A mature psychological counselor has a much higher understanding of his acceptance than a growing psychological counselor, so they are often more flexible. This is because a person who has more understanding and acceptance of himself does not need many external forms to prove that he is good and capable. This enabled him to really let go of himself and concentrate on understanding the visitors. However, a person who lacks practice in this field will often intentionally or unintentionally portray himself as an authority and expert. Only in this way can he establish a sense of control in his heart and make himself feel more secure.
2. The goal of psychological counseling is treatment and growth.
Effective consultation can make visitors' personality more and more perfect and their social functions more and more adaptive in the process of work, but the process of receiving consultation is actually full of hardships and pains.
The reason why the process of growing up is painful is that in the process of receiving counseling, some of our old defense models will be broken, and then we will learn to build new defenses again. Before we realize that the old defense is not suitable and the new defense is established, we will be in an unresolved state, which is very scary and uncomfortable. The consultant's job is to help visitors get through this process safely and establish active and effective forms of defense. So we say that psychological counseling is not for comfort, but for growth.
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