On July 9, 20 13, during a military training activity of instructors on campus, 22-year-old firefighter Zhu Mingjun accidentally fell off the horizontal bar and landed on the back of his neck while doing demonstration movements. A few minutes later, Zhu Mingjun was taken to the hospital by his teammates, and he didn't know what happened afterwards. It was the fourth day after I woke up.
Later, the doctor made a hole in his neck, put in a plastic tube, and inserted a ventilator at the other end of the tube. "I survived, but I was unconscious below my head and couldn't live without a ventilator for 24 hours." Zhu Mingjun can't accept this kind of "life". He tried to bite his tongue or lips, but found it useless and "still hurts."
The turning point occurred on 20 16. He met a psychological counselor on the Internet, gradually walked out of the haze of life, took the qualification examination and became a psychological counselor.
On 13, Zhu Mingjun's story gained the attention of netizens in Weibo. As of press time, nearly 5,000 articles have been forwarded and more than 30,000 people like them. On 14, Red Star journalism education teacher had a deep dialogue with Zhu Mingjun.
Zhu Mingjun is doing psychological counseling at home.
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/kloc-in the evening of 0/4, I just interviewed the Red Star News Educational Administration Teacher during the day, but after one o'clock, Zhu Mingjun turned on the computer and logged in for live broadcast.
Being the master of UP is an accident. On June 5438+1October 65438+May this year, Zhu Mingjun uploaded his own recorded video "A Fireman who has been paraplegic for seven and a half years". The video reviews his injury experience and introduces his status as a psychological counselor.
He recalled that he was depressed that day and woke up to find no one around him to talk to. He tried to record what he wanted to say and post it online. "Unexpectedly, such a move has changed my life dramatically. I have received the care and encouragement of many netizens, just as the loneliness and loneliness of the previous seven and a half years have disappeared. "
By the end of 15, this video had nearly 3 million views, so he became an amateur UP expert, uploading a video every two or three days and broadcasting it live every night.
Compared with other UP owners, Zhu Mingjun's live content is "not good enough"-he usually chats casually with netizens, sometimes talks about psychology, and then plays games.
The live broadcast began at 7 pm, and fans poured into the live broadcast room. By 8 o'clock in the evening, more than 6,000 people had watched the live broadcast room, and the barrage almost never stopped. Many netizens will send some greetings, and he will read each one out loud and thank you one by one. There are many questions related to psychology. Perhaps out of professional relationship, when answering these questions, he will say a lot and use a lot of professional knowledge.
Zhu Mingjun's computer is specially made and bought from abroad. In addition to the host computer and display screen, he also has a joystick controlled by his mouth, which hangs in front of the display screen and controls the computer by blowing, inhaling and touching his lips. Playing games with such equipment is more laborious than typing. For example, he said, for example, to play the QWER key mainly used in League of Legends, you need to blow and inhale to realize keyboard operation. It took him six months to get used to it before he learned to operate it.
During the fierce battle in the game, Zhu Mingjun's mouth shook rapidly or blew on several plastic pipes, and his face was red. Despite his best efforts, he still doesn't play very well. Sometimes I meet the "Water Friends Bureau"-the fans in the live broadcast room play with him. In order to let Zhu Mingjun win, the enemy fans gave him "water" and the friendly fans actively cooperated.
Sometimes there are some bad comments. Some people commented or privately believed that he had obtained the "wealth password" and "sold badly", and he didn't care about these comments. "I think truth is very important, and I also want to send positive energy to netizens."
Two and a half hours of live broadcast every day is Zhu Mingjun's happiest time. "Although I am tired of talking all the time, I enjoy it. Just like a dream, I am afraid it will be fleeting. "
At 9: 30 pm, there were nearly 10,000 online people in the live broadcast room.
Before Zhu Mingjun was injured,
Psychological counseling "is like saving the same kind"
During the interview, Zhu Mingjun repeatedly emphasized to the educational administration teacher that he was a psychological counselor.
Becoming a psychological counselor is also accidental. 20 16 Zhu mingjun read a book called The Bucket List, which mentioned "psychology". "I'm curious, does psychology really change a person's mentality?" At that time, he didn't accept the fact that he was paraplegic, and he didn't want to communicate with others or talk. He is desperate.
From then on, he planted a seed of psychology in his heart. Later, he met his current psychological teacher in paraplegia post bar, which helped him through the most difficult time on the Internet.
On 20 18, Zhu mingjun obtained the certificate of psychological counselor and began to operate at home. When consulting, he is always used to "face-to-face" communication with customers by lying on his side. Face-to-face communication is the most effective way of psychological counseling, "more responsible for visitors." He said. Although it will cause him physical discomfort.
During his nearly three years of internship, he realized that this might be the most suitable job for him. "My experience makes it easy for me to fall in love with customers." He also provides consulting services to dozens of clients. Adults charge 299 yuan each time, and minors and students are free. He also thought about giving this job "Amway" to other patients, but the effect was not good. "Either it's too difficult or he doesn't have the heart to learn."
In the summer when he was admitted to a psychological counselor, Zhu Mingjun went to the local square to give a public welfare speech for the first time. "At that time, I really wanted to escape. I can only bite the bullet and I don't know what I said a few times ago. " Later, when communicating with others, the applause of strangers gave him strength, and he also had a bond with the outside world.
"I have also experienced collapse, pain and despair. I never thought that one day I would help friends with mental disorders as a psychological counselor, just like saving my peers, pulling them from the darkness to the bright world. " He described his occupation like this.
Mother never gave up on him.
"I'm waiting for the day when he stands up."
"Social networking has increased my courage to resist death." He said that social networks make him feel happy in reality, less painful or lonely.
Zhu Mingjun's control over his body is limited to his head. He couldn't breathe, eat, bathe and urinate on his own, and once had suicidal thoughts. Before this special computer, Zhu Mingjun used an iPad. He held it in front of him with a flat bracket, biting capacitance pen and poking at the screen. At that time, he joined two post bars-"paraplegia bar" and "terminally ill bar", and spent most of his time on these two post bars every day.
But now, Zhu Mingjun wants to live, and he still has something he really wants to do. He told the educational administration teacher that he set up his own offline psychological counseling studio this year. "I should make more real friends, not just online."
Zhu Mingjun during the live broadcast
Zhu Mingjun also talked about love. There is a monkey king doll on his computer shelf. As soon as I looked up, I could see that it was a gift from my ex-girlfriend. The two talked for a year and a half. "I still have to accept something for physical reasons."
When his ex-girlfriend gave him a the Monkey King doll, she said that he was this the Monkey King, who was only temporarily pinned down by Wuzhishan and would be rescued by the Tang Priest one day.
In 20 13 years, the doctor diagnosed Zhu mingjun: Zhu mingjun can still live without medical breakthrough 15 years. According to the diagnosis, he has only seven years left.
"If that day comes, the last thing I want is my family. I just want to live the rest of my life, and I don't have much regret when I leave. " He said.
Zhu Mu never gave up on her son. "I am waiting for the day when he stands up, and I firmly believe that one day will come."
(Source: Red Star News)
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