My husband said he wanted to divorce me. How to reply?

Nowadays, many men feel that their marriage is a complete failure. Especially when the wife is getting colder and colder, men will feel that this is their own fault. So how should a man reply if he wants to divorce himself? In this case, what should we do to get him and himself together?

1. If a man wants to divorce himself, he can try to divorce his husband and make him feel that he should divorce himself.

At this time, the man really wants a divorce, but he wants his wife to accept his divorce. If you let him know that you are good to him, then he will think that you are very important in his heart. So at this time, you can tell him: we have been married for more than ten years. And you have been married for more than ten years now. So it is impossible for you to divorce your wife, so you can tell him at this time: divorce is not a difficult thing for you, you should stick to it until the end. But if you want to succeed, then you should give up trying to persuade your wife to accept your marriage to him.

If a man wants to divorce himself, he must pay attention to his image and keep a good image in this marriage.

Men must pay attention to this. Although men are usually very busy, they must remember to keep a good image when they get married. Especially after marriage, when you get along with others outside, you must maintain a good image. Because it also means that this marriage is no longer your own. So when you divorce, you must keep a good image and a good figure. This is also very important.

3, when communicating with boys, we must grasp the discretion.

If you say a lot of inappropriate things to boys. Then it will make him feel that you don't respect him, and even he will think that you are abandoning him. So he may want to divorce you for this reason. Therefore, we must grasp the discretion and try not to say hurtful words. You know, the way to love someone is not to hurt his self-esteem. All we have to do is tell him with our own actions that you are the most important to him.

When two people quarrel, they must control their emotions and try to be a peacemaker, so that boys can see all the divorce problems in their eyes or hearts.

When you find that the other person is a little shaken, you must comfort him in time and let him release all your feelings. Many times, if you can't communicate with each other in time, then boys will think that you are indifferent to him. If he starts to ignore you, it means that his heart has lost patience with you.

5. What if a man wants to divorce himself?

First of all, if he wants to divorce himself, then the first thing we have to do is to calm down and communicate with his wife. After all, now is the era of freedom. For marriage and love, they definitely don't want to be bound anymore! If they really want a divorce, then we must persuade them. And pay attention to this problem, because it is not good for you and your children. Secondly, pay attention to your own emotional ups and downs. If he begins to feel that he has lost his due responsibility and sense of responsibility to his wife because of cheating, then we should remind him in time. If he feels that he is already regretting his mistake, then we should preach to him in time.