-The pursuit of Happyness.
We all live in a "arranged" world, from the first breath of birth, to the first sentence you learn to say, and then to the civil rights given to you by society. Everyone starts like a car on a factory assembly line. After assembling, they left in a hurry. From then on, they drove to different lanes and went to different scenery. They will meet canyons and mountains, cross rapids and shoals, and have a sunny Wan Li. It's just that when happiness comes, the place you go is not the paradise in your heart.
Anyone who has seen Chasing Happyness should be deeply impressed by the role of Chris played by will smith, especially his unusually firm eyes, like the fighter in erin brockovich, which bring hope to every bright day before going on the road.
The film is adapted from the autobiography of chris gardner, an American black investment expert. Since its release in 2006, as an inspirational film, it has infected groups of people who struggle for their dreams. It is Chris's ordinary identity and extraordinary achievements that arouse everyone's inner voice, much like countless people who insist on life.
Here I will talk about my understanding of this film from a personal point of view.
At the beginning of the film, Chris is sitting on the bench of the bus booth waiting for the bus with the bone density detector he runs for every day. This machine attracted the attention of a white tramp. The white tramp should have received a certain cultural education before, and may eventually become a homeless person for various reasons and mental illness.
The purpose of tears is that he pointed to the machine in Chris's hand and naively thought it was a time machine. Come to think of it, why didn't we want to put a time machine in Doraemon's pocket when we were young? It's just that time flies now, and we once expected to be mentioned again by an indisputable tramp. However, when he thinks of the past, he will eventually miss that kind of comfort. Chris didn't say anything. Maybe he doesn't have time to miss the past or the capital. He can't be distracted by his livelihood, and he can't even show a moment of fatigue. After all, he is facing his wife and children and his own ideals.
The so-called ideals all serve reality, and Chris is attracted by this "successful" person who drives a red Ferrari and wears high-grade shoes with customized suits and ankles. Unlike ordinary people who admire this scene except envy, Chris is more ambitious and has a strong interest in the way this person succeeds. In fact, at this point, we can see the potential of Chris. Social bovine disease should refer to people like him. He also got important information after chatting with a stranger with a smile and ridicule:
1, stockbroker is a profitable profession.
2. The post conditions are not high, and there is no need for professional qualifications such as college graduation.
3. Sensitive to numbers and good at communicating with people.
Now, let's see if these three messages are almost tailor-made for Chris. Although his digital talent will be reflected in some details later, we can clearly define his position and seize the opportunity in such a short time, and we can savor the truth.
It is essential to leave a good impression on the company HR, including the importance attached to the company and this interview. This link to mention a tester is definitely a reduction. Chris knows these basic business etiquette, but the machine is fixed, your idea is simple, but people's hearts are fickle. Chris thought that by giving some rewards to street singers, he could ensure the thorough implementation of his plan.
However, the reality gave him a good first lesson, don't think about others subjectively with empathy. Facing the naked value choice, the wandering female singer can judge whether honesty is valuable or not without much thought, so Chris runs most of the time in the film, chasing this machine and her basic life guarantee.
Let Chris, who runs around the world, run for a while first.
Think about it from another angle. If it were you and me, what would you choose when life was so difficult? Do you go home and complain about social injustice, or do you complain about others, or do you lose yourself?
The accumulation of these numerous setbacks, coupled with Chris's attitude in dealing with problems, is his spiritual charm. After all, no one knows the old saying, "Heaven has given us a great responsibility.".
So this time, as usual, Chris only regarded it as a hardship on the road. If it is a stone, it will be kicked away. If it is a river, it will cut waves. If it is a mountain, it will turn over without hesitation.
We can see the real strength of Chris from the method adopted by this company. The man with a Rubik's cube and a surprised face in the picture above is Tostel, the director of personnel department of Witter Company. After Chris didn't hear from him for a month after submitting his resume, he decided to "bump into" Tostel downstairs.
Sure enough, when dealing with special problems, if the normal strategy doesn't work, it's better to take the initiative than wait. Chris waited for this opportunity well, but it doesn't mean success. He can occupy other people's time in a special way. At most, he has an impression of you in his mind. To achieve his goal, let others remember you and even appreciate you, he still depends on his long-term reserves. Chris caught these two points.
It's time for Chris's stage, because he got into a taxi with Tostel. In the first half of the time, Chris normally recommended his personal experience and attitude, but for Tostel, who is a personnel officer, these things have been repeated in his ear for more than a hundred times. He just pays attention to the Rubik's cube and nods to Chris from time to time. If this form continues, it won't be cool again.
This little Rubik's cube saved the scene. We should know the final result by Tostel's expression in the picture. Through Tostel's strong recommendation to the supervisor, Chris also successfully entered the company, but don't worry, this is only a probation period. Only when he meets the requirements of the company and successfully passes the exam can he formally become a member of the company. The later test is still severe. So sometimes routine stimulation doesn't work. Try to take another road, and there may be different surprises.
This scene is a conversation between Chris and his son on the rooftop basketball court.
"Don't let others tell you that you can't be a talent, not even me."
Once again, as a father, I told my son and everyone who went to the movies. For ideals, we must work hard to realize them, and for rumors, we must learn to stick to our original intentions. Chris didn't preach to tell his son some big truths, but practiced and explained to his son what persistence meant through actions throughout the most difficult days.
Chris is Chris, and the professional quality and business ability here give business partners textbook-style home visits. We can summarize several points:
1, cherish every encounter
Users who contact by telephone are narrow-minded and one-sided in collecting information. Be sure to create opportunities to meet users and enrich their complete image of yourself and the company you represent.
2. Cover up the purpose of your visit.
Through Chris's opening remarks, "We happened to see a good friend around here", the user's vigilance was dispelled. Only when others are relaxed will they be willing to open their hearts and talk to you about something.
Step 3 learn to diverge
Chris was lucky enough to watch the game with his customers by "bumping into" the user again, but when he found a group of friends around the user also present, his "social arrogance" shone again. Because since the user takes you to watch the ball together, through the introduction of the user, his friends around him will naturally not regard you as a repeater next to the harassing phone, hang up the phone and avoid you. Therefore, in appropriate scenes, through the introduction of friends, you can quickly meet strangers.
This moment in the subway bathroom is the darkness before dawn. Chris has used up all his money and can't afford the motel rent any more. Take my son, some personal belongings and, of course, the time machine wandering in the subway station, waiting for the last train to leave and the new sun to rise. Please wait a little longer.
Then ~ welcome!
At this moment, only Chris with tears in his eyes knows what this means. Chris, who was surrounded by cold eyes with a big box, was driven out of the hotel because he couldn't pay the rent, and Chris, who was forced to sleep in the toilet with his son, together with all the disappointments in the past, has passed. Now I can enjoy the happiness brought by this emotion. I have asked countless times where happiness is, so when to knock, that is, now.
The whole film ends with Chris holding his son out of the dark in his arms and reaching the sun, which can be said to bring out the best in Chris' early business.
A few short steps represent Chris's attitude towards the whole life.
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