Xinyuan draws a conclusion through Nana's description: Nana's boyfriend is a more indecisive man. Therefore, the consultant asked Nana to show her decisive side in daily life, give advice to her boyfriend, help him draw a conclusion faster, and make her boyfriend more and more inseparable from Nana, feeling that nothing can be decided without Nana.
●? Attack skill 2: let men see your good intentions.
Nana's boyfriend likes drinking very much, and every time he drinks it, he feels uncomfortable. Nana quarreled with her boyfriend for this, but Xinyuan gave Nana a new way out.
When a man wants to have a few drinks, Nana Feidan doesn't stop him, but also takes out a cup to drink with her boyfriend. After a few glasses of wine, Nana was drunk. After seeing it, her boyfriend helped Nana to her room. The two of them snuggled up to each other and fell asleep.
The next day, Nana told her boyfriend that she was actually pretending to be drunk, in order to let her boyfriend drink less every time and not hurt herself.
This time, the boyfriend not only didn't get angry, but also thought Nana was smart and sensible.
●? Attack skill 3: create a man's home atmosphere
Xinyuan also taught Nana a trick, that is, let men help when cooking. Nana did as the consultant said, and asked her boyfriend to help peel garlic when cooking. When two people are busy together in this small space in the kitchen, Nana said:
"I think we are so happy. Do you think we look like an old couple? "
This warm family atmosphere also moved my boyfriend. After Nana cooks, he will automatically come and help, and the relationship between them is getting better and better.
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Become a sensible daughter-in-law
Xinyuan told Nana that since your boyfriend's parents are against your feelings, you should not take the initiative to mention each other's parents, and don't provoke contradictions between the two sides, otherwise men will only feel more pressure.
Nana did as the counselor said. When her boyfriend's parents came to visit her son, she asked her boyfriend to hurry over and prepared a small gift to tell her boyfriend:
"When the old people finally come over, you should spend more time with them. This is a small gift for you. Just say you bought it, don't mention me, or parents won't accept it. "
After listening to Nana's words, her boyfriend felt that Nana was sensible and a little sorry for her, and then his attitude towards Nana became better.
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During the Spring Festival, Xinyuan asked Nana to test the man's attitude, so Nana asked, "Do you want me to accompany you back?" The man was silent, and Nana didn't continue to ask.
So when the men came home, Nana lived alone in their house. She is very active during the day and goes out to socialize with friends. In the evening, she secretly felt sad and lamented that she was alone for the New Year. This is also Xinyuan's idea of Nana.
Normal social interaction during the day makes men understand that Nana has lived a full life without him. But it can't be too exciting, so the occasional sadness at night also arouses men's sympathy.
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Retreat for progress, arouse men's sense of responsibility
Years later, Xin Yuan took the opportunity of Chinese New Year to let two people chat. She taught Nana such a set of words:
"We have known each other for so many years. I have done a lot for you. Maybe you won't remember, but I keep everything in mind. I do, because I love you. The new year has begun again, and I will continue to love you. Although it is a little hard, I will work harder. We may not be the most attractive to each other, but I believe we must be the most suitable. "
After listening to this passage, the man was also very moved, so Nana continued to use another trick taught by the counselor.
Nana took out two watches and said that she would make a New Year's resolution with her boyfriend. Nana cried when her boyfriend started thinking about the New Year with a watch. When her boyfriend asked what was wrong, Nana said:
"I don't know if I should fill in some plans, but I have no confidence at all and feel a little lost."
After listening to these words, my boyfriend understood Nana's meaning. He was moved by Nana and told Nana that he could fill in any scheme he wanted, and we would get the certificate tomorrow.
Nana suddenly relaxed when she heard this sentence. Although men used to perfunctorily promise her to get a certificate, they always had various excuses, but this time Nana felt his sincerity. Sure enough, this time, the two successfully obtained the certificate, and the man promised to give her a romantic wedding.
Xinyuan, who knows the news, is also very happy for Nana. These days, she has seen Nana's pain, and occasionally her emotions will be repeated. Xinyuan has also been venting with her, but it is gratifying that Nana's efforts in the past few days have been rewarded with the best.