Liu Shufen committed suicide. Whose fault is her death?
Did her husband Xu Bochang force her to death? She devoted all her youth and love to saving money for college. She thought she could wait until that day, have a party all the way, and he would marry her. Because they used to love each other, and there were harps and songs on the porch, he promised to give her a lifetime. But Xu went back on his word, and finally Shufen forced him to marry her.
After the marriage, Mr. Xu continued to protest indifferently against the marriage that was labeled as "forced marriage". Under the same roof, I am the most familiar stranger. They can't even talk about strange bedmates, because there are two single beds in a room. They use their own cups, rice bowls, and never even eat at the same table. Shufen was so angry that she dropped xu teacher's teacups. xu teacher would rather drink tea with his rice bowl than Shufen's. Indifference and alienation forced Shu Fen from a disgruntled woman into a shrew. She hit him and went to the office to make trouble with him. He didn't fight back or argue with him. Shu Fen received an anonymous letter. After reading it, she accused their family of being a "concentration camp" and a "scum hole", and her emotions accumulated for more than ten years suddenly collapsed.
"Outsiders only saw me hit you and scold you, but didn't see how you hit me!"
"You didn't hit me with your hand, but with your attitude."
"You are kind to everyone, but you turn a blind eye to me."
"The glass is broken. You would rather drink water from your own bowl than mine. Now I'm going to drop your bowl. Will you use me? You won't! "
"You make me feel that I am the worst person in the world!"
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Seeing this, we all know that they live a asexual and loveless marriage. Maybe some people think that Mr Xu is "Chen Shimei" or love rat, who forced Shu Fen to die. Didn't you promise for a lifetime? Why did you change your mind when you came back from school?
Who stipulates that love must be loved for a lifetime? When two people are intimate, when they are in two of a kind, what promises can't be made? Don't say that you can give a promise all your life, next life and next life.
Once, they stood at the same height and had the same view. She is beautiful and capable, and she is a good wife candidate of that era. Xu teacher should really want to spend her life with her. However, after several years of college life, xu teacher has become an elegant scholar who has read a lot of poems, and Shu Fen is also a capable but short-sighted textile factory worker. She can't be arty with Mr Xu. These two people grow up at different speeds in different environments. One is to pursue knowledge, and the other is to devote all one's heart and soul to get him. Shufen can't attract Mr. Xu anymore. If you are not attractive, how can you love? How to give warmth if you don't love? Therefore, Mr. Xu silently protested against the marriage that he no longer loved.
Shufen died of her obsession, and she didn't know how to let go, just for possession. If she knew how to let go, with her beauty and ability, she could have found a man who cherished and loved her and lived a better life. However, she trapped this man, thinking that as long as she is around, there must be a chance to love again. But getting along day and night can produce love? Forced binding will only make the other party more disgusted. Therefore, it is not difficult to understand why Mr. Xu Can is gentle to anyone, that is, he is indifferent to Shu Fen. What she did turned his sympathy and debt to her into resentment.
Shufen died because she looked down on herself too much. To him, it's worthless. However, not all love as low as dust can blossom. A woman gambles all her youth and all her money on a man. This love is too heavy for Mr. Xu to breathe. This love is too humble to cherish.
In love, two people are not required to pay exactly the same, at least not one person. One person's contribution is unrequited love, while two people's contribution is love.
Wang's letter is just a fuse for Shu Fen's death. No matter how mean she is to Mr Xu. However, her innate kindness prevented her from doing great harm to others. Seeing the letter accusing her, she became angry from embarrassment, and the grievances accumulated over the years needed to be vented. Therefore, Wang became her punching bag. She just wanted to vent her emotions. She just wanted to teach the king who accused her a lesson. Therefore, when the crowd was furious and hit the king, they retreated to one side. But things got out of her control. Some people say that Wang was killed. The kindness hidden in her heart made her unable to forgive the disaster she had caused. Because that letter revealed the nature of their marriage, she was completely desperate! So, I chose to commit suicide!
If everyone's life is a drama, the general director is ourselves. Who do we invite into life to be the protagonist? How to perform the play? Is it a tragedy or a comedy? The director has the final say, and the actors can only try their best to cooperate.
Therefore, Shu Fen directed the tragedy of her life with obsession! It was she who cornered her.