First of all, for those who choose flash marriage after meeting each other through blind date, they may not know each other well enough. Blind date is equivalent to an ignorant first meeting. It is very likely that after knowing each other's appearance and some superficial information, they decided to get married. In this case, after marriage, the two parties may find that there are differences in hobbies and values of life, which may lead to contradictions and conflicts. For example, Xiaoming and Xiaohong were introduced by friends on blind dates, but after they got married, they found that Xiaoming likes to stay at home, while Xiaohong likes to go out to socialize. This uncoordinated living habit may lead them to quarrel and stress.
Secondly, people who get married by flash may face challenges in economic and family responsibilities. The blind date has only known each other for a short time, and may not fully understand each other's economic situation and family background. Therefore, some couples may find that their financial pressure and family responsibilities exceed their expectations after marriage. For example, Xiao Ming, a promising young newcomer to the workplace. He didn't know much about Xiaohong's economy when he was in contact. After the flash marriage, he found that Xiaohong's family had a heavy financial burden. In this case, Xiao Ming needs to bear more economic responsibilities, but he is not prepared and may face pressure and confusion.
However, not all people who get married on blind date will face difficulties. Many couples found each other in this way and lived happily. On the one hand, the values and life concepts are similar, on the other hand, they are willing to tolerate each other and try to adapt to each other after flash marriage. For example, although Xiao Ming and Xiao Hong didn't know much before their marriage, they found that they attached equal importance to and loved their families in their contacts, so in their married life, they worked hard to run their families, supported each other and had a happy marriage.
In addition, some couples gradually discover their differences through blind date and flash marriage, but choose to compromise and change each other, thus achieving a happy marriage. They realize that marriage is a process of joint efforts of both parties, and it is not perfect from the beginning. By learning and growing from each other, they have fully developed their potential for change. For example, Xiaohong found out that Xiao Ming had no social skills after her flash marriage, but she did not blame or alienate Xiao Ming for it, but encouraged him to participate in more social activities to improve his social skills. In order to better adapt to Xiaohong's lifestyle, Xiaoming joined some interest groups and made new friends.
To sum up, although people who know flash marriage through blind date may face some challenges and difficulties, it does not mean that they will be unhappy. Marriage needs the tolerance, understanding and efforts of both parties. As long as husband and wife work together, get to know each other gradually and improve each other, it is possible to achieve a happy marriage. The success of blind date and flash marriage depends on the communication and mutual compromise between the two sides, as well as the continuous love and care of each other. In the end, only if both parties are willing to work hard to find a solution to the problems in marriage and have enough patience and confidence can they live a happy married life.