That afternoon, like a flame, it was branded in Dai Birong's life forever. She has had extraordinary glory and painful struggles. In the journey of the years, all the way through the wind and rain, all the way through the sunshine, all the way through Lu Ge.
Dai Birong forgot many details, because she was just a big child at that time. She only remembers being sent to Beijing to attend the 20th anniversary celebration of the National Day. On the Tiananmen National Day viewing platform, she was cordially received by President Mao Zedong together with Long Mei in Miss Prairie Hero. After the ceremony, Dai Birong also attended a grand state banquet. She is in front of the table, which is full of chickens, fish, meat and eggs. She doesn't know what to eat because she hasn't seen many things. An old man advised her to eat, and she asked, "My meal hasn't come yet. How do I eat? " A word provoked a circle of adults to laugh.
In the evening, after attending the state banquet, Premier Zhou Enlai also took her into Zhongnanhai. The Prime Minister held her in his lap and kindly asked her how she was injured, how she would live after being disabled, and what she thought about the future. What moved her particularly was that before going to bed at night, the Prime Minister personally washed her feet, helped her take off her shoes and socks and put her feet in warm water. Looking at the kind face of the Prime Minister, she almost burst into tears. At this time, she deeply realized the heaviness of the word hero.
When I got home from Beijing, everything was calm again. Father said a meaningful sentence to Dai Birong: From now on, you should stop treating yourself as a hero and a disabled person. "A lively little girl suddenly lost a foot and a hand, and her life suddenly became gloomy." However, Dai Birong endured all this with tenacity. "As a disabled person, we must first learn how to live in reality. I learned to stand and walk, to take care of myself, and finished high school; I also learned the housework that a normal woman can do. I have suffered too much. " Dai Birong said that it is every girl's nature to love beauty. In order to learn the simple action of tying her hair, she practiced for seven years.
Because she can only write and draw geometric figures with her chin against her notebook, she was highly nearsighted in junior high school. Her height is also fixed at 1.49 meters. 1976, graduated from junior high school in Dai Birong. Considering that Dai Birong's physical development has been basically finalized, she was given a custom-made artificial leg in Shanghai. The prosthetic leg weighing 4 kg is placed on the wound, and it hurts like a knife every time it moves.
1August, 976, Dai Birong came to Zhuzhou Railway Works Section to report for duty, and she was arranged to work in the reception office. She carries a big stack of newspapers from the ground floor to the top floor every day for more than 20 years. How many falls she has had is countless. At work, she saw that the staff hostel in the office building was managed by several family members. They have a lot of housework, so they have difficulty on duty in the morning and evening, so they take the initiative to ask for accommodation registration, and let them leave the guest house key to help arrange people to stay late at night. In the evening, with amblyopia, she rushed from home to the guest house with one foot deep and one foot shallow, and often stumbled to the guest house to open the door after falling in the mud, which made the passengers very moved. ...
"I have been disabled for 40 years this year. Honor is a thing of the past, but the pain of the body and the hardship of life are eternal. My biggest feeling now is that my body is the first, and health can create everything, but I have made a choice and I don't regret it. " Dai Birong said this calmly. At the beginning of 1979, she received letters from a soldier serving in the Armed Police Force to express her feelings. Dai Birong relented and began to write back to him.
This soldier is Su Guangguo, who lives in rural Liuyang and is an armed police soldier in Xiangtan County, Hunan Province. More than a month later, Su Guangguo, an admirer, knocked on Dai's door and explained his purpose to Dai Birong's father. Dai Birong dressed very simply, jumping around the room with one leg, wiping the table for a while and cooking in the kitchen for a while.
A few years later, Dai Birong expressed her feelings to her husband, Su Guang National Road: she deliberately didn't wear artificial limbs and didn't dress up carefully, telling her that she was Cinderella, not the radiant hero he imagined. But at the same time, she also wants to make it clear: I'm not lame, and I don't want your pity.
198 1 year, Dai Birong was pregnant. Relatives, friends and doctors advised her not to have children. But Dai Birong is very firm: "Although I am physically disabled, maternal love cannot be incomplete!" This winter, a baby boy with sound limbs was born smoothly. But it didn't last long. Child 1 year and 3 months was diagnosed with congenital heart disease. Dai Birong sought medical treatment in many ways and was heavily in debt, but after five months, the child left forever. The death of the child has dealt a great blow to the Dai Birong couple. For a severely disabled patient like Dai Birong, the cost of giving birth to a child is several times that of a healthy woman.
More than a year later, a strong desire to be a mother made Dai Birong pregnant with a second child. Another motivation for her to do so is her husband's love. Dai Birong said, "My husband and I have lived together for several years. No matter what I did wrong, he never blamed me. I am willing to give my life for him. "
Zhiyi is a good boy. Since she could speak, the most she said was: "Mom, be careful, don't fall down." Although she attended various social activities with her mother, Xiao Zhi didn't know what kind of hero her mother was. Once, when he accompanied his mother to Changsha to participate in the "Meet Lei Feng's hometown" networking activity, his son asked her curiously: "Mom, is Dai Birong the little hero introduced by his aunt?" Mom replied, "No, there are many people with the same name." My son thinks it's strange. Until one day, in the ideological and moral textbooks, there were illustrations of Dai Birong's saving lives that year. The teacher told Zhiyi with certainty: "The book is about your mother." Xiao Zhiyi suddenly understood that his mother didn't tell him the truth, just wanted him to go his own way. At the end of 1996, Dai Birong often felt inexplicable pain in his body. She is too sensitive, and something will happen to her body. After her husband went to work and her son went to school, she quietly walked into the hospital alone.
Three days later, the doctor informed Dai Birong to get the test report. The old doctor couldn't bear to speak frankly, and made an analogy: "There is a trick in chess called losing soldiers to protect cars. We have to take action now. " Dai Birong calmly replied, "Thank you. I know what's wrong with me. I'm not as fragile as you think. Just tell me whether the cancer is early or late. I'll see how much time I have to arrange my life. " The husband who learned the news rushed to the hospital from the unit. Holding Dai Birong's hand, Su Guangguo couldn't help crying for his wife's strength.
After five times of chemotherapy, Dai Birong finally stepped onto the operating table. When it was the last straw, she once said to her husband, "I really want to die if you carry me to Xiangjiang!" " The husband comforted her: "so many people come to see you, I hope you can live strong." How can you be worthy of others with this idea? "
Love works miracles on earth. Dai Birong, who is slowly recovering, is more energetic in selfless dedication. Dai Birong's life is not comfortable, but when some companies come to her to hang an honorary title or something, radio and television and other media come to her to advertise, she refuses. Dai Birong said indifferently, "I can't exchange the title of hero for material enjoyment. This is blasphemy." With the help of the society, Dai Birong opened the "Dai Birong Hotline" in its own name. Dai Birong wants to use his experience to help disabled friends or people who live in pessimism. The longest call Dai Birong received was seven hours. From 10 in the evening, she wore clothes and talked into the microphone until 5: 30 the next morning.
Through the "hotline", Dai Birong has made many friends, and she always tries her best to help those in need. Now, Dai Birong has taken the second step: it has set up "Zhuzhou Dai Birong Garment Factory". Dai Birong said that some people may ridicule that "heroes want to go to the sea to make money." She is calm, yes, she needs to make money, too. She has always had a strong dream in her heart, and she can also create wealth to help those who are disabled or destitute, realize equal participation and enjoy life. Most of Dai Birong's contemporary heroes were sent to universities or enjoyed the high treatment of cadres. For more than 20 years, only she worked in the works section in obscurity, and was transferred to the cadre until 1994. Her artificial leg has been used for more than 20 years. It is an outdated style and can't bend at the knee. Her physical contact is often made bloody and deformed by artificial legs. Because of economic reasons, she can't replace the prosthetic limb. /kloc-at the beginning of 0/997, she went to the Great Hall of the People in Beijing to attend the launching ceremony of the book "* * * and the National Model". Sun Changting, the "Ten Jies" youth in Tianjin and the founder of Changting Prosthetic Company, immediately decided to waive part of the expenses and install a new prosthesis for Dai Birong. Dai Birong's life is not easy, but she always regards honor as life. A company came to her as a partner, or hung an honorary title, and media such as radio and television also came to her to advertise, but she refused. 199865438+On February 3rd, with the concern of the leaders of Zhuzhou Municipal Committee, the "Dai Birong Hotline" was opened. She also set up "Dai Birong Studio" and hired five employees to work on the hotline. Through the "hotline", Dai Birong has made many friends, and she always tries her best to help those vulnerable groups who need help. Every time I see those disabled people struggling at the bottom, Dai Birong has a real pain. Now Dai Birong has taken the second step to the cause of the disabled: running enterprises and factories for the disabled. In September 2000, "Zhuzhou Daibirong Garment Factory" was established.