First, the harm of doting on children, if you have been doting on children, you will still be self-centered and will not consider the feelings of others, which will easily lead to children's wasteful behavior. Moreover, when they want something, parents will be particularly rebellious and cry if they don't buy it for their children, which will easily make children develop the habit of lacking independent life, because many parents will spoil their children and help them do everything well, and then their children will lose their ability to take care of themselves, which will ruin their children.
Second, is it important to send a little girl to school in Harbin or to spoil her? It is actually a very warm thing for a family of five to send the little girl to school together, because it also expresses a kind of concern and attention to the little girl, but it is not necessarily doting, because it may also be an encouragement for the little girl to go to school in the future. As long as more guidance is given to the little girl in life and study, it will not cause drowning. At the same time, a family of five sent the little girl to school.
Third, we should guide our children correctly, whether they are spoiled or valued. In life, we should have the right way to guide them, because a child needs the right guidance to succeed. If children have been growing up in a family that has been abused and beaten for a long time, then children will follow their parents' behavior and treat their children. This kind of behavior is very bad, which will have a serious impact on children's psychology and delay children from becoming better people. Therefore, there are correct ways to guide children.