1, don't put too much pressure on your child. The child didn't do well in the exam, and the child himself was very sad. At this time, if parents blame again, it will put more pressure on children, which is not good for future study. Help children find the reason for "failure". See if there is any problem with the child's learning method, or if the child has any partial problems. You can communicate with the teacher properly to understand the situation. Parents should find the crux of the failure before they can prescribe the right medicine.
Parents should not show disappointment and anxiety, because children will always observe words and deeds, and they can feel it. Even if parents don't scold their children, they sigh and frown all day. Children will be infected and stressed, which will affect their study. Therefore, parents should be calm in front of their children's grades and communicate with their children reasonably. Parents should set a good example. We analyzed the problem and finally solved it. Learning is like a marathon. You can't relax a little in the middle. Parents are the children's first teachers and the teachers who spend the longest time with their children. Parents should be proactive and their children will be affected.
Parents should never compare their children with others' children. Some parents are always jealous that other people's children got 99 points. How can you give me 60 points? You are so disappointing that you keep yelling at your children. If the child says to you at this time, "You see someone else's father driving a BMW to work, and you are still crowding the bus", how will you feel at this time? Praise the child's progress. Even the worst children have their own advantages. You can praise the child's advantages and then point out his shortcomings. This work should be specific to every detail of life, because every detail of life and study determines performance. The growth of children is a process of continuous exploration and summary.
Parents are children's first teachers, and they are also the people that children trust and rely on most, so parents' educational methods are very important.