Anyone who has been to the temple knows that as soon as he enters the temple gate, Amitabha is the first person to greet guests with a smiling face, and to his north, Darkmouth's black-faced Wei Tuo. But it is said that long ago, they were not in the same temple, but in charge of different temples.
Maitreya is enthusiastic and happy, so many people come, but he doesn't care about anything and doesn't manage his accounts well, so he still can't make ends meet. Although Wei Tuo was a good bookkeeper, he was unhappy all day, which made people less and less, and finally the incense was cut off.
Buddha found this problem when he was looking for incense, so he put them in the same temple, and Buddha Miller was in charge of public relations to meet guests from all directions, so incense flourished. However, Wei Tuo is selfless. He is in charge of finance and is strictly controlled. In the division of labor and cooperation between the two, temples are thriving.
In fact, in the eyes of the master of employment, there are no useless people, just like the master of martial arts, who can pick flowers and fly leaves to hurt people without expensive swords. The key is how to use them.
two
A man went to buy a parrot and saw a sign in front of it: This parrot can speak two languages, 200 yuan.
In front of another parrot, it was written: This parrot can speak four languages, and the price is 400 yuan.
Which one should I buy? Both are shiny, very flexible and lovely. Men wander around, unable to make up their minds.
As a result, I suddenly found an old toothed parrot, dark and messy, and the price was 800 yuan.
The man quickly called the boss: Can this parrot speak eight languages?
The shopkeeper said, no.
This person is strange: then why is it so old, so ugly and so incompetent that it is worth this number?
The shopkeeper replied: because the other two parrots call this parrot boss.
This story tells us that a real leader does not necessarily have strong ability. As long as he knows how to trust, decentralize and cherish, he can unite forces stronger than himself and thus improve his social status.
On the contrary, many people with very strong abilities are too perfectionist and hands-on, and no one can match them. In the end, I can only be the best researcher and sales representative, but I can't be an excellent leader.
Third, as a white-collar worker in a joint venture company, I feel that my ambition has not been appreciated by my superiors. I often think: if I can meet my boss one day, I will have a chance to show my talents! !
A's colleague B has the same idea. He further inquired about the boss's commute time and figured out when he would get into the elevator. He also took the elevator at this time, hoping to meet his boss and say hello.
Their colleague c went further. He learned about the boss's struggle in detail, made clear the school where the boss graduated, his interpersonal style and his concerns, carefully designed a few simple but weighty opening remarks, took the elevator at the scheduled time, greeted the boss several times, and finally had a long talk with him one day, and soon won a better position.
Fools miss opportunities, wise men seize opportunities, and winners create opportunities. Opportunities are only given to those who are prepared. This word preparation is not just talk.
four
A psychology professor visited the madhouse to learn about the living conditions of the mentally ill. After all, it's an eye-opener to think that these people are crazy and act unexpectedly.
Unexpectedly, when I was about to return, I found my tire dropped. "It must be some madman!" The professor thought angrily and began to get the spare tire ready to install.
It's serious. The man who got off the tire actually dropped the screw. Without screws and spare tires, you can't get on!
The professor was at a loss. Just as he was in a hurry, a madman jumped up and sang an unknown happy song. He found the professor in trouble and stopped to ask what had happened.
The professor ignored him and just told him out of courtesy.
The madman smiled and said, "I have an idea!" " He removed one screw from each tire, so he got three screws to install the spare tire.
The professor was pleasantly surprised and very curious: "How did you come up with this idea?"
The madman smiled and said, "I am crazy, but I am not a fool!" "
In fact, many people in the world always show unusual enthusiasm because they find pleasure in their work, which is hard to understand. When many people laugh at them as crazy, others may even laugh at them as idiots.
Stupidity and cleverness are especially a good attitude in China.
five
A doctor was assigned to a research institute and became the person with the highest academic qualifications.
One day, he went fishing in the small pond behind the unit, where the director and deputy director were fishing.
He just nodded slightly. What are these two undergraduates talking about?
After a while, the director put down the fishing rod, stretched himself and walked briskly across the water to go to the toilet.
The doctor's eyes are about to fall off. Floating on the water? Really? This is a pond.
When the director came back from the toilet, he also floated back from the water.
What's going on here? Doctoral students are not easy to ask, they are doctoral students!
After a while, the deputy director also stood up, took a few steps and floated across the water to go to the toilet. Now the doctor almost fainted: no way, go to a place where Jianghu experts are concentrated?
Doctoral students are also very anxious. There are walls on both sides of this pond. It takes more than ten minutes to go to the toilet opposite, and it's too far to go back to work. What should I do?
Doctoral students don't want to ask the two directors. After holding back for a long time, they also got up and crossed the water: I don't believe undergraduates can pass, but my doctoral students can't.
With a bang, the doctoral student fell into the water.
Two directors pulled him out and asked him why he had to go into the water. He asked, "Why did you walk there?"
The two directors smiled at each other and said, "There are two rows of wooden stakes in this pond, which are rotary evaporators. Because it rained these two days, the water just rose below the water surface. We all know the position of this stake and we can step on it. Why don't you ask? "
Education represents the past, and only learning ability can represent the future. People who respect experience can take fewer detours. A good team should be a learning team.
six
A said to B, "I want to leave this company. I hate this company! " "
B suggested: "I raise my hands in favor of your revenge! ! This broken company must give it some color to see see. But now is not the best time for you to leave. "
Ah q:?
B said, "If you leave now, the company will not lose much. You should take advantage of the opportunity in the company, try your best to attract some customers for yourself, become independent figures in the company, and then suddenly leave the company with these customers, and the company will suffer heavy losses and be very passive. "
A thinks what B said is very reasonable. So he worked hard and got what he wanted. After more than half a year's efforts, he has many loyal customers.
When we meet again, B asks A: It's time to jump, so hurry up!
A smiled indifferently: the boss and I talked for a long time and were going to promote me as assistant to the general manager. I have no plans to leave for the time being.
In fact, this is the original intention of B. A person's job is always just for his resume. Only by giving more than you get, and letting the boss really see that your ability is greater than your position, will you be given more opportunities and create more profits for him.
seven
Once a small country came to China to pay tribute to three identical gold people. The golden wall was brilliant and the emperor was very happy. However, this small country is not kind, and it also raises a question: who is the most valuable of these three gold people?
The emperor thought of many ways to ask the jeweler to check, weigh and watch the work, all of which were exactly the same. What should I do? The messenger is still waiting for a return. A great country doesn't even understand this little thing, does it?
Finally, an old minister who abdicated said that he had an idea.
The emperor invited the emissary to the hall. The veteran confidently took three straws and inserted them into the ear of the first gold man. The straw came out of the other ear. The straw of the second gold man fell out of his mouth, while the straw of the third gold man fell into his stomach without a sound. The old minister said: the third gold man is the most valuable! The messenger was silent and the answer was correct.
This story tells us that the most valuable person is not necessarily the most talkative person. God gave us two ears and one mouth to listen more and talk less. Being good at listening is the most basic quality of a mature person.
eight
Before a master performer came on stage, his disciples told him that his shoelaces were loose. The host nodded his thanks, then squatted down and tied them carefully. Disciple turned his back and squatted down to untie his shoelaces.
A bystander saw all this and asked inexplicably, "Master, why did you untie your shoelaces again?" The master replied, "Because I play a tired traveler, I can show his fatigue and haggard through this detail and let his shoes go through a long journey."
"Then why don't you just tell your disciples?"
"He carefully found that my shoelaces were loose and enthusiastically told me that I must protect his enthusiasm and encourage him in time. As for why I untied my shoelaces, I will have more opportunities to teach him to perform in the future. "
People can only do one thing at a time, and only by grasping the key points can they become real talents.
nine
Chen Atu, a farmer from Taiwan Province, has never been far away. He saved money for half his life and finally joined a tour group to go abroad.
Everything abroad is very fresh. The key point is that Chen Atu joined a luxury group and lived in a standard room, which made him very novel.
In the morning, when the waiter knocked on the door to deliver breakfast, he shouted, "Good morning, sir!" "
Chen Atu froze. What does this mean? In my hometown, strangers usually ask, "What's your name?"
So Chen Atu shouted, "My name is Chen Atu!"
If so, for three days in a row, it was the waiter who knocked at the door and said "Good morning, sir" every day, and Chen Atu also replied loudly: "My name is Chen Atu!"
But he was very angry. The waiter is so stupid that he can't remember his name every day. Very annoying. Finally, he couldn't help asking the tour guide, "Good morning, sir!" " What do you mean? The tour guide told him, oh, my God! ! That's a real pity.
Chen Atu practiced saying "Good morning, sir!" This word allows you to deal with waiters with dignity.
Another morning, the waiter knocked at the door as usual. As soon as the door opened, Chen Atu shouted, "Good morning, sir!"
At the same time, the waiter shouted, "I'm Chen Atu!"
This story tells us that the communication between people is often a contest between willpower and willpower. Either you influence him or he influences you, and if we want to succeed, we must cultivate our own influence, and only those with great influence can become the strongest.
ten
There is a rich boy who loves to eat jiaozi. He eats it every day. But he is cunning. He only eats stuffing, and the tips of his skin are thrown into the river behind him.
The good times didn't last long. /kloc-at the age of 0/6, a big fire burned his whole family, and the stainless steel heating water tank turned the evaporator. His parents died in anger. Now that he is penniless, he is ashamed to beg. The neighbor's eldest sister-in-law is very kind and gives him a bowl of noodles for every meal. He studies hard and comes back after three years. He must thank his neighbor's eldest sister-in-law.
Sister-in-law said to him, don't thank me. I didn't give you anything. I put away the tips of the dumplings you lost in those years, dried them and put them in a good sack. I wanted them to plan ahead. I gave it back to you just when you needed it.
Big officer person thought for a long time, for a long time. ....
There is a famous March 8 theory: sleep for eight hours, work for eight hours, and everyone is the same. The difference between people lies in how to spend their spare time. Time is the most affectionate and heartless thing, everyone is the same, which is fair. But people with resources may not be successful, and those who make good use of resources will be successful. Living during the day and developing at night are the requirements of talents in 2 1 century.
eleven
Three people are going to be put in prison for three years, and the warden gives each of them a request.
Americans love to smoke cigars and asked for three boxes of cigars.
The French are the most romantic and want to be accompanied by beautiful women.
The Jew said he wanted a telephone to communicate with the outside world.
Three years later, the first person who rushed out was an American, with a cigar in his mouth and shouting, "Give me a fire, give me a fire!" " "It turned out that he forgot to make a fire.
Then the Frenchman came out. He saw a child in his hand, a beautiful woman holding a child in her hand, and a third child in her belly.
Finally, the Jews came out. He held the warden's hand tightly and said, "I have been in contact with the outside world every day for three years." My business has not stopped, but has increased by 200%. To express my gratitude, I want to send you an old Schleswig! "
This story tells us that what kind of choice determines what kind of life. Today's life is determined by our choices three years ago, but today's choices will determine our life three years later. We should choose to get in touch with the latest information and understand the latest trends, so as to create our own future better.
twelve
Two men met a big tiger in the forest. A quickly took off a pair of lighter sports shoes from the back and put them on. B was so anxious that he scolded, "What are you doing? You can't run away from the tiger even if you change your shoes! "
A said, "I just want to run faster than you."
2 1 century, no sense of crisis is the biggest crisis. Especially after China's entry into WTO, telecommunications, banking, insurance and even civil servants, which we think are very stable and secure, will also face many variables. When more tigers come, are we ready for running shoes?
thirteen
Father and son live in the mountains, and they drive ox carts down the mountain to sell firewood every day. My old father is more experienced and drives in the town. The mountain road is rugged and has many bends. My son has a good eye and always reminds me when he wants to turn: "Dad, turn!" "
Once my father didn't go down the mountain because of illness, and my son drove alone. When he came to the corner, the cow refused to turn around. The son tried every means to get out of the car, push and pull, lure with grass, and the cow did not move.
What the hell is going on? The son is puzzled. In the end, there is only one way. He looked around. No one was there. He approached the cow's ear and shouted, "Dad, turn!" "
The cow responded and moved.
Cows live by conditioned reflex, while people live by habit. A successful person knows how to cultivate good habits instead of bad ones. When more good habits are accumulated, he will naturally live well.
fourteen
Five-year-old Hank and his father, mother and brother went to work in the forest when it suddenly began to rain, but they only brought a poncho.
Dad gave the poncho to mom, mom gave it to my brother, and my brother gave it to Hank.
Hank asked, "Why did my father give it to my mother, my mother gave it to my brother and my brother gave it to me?"
Dad replied, "Because dad is better than mom, mom is better than brother, and brother is better than you. We all protect the weak. "
Hank looked around and ran to spread the poncho on a delicate flower swaying in the wind and rain.
This story tells us that the real strong man is not necessarily powerful or rich, but how much he helps others.
Responsibility allows us to accomplish things, and love allows us to do things well.
fifteen
A scholar went to Beijing for the third time to catch the exam and stayed in a shop where he often lived. Two days before the exam, he had three dreams. The first dream is that he grows cabbage on the wall. The second dream is that he wears a hat and an umbrella in rainy days. The third dream is that he is lying naked with his beloved cousin, but his back is to his back.
These three dreams seem to have some profound meanings, so the next day Shusheng went to the fortune teller to interpret them. Hearing this, continuous shooting's thigh said, "You'd better go home. Think about it, isn't it futile to grow vegetables on high walls? Isn't it unnecessary to wear a hat and an umbrella? " My cousin and I are lying naked in a bed, but back to back. Is it hopeless? "
Hearing this, the scholar was disheartened and went back to the store to pack his bags and prepare to go home. The shopkeeper was surprised and asked, "Isn't there an exam tomorrow? How did you go back to your hometown today? "
The scholar said this and that, and the shopkeeper was happy: "Hey, I can interpret dreams, too. I think you must stay this time. Think about it, isn't it very high to grow vegetables on the wall? " Doesn't wearing a hat and an umbrella mean that you are prepared this time? Lying naked in bed with your cousin doesn't mean it's time for you to turn over? "
Hearing this, the scholar made more sense, so he took the exam happily and got a flower exploration.
Positive people, like the sun, shine wherever they shine, while negative people, like the moon, are different from the fifteenth day of the first month. Ideas determine our life, and what kind of ideas we have, what kind of future we have.
sixteen
The little camel in the zoo asked his mother, "Mom, why are our eyelashes so long?"
Mother camel said, "When a sandstorm comes, long eyelashes can let us see clearly in the storm."
The little camel asked again, "mom, mom, why are our backs so camel and ugly!" "
Mother camel said, "This is called hump. It can help us to store a lot of water and nutrients, so that we can endure it for more than ten days without drinking water or eating in the desert."
The little camel asked again, "Mom, why are our soles so thick?"
Mother camel said, "This can prevent our heavy bodies from sinking into the soft sand, which is convenient for long-distance travel."
The little camel was very happy: "Wow, we are really useful! ! But mom, why are we still in the zoo and don't go hiking in the desert? "
I was born useful, but unfortunately no one uses it now. Good mentality+successful teaching materials+infinite stage = success. Everyone's potential is unlimited, and the key is to find a stage where they can give full play to their potential.
seventeen
Seven people once lived together and shared a big bucket of porridge every day. Unfortunately, porridge is not enough every day.
At first, they drew lots to decide who would share the porridge, one serving a day. So every week, they are full only one day, that is, the day when they share their porridge.
Later, they began to elect a noble person to share the porridge. Power will lead to corruption, and everyone began to try their best to please and bribe him, making the whole clique filled with smoke.
Then everyone began to form a three-person porridge Committee and a four-person selection Committee, attacking each other and wrangling, and the porridge was cold in their mouths.
Finally, I came up with a method: divide the porridge in turn, but the people who divide the porridge have to wait for others to pick up the last bowl left. In order not to eat the least, everyone tries to distribute it equally, even if it is uneven, they can only recognize it. Everyone is happy and kind, and life is getting better and better.
The same seven people, different distribution systems, will have different ethos. Therefore, if a unit has bad work habits, it must be a mechanism problem, and it must not be completely fair, just and open, and there is no strict reward for diligence and punishment for laziness. How to formulate such a system is a problem that every leader needs to consider.
What kind of people do I want to cooperate with?
Someone once interviewed Bill Gates about the secret of success. Bill Gates said: Because there are more successful people working for me.
Chen Anzhi's super success theory also mentioned: first work for successful people, then cooperate with successful people, and finally let successful people work for you.
There are many successful people, but I have never known them in my life and I can't work for them. Let successful people work for me. At this stage, I don't have the strength.
Only cooperation is what I like and appreciate most. I also try my best to cooperate fairly with more people with the help of a relaxed environment and a positive team, and run an anti-risk career for myself in the future. My favorite person to cooperate with should have the following characteristics:
1. Not willing. 2 1 century, the biggest crisis is that there is no sense of crisis, and the biggest trap is satisfaction. People should learn to see the world with binoculars, not myopia. In prosperity, they should strive to find a way out for themselves, in adversity, they should know how to find a way out for themselves.
2. Strong learning ability. Education represents the past, and learning ability controls the future. Know how to learn and feel from any detail and everyone, and know how to draw inferences from others. The most important thing is that learning is actually learning, learning. Learning once and doing it a hundred times can really be mastered. Learning, doing and teaching is a complete process. Only when we reach the level of teaching can we really understand. Besides,
3. Strong action. Only actions will have results. Different actions will lead to different results. Knowing not to do it means not knowing, and doing it means not to do it. If you don't make mistakes, you will make mistakes, because people who don't make mistakes will definitely not try. It doesn't matter if you make a mistake, you must be good at summing up and then do it until the correct result comes out.
4. Know how to give. If you want to be outstanding, you must pay first. A man who haggles over every ounce has only two pounds in his life. Without a little dedication, it is impossible to start a business. You must let others know that you are worth more than you earn, and others will pay a higher price.
5. Have a strong sense of communication. There is no limit to communication. It is more an attitude than a skill. A good team must have the same vision, which can't be achieved in one day. It needs to communicate all the time, from goals to details, even to family and so on. These are the contents of communication.
6. Sincerity and generosity. Everyone has different positions, so it is impossible to ask for the same interests. The key is that everyone should be frank and clear, and don't compromise for perfection. I believe honesty is the best cornerstone of cooperation.
Seven. Have the most basic moral values. Once a reporter was writing a manuscript at home, and his four-year-old son clamored for him to accompany him. The reporter was very angry, so he tore the back cover of a magazine and said to his son, "You put the world map on it first, and then dad will play with you." After less than five minutes, the son took his hand and said, "Dad, I have finished spelling, please play with me!" "
The reporter was very angry: "It is understandable that children want to play, but it is not good to lie. How can you spell out the map of the world so quickly! "
The son is very wronged: "but I really fought!" "
When the reporter saw it, it really happened: No? There are prodigies at home? He asked curiously, "How did you do it?"
The son said: On the back of the world map is a person's head. I spell it backwards. As long as this person is good, the world is complete.
So be a man in advance. If a person does well, his world will be good.
As you can see, I hope that the seven characteristics of cooperation have nothing to do with age, gender, appearance, weight, education, background and ability. Because the biggest difference between people is not the above factors, but the different attitudes towards people and themselves. I also hope to make friends with * * * and create our future together.