Contact with tutors is a problem that every graduate student needs to prepare in advance. Before receiving a reply, I often worry about: how to behave in order to get the favor of my tutor; However, when the instructor clearly replied and expected a higher goal, he was struggling with how to refuse.
1, reply as soon as possible:
Some students want to wait until another institution is confirmed in order to protect one institution, which is very risky. It's best to reply as soon as possible after you make sure you don't want to go, so that the tutor can make room for other candidates and minimize the impact.
2. Explain to the instructor:
Refuse to be humble, pay attention to your words and express your apologies. Because tutors in colleges and universities may be connected, if you don't apologize and get forgiveness after breaking your promise, you may be embarrassed in the future.
Summary:
Although you need to contact the tutor, you can understand the urgency of the students, but it is best not to contact the tutor in the early stage in the form of "sea investment". Try to choose your favorite tutor to contact. After receiving the explicit rejection from the tutor, contact other tutors instead of contacting multiple tutors at the same time.
Second, reject the school.
There is no offer to worry about every day, but more offers are also a burden. In addition to choosing a school, how to refuse a school that students do not intend to go to is also a problem that students need to face.
1, explicitly rejected:
If you are sure you don't want to go, you must give the school a definite answer, and don't keep dragging your feet to avoid the problem. Especially in schools with only summer camps, the quota has been locked after the offer is issued. If the school is not informed in time, the school will not be able to make up the record in time, which may waste the number of places.
2. Don't break the contract when signing the agreement:
Some institutions will sign an agreement with candidates in time after the summer camp sends out the notice of intended admission to avoid brain drain. If you have signed a contract with the school to confirm that you will come to your school, then you'd better not break it. Although the impact may be large or small, there is no doubt that your integrity will be damaged.
Possible effects:
Being blacklisted affects the application of younger brothers and sisters.
Publicized by colleges and universities, and inform the alma mater and admission institutions.
The impact is not big, continue to enroll students, but it will make the candidates' integrity damaged and their reputation discredited.
Summary:
If you don't want to go to this school, the school can not confirm it when sending a confirmation notice; However, if you want to keep a guaranteed college, after you make it clear that you are not going, you must call or email the college in time, and at the same time make clear your position, and don't be ambiguous. Pay attention to politeness when expressing, you may be scolded, but you must apologize modestly. If you sign an agreement, try not to refuse.