In the fourth program of the fifth season of Qipa Shuo, Zang first talked about marital infidelity, saying, "At that time, both of them thought life was really bad. After chatting for a long time, I put down my ring and left with my backpack. " Such a trivial sentence is right. "Before marriage, I asked my partner to add my name to ta's room book. Is there anything wrong? " From the debate. Facing the argument, Zang first asked, "Are you married? Ever been divorced? Have you ever been on a hot search for divorce? " , caused a burst of laughter.
This sentence is really funny at first glance, but after it is funny, people can't help but feel that divorce is a very glorious thing. Is the hot search on divorce worth showing off?
You know, a few months ago, Zang's divorce made a lot of noise. At that time, Zang was suspected of cheating on his marriage. Curious people who eat melons found that their wives and mistresses were in peace, subverting everyone's three views. When things reached a climax, Zang and his ex-wife issued a joint statement in Weibo, saying that they had broken up peacefully and the matter was dropped.
The most terrible thing is not that a person has done something wrong, but that after doing something wrong, he doesn't know where it is wrong, even when telling jokes, he has no intention of repentance and doesn't feel that he is outrageous.
I don't know when the times are developing and people's hearts are impetuous. Many things can no longer be measured by traditional standards. Many men, like Zang Hongfei, threatened that "one side is pragmatic and the other is romantic, and I will always choose romance;" One side is an egg, and the other side is a stone. I will always choose an egg; On the one hand, restraint, on the other hand, freedom, I will always choose freedom; Money on one side and love on the other. I will always choose love. " This makes sense at first glance, but in fact it is evading responsibility under the guise of true temperament.
Imagine, since a person wants to have sex and always obeys his own heart, why should he get married? A marriage certificate symbolizes not only the true nature of "I love you", but also the responsibility to a family and even a society. If an adult can't even do basic self-discipline, please don't hurt others. Feelings are real, but it doesn't mean you can ignore morality and the bottom line.
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Your circle in September is never peaceful.
On September 2, CEO Liu's report of sexually assaulting female college students swept the major media. At that time, and JD. The stock of COM plummeted, and the sister of milk tea went on a hot search, and was called "matcha sister" by netizens. She was laughed at for her figure. ZhangZetian remained silent until he updated his circle of friends on the 24th, saying that "as long as a family is together, it is a member." .
On September 10, Shen Lijun, the first beauty in Shanghai, jumped off a building, ending her 35-year-old life. At the last moment of her life, she left a suicide note of tens of thousands of words, each with blood and tears. What killed her was not a terminal illness, but an unfortunate marriage.
Around the Mid-Autumn Festival, actress Chen Yulin said in a circle of friends that she and Wu Xiubo were lovers and fell in love for seven years. And according to her description, in seven years, two other women had sex with Wu Xiubo, and Chen Yulin said that she suffered from depression. Such a dose of "breaking the news" is undoubtedly a bolt from the blue for fans who are addicted to "the design of a loving man". At this point, the design of "Uncle Yuppie" in Wu Xiubo collapsed.
The heroines in the story are all amazing. No matter where things go, there is always capital for a fresh start. As a beauty queen, ZhangZetian chose forbearance. Shen Lijun has an innate advantage. She was well trained in the later period, at least she was a self-reliant star. But when she found out that her husband was wrong, she chose to forgive again and again, which caused an irreparable tragedy. As a talented singer, Chen Yulin chose to "fall in love" openly, but at the same time she ruined her future. I don't know how much injustice she has suffered in the past seven years.
It is true that everyone has the right to choose when meeting love rat, but don't hurt yourself. Whether a man really loves you or not, you should love yourself the most! You can love, but you should know how to stop loss in time!
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These two days, the same hot search was "Yuqi Zhang Divorce". And Wang Xiaofei slapped each other, forcing Wang Quanan to kick the car door, drawing a sword and shooting Yuan Bayuan angrily ... The first time he used his hand, the second time he used his foot, and the third time he used a knife. Every time Yuqi Zhang broke up and divorced, he never wronged himself.
At the "Tucao Conference", Yuqi Zhang said frankly: "I really dare not look into men's eyes." There is not a trace of regret in the tone. Since entering the public eye, she has always been a walking mistress, hitting her face when she doesn't agree with a word, and separating when she finds that a man is wrong. This efficient posture is even better than that of men.
Kafka said, let's talk about distant things and see them most clearly.
If you look at Yuqi Zhang from the perspective of traditional women, what would you say? You are 3 1, and you dare to divorce? After giving birth to two children, the other party made no mistakes in principle. Didn't you just lie that the rented house was bought and you were going to get a divorce? Even if you don't think for yourself, you have to think for the children. How can a child not have a sound family?
But she's Yuqi Zhang! How many women are trapped in the eyes of others, live for public opinion and compromise again and again. Only Yuqi Zhang understands that a bad marriage is worse than being single. More importantly, she is a completely independent woman who can say "I marry you" to Wang Quanan.
How many women just cry, beg and give in when something goes wrong? I don't know that once there is a second time, a man loves you or not. You are obviously the first to know, but you forget your original intention in the daily necessities, so that the other party can ruin yourself and humble yourself to the dust. Love is the mutual understanding and support of two people, not the retrogression and forgiveness of one person.
Smart girls, no matter what will happen in the future, please remember to stay awake, love yourself the most and stop at the right time. We should all believe in love, and we should also believe what Teacher Wei said-"Men are all big pig's hooves". There is no right or wrong in love. What is more important is to protect yourself.