Years ago, Xiaoya discussed with her boyfriend and went to her house to propose marriage in the first month. However, Xiaoya and others still came to each other, saying, "There are too many relatives in my family, and I haven't finished yet. I will go to your house after the New Year. " . Xiaoya invented a lie to end the embarrassment. A few years later, the man's parents suddenly came to visit. It happened that Xiaoya was away on business that day.
During the dinner, the man's family didn't mention marriage at all, but said after breaking up, "It's our custom to give a bride price of 1000 1 yuan. You can accept it if you can."
This sudden remark made Xiaoya's parents stunned and went home in a rage, and called Xiaoya to explain the situation. At dinner, Xiaoya went to have dinner with her boyfriend and talked about it. The boyfriend said indifferently, "Yes. Why do you want a bride price? " ? Make it look like selling a daughter. "
Then they quarreled and broke up.
It is understandable that parents brought themselves up with hardships, which may be influenced by feudal thoughts. They are dissatisfied with the bride price and want to let the younger generation break up. But if the client, that is, the woman, also heckles with her parents, then this love will be affected by money and make it break up.
Of course, parents certainly don't want their daughters to marry into poor families and suffer. No matter how poor their family is, they don't want their daughter to suffer a little. How could they be willing to let their daughter live that hard life, as before liberation? I believe that most families ask the man's family for a sky-high bride price because they are not optimistic about this marriage and want the other party to retreat. May be dissatisfied with the man's own conditions, may also be dissatisfied with the man's family background.
But the man's family doesn't think so, because it is not easy for the man's family to marry his son. It is necessary to buy a wedding room, decorate it, provide furniture and appliances, and hold a banquet. Money is spent everywhere, and they want to treat a penny as two cents. At this time, if the bride price demanded by the woman's family is higher than the local custom, the parents of the man's family will be unbalanced. Even in my heart, I think, my son is an undergraduate, your daughter is a junior college, and you come to our house to climb my son.
In a word, no one can really manage these housework.
Then I want to talk to you about my feelings. Do you think feelings are more important or money is more important? Parents of both men and women must also be kind to their children. If both sides think of each other at this time, can we resolve more contradictions? The poor inherit the wind.
There are also some families who want more bride price and can make dowry for their daughters. Because putting more money on your daughter's self-defense is also a little guarantee for the future. Such parents really have good intentions.