what everyone should do.
Everyone should think about their future, not just the peace in front of them, but what your future life will be like and what kind of life you want to live in the future. These are things that you can decide for yourself.