Xiao Min gave birth to a big fat boy, and the family was very happy. Her mother-in-law also moved to take care of Xiao Min.
It is said that Xiao Min's mother-in-law takes care of her very carefully. She not only cooks a sumptuous moon meal for Xiao Min every day, but also often chats with Xiao Min to relieve Xiao Min's mental stress and make Xiao Min happy all day.
However, a few days later, an elder in the family learned that Xiao Min had a baby and came to see Xiao Min. However, she didn't come, and the elders caught a cold. Although my mother-in-law is a little unhappy, it's hard to say.
As a result, not long after the elders left, Xiao Min had a physical problem and caught a cold. You know, during confinement, Ma Bao was weak and had poor resistance, so she really couldn't stand the virus.
Fortunately, however, her mother-in-law found a doctor to see Xiao Min in time. With the advice of doctors and the care of her mother-in-law, Xiao Min also recovered quickly.
During Ma Bao's confinement, it is actually not suitable for receiving visitors, and some guests are absolutely not allowed to go in and out.
When it comes to being unable to accept visits from some people during confinement, some people associate it with feudal superstition. In fact, due to some objective factors, Ma Bao is really not suitable for some people to visit her when she is in confinement. This is not a superstition, but a scientific basis.
(1) Can't accept sick people to visit, no matter how sick they are.
When Ma Bao gave birth, her health was poor and her immunity was low. If she is visited by some patients at this time, the virus carried by the patients may spread to Ma Bao, which will affect her health.
In addition, the newborn baby's own resistance is also very weak. If the baby is infected with the disease, it is even more sinful.
Therefore, for the sake of Ma Bao and the baby's health, you must never accept a visit from a sick person in the second month, even if the other person is only slightly ill.
(2) Can't accept Xiong Haizi's visit, no matter how close.
During confinement, some relatives or friends will bring their children to visit. At this time, it should be noted that it is best not to let children enter Ma Bao's room, especially Xiong Haizi. No matter how close the relationship is, Xiong Haizi can't enter Ma Bao's room. Don't be ashamed. Xiong Haizi is very lethal to Ma Bao and the baby.
Before, a Xiong Haizi followed his mother to visit her best friend. As a result, Xiong Haizi was too ignorant to beat the baby who was not yet full moon. Finally, it broke up in discord. Fortunately, the baby doesn't have any serious problems.
Therefore, for the safety of Ma Bao and the baby, it is best not to let Xiong Haizi visit.
(3) Can't accept people with low EQ to visit, which will seriously affect Ma Bao's mood.
Ma Bao will have a period of emotional fluctuation after delivery, which is mainly the result of the combined action of physiological behavior of delivery and psychological reasons during confinement.
Therefore, Ma Bao was emotionally unstable during this period. If she hears some gossip, inappropriate words, or something irritating and depressing at this time, it may lead to Ma Bao's depression and even postpartum depression.
And some tourists with low EQ often like to gossip with Ma Bao. If Ma Bao listens, psychological barriers may appear.
Therefore, for the sake of Ma Bao's physical and mental health, it is best not to let people with low emotional intelligence visit.
Although these people are not suitable for visiting, Ma Bao will inevitably meet some other people during her confinement. What should Ma Bao do at this time? It's a bit inappropriate to refuse all of them. Therefore, Ma Bao should pay attention to some matters when receiving visitors.
In case a man visits, you should pay attention to avoid it. During confinement, Ma Bao's clothes and some behaviors are not suitable for the existence of the opposite sex. For example, Ma Bao is breastfeeding, changing breast pads, milking and so on. After all, men and women are different, and it will be embarrassing.
Therefore, when the opposite sex visits, Ma Bao just says hello, and the guests are still left to the rest of the family for a good reception.
When someone visits, pay attention to bed rest. During the confinement period, Ma Bao is not suitable for attracting wind, and guests may not realize this. When they arrive, they may not notice the opening and closing of some doors and windows, which leads to excessive indoor wind speed.
In order to avoid this situation, Ma Bao had better stay on the bed in his room when the guests come to visit, so as not to be "accidentally injured" by the guests.
Be careful not to let visitors touch the baby. This kind of thing may seem a bit unreasonable, but you should know that it is very dangerous for guests to touch the baby casually.
There have been many cases before, for example, when a guest took a picture of a baby, his hand slipped and his mobile phone hit the baby's face, which caused great harm to the baby.
For the sake of baby's health and safety, don't let guests near the baby, kiss the baby's face and hug the baby. Never let your guard down to save face.
After giving birth, Ma Bao must pay attention to confinement. Although it is important to be polite to guests, health is more important. I believe the real guests will understand Ma Bao's behavior.
If some guests have behaviors that they don't understand, or insult Ma Bao because of this, personally, I think such people don't pay, what do you say?