1. Asking for support: Talk about your predicament with friends and relatives around you or other trustworthy people and listen to their suggestions and support.
2. Seek counseling: You can seek counseling from a psychological counselor or family therapist, who will provide professional guidance and support to help you solve family conflicts.
3. Join a support group: Join some family support groups or community organizations to share experiences with people with similar experiences and gain mutual understanding and support.
4. Seek legal aid: If the contradiction involves legal issues, you can consult a lawyer and seek legal aid.
5. Accept mediation: if necessary, you can seek family mediation services, and professional mediators can help family members resolve conflicts. Most importantly, don't take the problem to heart, actively seek help and communicate with your family, so as to find a solution to the problem.
Matters needing attention in handling family conflicts:
1. Stay calm: don't get too excited and lose control when you have conflicts with your family. Keeping calm helps to deal with the problem better.
2. Find out the root of the contradiction: find out the root behind the contradiction and try to solve these problems instead of just dealing with the superficial problems.
3. Respect your family's opinions: Even if you don't agree with your family's opinions, you should respect their opinions and positions.
4. Seek compromise: Family conflicts need to be compromised by both parties, and some concessions and compromises should be made while seeking solutions.
5. Communication: It is very important to communicate with your family properly to avoid estrangement and misunderstanding.
6. Maintain equality: When dealing with family conflicts, we should maintain an equal attitude, and don't treat our family strongly because of our sense of superiority or high status.