First of all, when parents reason with their children, they should speak in a child's way, from the child's point of view, not in an adult's way, so that the children may not understand, and the children have no idea what their parents are saying.
Over time, children will get bored, because every time their parents say something, they don't understand it, and sometimes they will be scolded by their parents after they don't understand it. In that case, children may be rebellious, and children will not listen to their parents next time.
Mom and dad should look at things themselves from the perspective of children. Children will do wrong if they don't understand. At this time, parents should tell their children more patiently, instead of blaming them for doing something wrong.
For example, children don't like to eat green vegetables, which is always a waste. At this time, parents can tell their children that this vegetable is hard-won, and it was planted by the farmer's uncle. If possible, they can take their children to the vegetable garden. In this way, it may be easier for children to accept it, instead of parents blaming their children for not eating green vegetables as soon as they come up, and then forcing them to eat.
Secondly, mom and dad should set an example. Children are very good at observing and imitating in life. If mom and dad don't do well themselves, then children will follow those behaviors that they can't learn well.
If a child is scolded by his parents for doing similar behavior to his parents, the child may think that both parents can do it. Why can't I? So parents' behavior is also very important for children. Parents should let their children know the truth of some things with their own actions.
In fact, action may sometimes be the best truth, and it is possible that parents may tell their children something that many children may not understand; And if parents guide their children with their own correct actions, the children may understand immediately. Therefore, the correct actions of parents will also make children understand one thing.
Finally, parents should know that children have children's world, and there are many unknowns in their world, which need them to explore and learn slowly. Every child makes mistakes, so be patient with mom and dad.