Bitter coffee with sugar
As a fashion group, office white-collar workers are the easiest to bring clothes into the office, as if only in this way can they decorate their busy and fulfilling work. And this kind of office inevitably has some particularity that others don't have because of its special occasion. First of all, whether you admit it or not, these episodes are in line with the office schedule. The work began, and the affection between them began. It's so sweet to smile at each other and say something that only they can understand. A day's work has passed so sweetly. With the arrival of the off-duty time, it will go out like an office light. They go home, do nothing, and never pay attention. To put it bluntly-no one is serious! Then there is this kind of deception. It seems a bit too serious to say "cheating", because the parties have never cheated each other, knowing that the other party already has a family, or is already taken, but they just don't refuse, and they are even more unwilling to refuse this feeling, so they attract each other and enjoy this "rare", but their other half doesn't know anyway. Don't be afraid when you read this. This is different from extramarital affairs in the general sense. Both sides seem to be masters. They can grasp this "degree" very well and will never affect their true feelings. They still love their wives or boyfriends and are still loyal people. But it's like buying something at a discount, buying one for free and having fun at the same time. Why not? !
Of course, there are countless successful moves out of the office, but in spite of this, the office is like coffee with sugar, and no amount of sugar is bitter! ! ! ! ! (BIP)
Office love is half good and half bad.
One advantage of office romance is that it saves you a lot of time looking for a date. Since your workplace is full of beautiful women, why are you still searching around the street at night? This is a good way to save money and time.
Another advantage of dating people you know in the office is that you spend enough time with them to get to know them. This means that you don't have to worry about finding the other person disappointing you at all. Not only that, even if you don't have considerate, intimate and romantic feelings, at least, you don't have to rush to pick her up after work, sleep for two hours in the morning to send her to work, and don't have to worry about adjusting different schedules-you can always "advance and retreat together". As long as you are not afraid of being discovered by your colleagues, dating such a person can at least save a lot of gas money or taxi fare. Of course, if you choose to date the office at the same time just to save the fare, it would be a bit too depraved.
The disadvantages of office romance are also obvious. First of all, no matter how smooth your relationship is, your environment is a "destructive hand". Both sides are together day and night, which is likely to further intensify some minor frictions. No matter how good the relationship is, it needs to be separated for a period of time, so that both sides can do their own things well.
Jealousy is also one of the things that bothers you. Since you have to keep this relationship a secret, other colleagues are likely to tease your partner without knowing it. You should always remind yourself that this kind of flirting is very common in the office. You can't keep a secret if you can't keep a cool head.
To sum up, you must be fully prepared before you start choosing the object to play homophonic with you. If one day you decide to break up, how should you face the embarrassing scene that follows? To this end, you need to evaluate the date you choose, see their position and think about the consequences of breaking up. (Sui Yi)
Don't quit because of this.
As an account executive in an advertising company, I often need to cooperate with other departments of the company, so in the process of cooperation, there is a story about my boyfriend and me. He is a designer. At first, none of us despised anyone, which was a bit like an office story. Be sarcastic when you meet. He satirized me "not only because I am ugly, but also because I have no temperament". I sarcastically said, "If young people gain weight, they will definitely achieve great success ...". Because every time we are tit for tat, we can rhyme together, so many colleagues say that we are "talented and beautiful" and wish us to be the first couple in the company. At that time, we scoffed at it. Unexpectedly, over time, we talked a lot, and our competition developed to the point where everything was said. But because we are colleagues, none of us broke this paper, so the days were forgotten by laughter.
The process of falling in love may be similar. Later, my work was greatly frustrated and my mood was extremely low. He comes to accompany me every day and encourages me. During that time, seeing him was simply the only purpose for me to come to work every day. Finally, when the setbacks passed smoothly, our relationship became better and better. I think it's because I started as a partner and saw all the shortcomings of the other party with a very critical eye. Now I find that this man with many defects still has so many advantages and is so cute. If nothing happened later, I really feel very happy and lucky to be with him.
The company I work for is not suitable for the other party to know because of some trade secrets or rumors, but it can't offend the other party and compete openly. So it's already in a state of explosive, but a veteran of that group has a tense relationship with my boyfriend, so it's not good for me to have rumors flying all over the place, which makes customers embarrassed.
In order not to affect the overall situation because of my carelessness, the boss gave me a "dead order": I was not allowed to have any contact with him for six months, and my opponent was not allowed to find an excuse. I promised verbally, but I couldn't actually do it. This incident made me doubt my boss's respect for me. How can I give up my happiness for some irrelevant reasons? So I decided to resign. However, since I resigned, I haven't found a job that is also suitable for me. I am very upset. My boyfriend wants me to play Fly Together with him.
After this incident, I feel that whether the relationship is successful or not, resignation is the best policy. As important as bread, never give up your career lightly. Don't make a move unless you have arranged the next step. Moreover, resignation is undoubtedly a declaration of "there is no silver here, 320", so that everyone knows that your "relationship" with him is extraordinary. (Nan Li)
Click on the office
Dating colleagues at similar levels: Your competitive situation at work may hurt your feelings. Once the relationship breaks down, only the problem of developing their respective careers remains, and both sides will feel very uncomfortable.
Dating subordinates: Others may accuse you of being partial. If the relationship breaks down, you may be accused of sexual harassment.
Dating your boss: You are at greater risk of losing your job, because women who associate with your boss will lower your professional reputation.
◆ The office is only suitable for cultivation, not for growth.
Men and women in the office are always subconsciously expecting something to happen.
It's very real in the office, and the advantages and disadvantages of the other party are within their own vision. There is nothing illusory, which is quite reassuring.
As the saying goes, rabbits don't eat grass beside their nests. There is such a piece of green grass in front of us, which is pleasing to the eye. Once swallowed in the stomach one day, the chewing process may be full of fragrance. After chewing, there is no more beautiful scenery in front of you, but you have a pair of eyes that make you no longer free.
Work is boring enough, a little story, a little concern, a little thing, no big deal, what's the matter!
The person I love most is right beside me.
I have threatened everywhere that I will never join the "husband and wife party" again. I think it is the most boring thing for husband and wife to be in the same office: knowing the same people, studying the same documents, eating the same meals, coming to work together, leaving after work together, buying food on the way and cooking at home. Even friends and enemies should gradually be different. Just thinking about it is extremely boring. But in the end, after a long time, where can I find such a good person? Get married! Get married!
Li and I are colleagues in the same office, and we have a good time working together. After work, Li will make carp and I will mix cold dishes. We often have a good meal and sometimes go out for a walk to keep in good shape. Every time I leave, I tell Li like a declaration that I will never marry someone in the same office, and I want to live a colorful life. Lee always smiles, but he doesn't mind. Time passed slowly, and a colleague asked me privately, "Have you talked to that soldier?" I was shocked and then flatly refused. I decided to alienate Li, but it seems that I can't alienate him in the same office. But Li sensed the change in my attitude and his smile began to feel a little uncomfortable.
One night, he asked me to go out for a walk with him. We haven't walked together for a long time. I also miss Li's humor. I'm tired of fighting with myself, so I agreed. There is a hillside behind our unit, and the two of us are wandering on the hillside. I am happy to walk alone, but I tell myself that my happiness is not because of Li.
Li finally spoke: "I was introduced to a girlfriend this morning, and I told him that I already had one."
I was shocked: "You have? Why haven't I heard of it? "
Li walked on without looking at me: "I told him it was you." I came to see you today because I want to know if you have me in your heart. If you like me, I can transfer immediately, so we are not colleagues. If you don't like me ... "
He paused: "Of course I still like you, but I will try my best to move so that I don't have to see you every day."
My heart suddenly warms up and there is a great joy.
I said, "It's not that easy to turn. What should I do if you can't transfer? " Besides, you also like this job. "
"If you can't adjust, it will prove that God let us be together."
"Why are you such a rogue?"
"I like you for a long time." Li took my hand.
"People will laugh at us," I whispered. "I clamored every day not to marry people in the same office, but I broke my word."
Li said, "A girl should marry someone who loves herself. You're just very lucky. The person who loves you the most is around you, so you don't have to bother to find it. "
Office, who said it would end badly?