The fear of marriage stems from the family environment in which you lived before. You have to believe that happiness is always in your own hands. If you love him, you should trust him and don't blame him for all the bad things.
Even if there are many unhappy marriages around you, it doesn't mean that your marriage will be unhappy, so how to resolve the fear of marriage?
First of all, you should have a positive attitude, have good expectations for marriage, and don't put the unfortunate marriage around you on yourself. You're not them, and you won't go their way. Look at the real cases of happy families, observe the tips they get along with and learn the skills of managing marriage.
Marriage itself is nothing to be afraid of. Marriage refers to the destination of love. As long as you manage with your heart, you will certainly get a happy marriage.
Secondly, people who stay away from negative emotions will directly affect your judgment of feelings and even have fear of marriage. Therefore, staying away from these failed marriages will only lead you in the wrong direction.
If you love someone, you must trust him, love him, support him, cherish the present and don't think too much. It is a very happy thing to join hands with someone to grow old together. Don't imagine that he will have those bad changes. As long as your heart is strong enough, all problems will be solved.
Believing in marriage means believing in yourself. Everyone who will manage love seriously will not have a bad life, because they understand that happiness is in their own hands, and everyone's happiness is unrepeatable, and so is marriage. Cherish every day together is the happiest.
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